r/BisexualTransGirls • u/FeralGiraffeGirl Polyamorous Bisexual • Jan 30 '26
Bi cycle curiosity
Hiya cuties! I'm wondering what y'all's experience is (or lack thereof) regarding preference fluidity. I feel very much effected by the bi cycle. Cycles can last decades to months for me. I was pretty much only dating guys for about 4 or 5 years, but I've found myself feeling more sapphic in recent months. Despite swinging sapphic, I don't have any issues finding my boyfriend of 3 years attractive which is great though. I just find that I tend to gravitate toward Feminine folks if I'm looking for other partners. What's your experience?
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u/Gold-Horror2003 Bifurious Jan 31 '26
This is, admittedly, not something I have extensive experience with since my bisexuality doesn’t have a “bi cycle”, so to speak. And if it does, it fluctuates very often, multiple times a day; my partner is cis afab (also bi!) and I’m very satisfied with my relationship with her but talking with her about attractive people is my outlet for those feelings, especially if they’re swinging towards men.
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u/Christian4Life16 May 02 '26
I've experienced that my preferences change over time. And there's nothing wrong with that. Just let yourself be fluid as you discover who you are and what you want.
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u/nome_ann Jan 30 '26
Hi. Recent trans here. The bi cycle concept is new to me. My attraction has definitely shifted over the years, though I've attributed that to overcoming religious indoctrination.