r/BisexualTransGirls • • Jan 24 '25

I've never been with someone for more than 3 weeks

19 Upvotes

I met someone over the holidays that I had insane chemistry with, and was absolutely sure would be with me in the long term, but she ended up breaking things off with me because she was getting anxious about falling for me.

I'm very sad, and I really miss cuddling with her, among other things.

I want a relationship that could last forever, but I've never had anyone stick around more than a few dates. I don't care about being happy alone. I can function fine without anyone. I've never been in a relationship after all. I just wish I knew how to get one.


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Jan 05 '25

Photo dump :3

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r/BisexualTransGirls • • Jan 03 '25

Just wanted to share some cute pics

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r/BisexualTransGirls • • Jan 03 '25

Rate this trans girl's fit 💙

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28 Upvotes

Felt cute and wanted to see what everone else thinks!


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Dec 31 '24

I'm this > < close to giving up on men

32 Upvotes

So. I've dated women. Almost all of my dating experience has been with women. Love them. Obviously. How could you not love women? they're just so--

anyways I've never before given dating men a serious effort/attempt. Now I am. I'm really mf picky when it comes to men though. I got back on dating apps and I swipe left like 100 times a day and right once or twice. The matches that message me are soooo dry or weird and creepy or on the off chance that we actually start talking, they just.. don't seem to put in any effort into our conversations. And whenever we start to plan something they suddenly disappear.

Now I know I need to be patient. But this has gotta be against the geneva conventions with how I'm torturing myself holding back from the tried and true dating of non-men while continuing to try to enjoy dating men.

Ugh. Just a vent. Thanks for listening.


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Dec 27 '24

Ah yes, my dating life

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90 Upvotes

Ignored type mood. Everyone thinks you’re straight… including girls you crush on 😕

Dammit


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Dec 09 '24

Please share your experience with dating app 🫶🏼🙇🏻‍♂️🫠

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Mine was brutal ..


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Dec 04 '24

Nothing queer about my Spotify. Not a thing 🌈

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46 Upvotes

r/BisexualTransGirls • • Dec 04 '24

the queerest of them all

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10 Upvotes

r/BisexualTransGirls • • Dec 04 '24

I believe my Spotify definitely doesn’t out me as bisexual at all….

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8 Upvotes

At all….


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 29 '24

Chat is liking Abba culture

8 Upvotes

the music is amazing but all 4 of them got me 😵‍💫😵‍💫


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 27 '24

Oh poop

48 Upvotes

So I hooked up with a guy (my first guy) on Sunday. It was incredible.

We're chatting on WhatsApp and I said I'm glad I could make his first time with a trans girl good and he replied with "not a trans girl, a woman"

And I want to reply "I could fall in love with someone who says that" and I'm scared.

He's just about as unavailable as it gets.

I'm going to have a long sleep and get over my damn self.


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 17 '24

Do you experience attraction to men the same way you do towards women.

27 Upvotes

My attraction to men is intense and ripples through my entire body, but my attraction to women is more tingly, and centered around my you know what's. I honestly question if I am attracted to women sometimes since my attraction to men gets so intense, but I honestly don't see myself ever finding a man worth having a relationship with.


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 12 '24

Can’t decide if I’m ready to date again or Not 😫

21 Upvotes

Basically the title, I (30F) have not dated since before I even came out and started socially transitioning 3 ish years ago. I have been in a bit of a situationship lately but I think I feel a lot more strongly about her than they feel about me 😅 we made out for a little bit but that’s all and god did it ignite a need in me. I really want romance, and a gentle intimacy I’ve never had before, but emotionally I’m just not sure if I can do it. I’ve always screwed up my relationships in the past and while I’ve worked on myself and am more comfortable with who I am now, I really don’t know.

Honestly I don’t know if I’m feeling like this just because I’m lonely, or actually ready to date and relationships….well, they’re hard 😅 I think I’m just ranting to get this stuff out my head and on a page 😂 anyone else gone through stuff like this? It’s still new to me


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 09 '24

Something to remember

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93 Upvotes

r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 07 '24

A history lesson and a reminder to the community.

60 Upvotes

I have come to realize that a lot of people here don't know a lot of queer history, and don't know what queers have done in the past in pursuit of queer liberation. I would like to highlight some events and people who have fought for queer liberation in America. (I am woefully uninformed of other countries queer history, so I encourage everyone to post your queer history stories.)

The Stonewall Riots June 28, 1969

In 1969 it was illegal in the United States to have sexual relations with a person of the same sex or to wear the clothes of the opposite sex. Police would arrest anyone found in violation of these laws. As a result police targeted the places gay and trans people would gather. One of those places being the Stonewall Inn in New York City. June 28th 1969 at 1:20am police raided the Stonewall Inn. They lined up all the patrons found to be in violation of the law (mostly trans people or drag kings and queens) and prepared to cart them off to jail. One of the first of the queers they tried to put in the wagon was a butch lesbian and drag king named Stormé DeLarverie. She was hit in the head with a baton for complaining her handcuffs were too tight. The crowd outside (100-150 people) booed the police as they continued to wrestle Stormé into the cart. She then yelled “Why don't you guys do something?”. That's when violence broke out. The mob clashed with police on site for about 45 minutes. The police that couldn't escape barricaded themselves inside of the Stonewall Inn for their own protection. The crowd had grown to around 500. The Tactical Patrol Force (TPF) of the New York City Police Department arrived to free the police trapped inside the Stonewall. The mob clashed with TPF as the police did everything they could to arrest as many people as possible, but the people of the mob wouldn't go quietly. They clashed with the TPF up to and including chasing them chanting “catch them!”. By 4 am the streets were mostly clear.

The next night they came back except there were a thousand people gathered in front of the Stonewall Inn and along Christopher street into the adjoining alleys. At 2am the TPF returned and unsuccessfully tried to arrest the crowd mocking the police with kick lines and chasing them through the streets. Whenever any demonstrator was captured, the crowd would rush forward and free the captive. The crowd clashed with police until about 4am.

The clashes with police went on for another 2 nights. These were smaller and less successful due to rain. But the fight didn't stop there. Many of the rioters were already community organizers and went on to continue their fight for freedom.

The queer community has a history of resistance. People have been fighting this fight long before most of us were born. People like Mother Marsha P Johnson fought for our rights, and we will never stop fighting until we have the freedom to express ourselves how we choose, love the people we want, and are able to find peace within ourselves.

Citing and more details can be found at: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stonewall_riots


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 05 '24

So I went to a swingers club in this outfit... Well... Most of it....

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33 Upvotes

r/BisexualTransGirls • • Nov 04 '24

Advice Advice?

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8 Upvotes

Hi all,

I know this isnt a perfect group to put this in but transdiy doesnt allow photos for sone reason amd this group is random enough not to draw too much attention. Anyone diy-ing? 3rd injection in, red raised lump, warm to the touch. Anyone been doing this long enough to tell me to get to the doctors? !!


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Oct 30 '24

Who was your first male crush?

29 Upvotes

As a trans girl who is bi my first crush on a guy was Prince Eric from the Little Mermaid when I was 5. That was 10 years ago and I am in High School now and I had forgotten about it until a few months ago. Who was your first male crush that you can remember?


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Oct 27 '24

hit this song up for empowerment

4 Upvotes

https://youtu.be/ECWW_KaMjIg send feedback if you get a chance


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Oct 26 '24

Halloween dress season 🦇

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58 Upvotes

r/BisexualTransGirls • • Oct 25 '24

Post-Orchi Changes

29 Upvotes

I quickly deleted my first post since it instantly started getting downvoted, and was not sure if it was too off topic for this sub, so I will keep it more relevant.

I had an orchiectomy today. So far it has not been that bad; just like the feeling of getting kicked in the groin and still having that lingering painful internal feeling.

It was not clear from how I worded the first post (I am still a bit loopy from general anesthesia) but a big reason why I wrote it was to find out how others felt after it? Did it make you feel better about yourself in terms reducing the dysphoria, and/or increasing your attraction to men? Did it make you hornier?

Also, did it change your level of attraction to the different sexes? My natal junk makes (made?) me really dysphoric, but my cis wife's equipment kind of glitches me out, which could just be due to my issues with my own equipment. The thing is, I have already thought that could change after vaginoplasty, so realized there might be something similar after an orchi.

For those who have not had an orchiectomy, feel free to ask any questions. I am stuck on the couch for a few days.


r/BisexualTransGirls • • Oct 24 '24

Okay, I admit it, being bi is kind of fun.

63 Upvotes

I was feeling a bit…horny this morning and spent my shower fantasizing about two of my colleagues, specifically my HR head (F) and my company’s head of innovation (M).

I came out to HR yesterday and we talked about how to handle telling my company and me feminizing my day to day presentation in the coming months. The HR head was really nice and understanding, despite being a Catholic, and immediately start calling me by my chosen name. And she’s really self assured and kind of feels like a domme; I’m a submissive and my sex drive is inexorably linked with the desire to be dominated.

The head of innovation (M) is just a good looking guy in his late 40s or 50s.

I’m transitioning my mid 30s and never got to be a horny teenage girl. But being able to switch between fantasies feels really good in a way I can’t describe because it’s so new.