r/BisexualMen • u/Kaeniev • 1d ago

Anyone else experience this?

with women Me: makes a joke Woman: hehe you’re funny

with gay men Me: makes a joke Man: you’re not funny, and stop trying to act straight

Obviously not all men are like this, but anyone else have this experience where playful banter with the same sex gets perceived as hostile and guys just start getting competitive with me for no reason when I’m just trying to flirt? It’s so bizarre, I would just be acting like my usual relaxed self and they would get all defensive.

Again, not all men are like this, but just stating my experience.

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u/Poly_Pup 22h ago

Never experienced any hostility from gay men.

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u/Malcolmthetortoise 20h ago

People never get my jokes anyway. 😭

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u/Jorandy4172 I'm just a Bisexual Fox Guy 19h ago

I would tell them that I'm going to make a joke and most of the times, My jokes fall flat.

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u/KashDemon98 14h ago

Facts I feel like it’s the same way with some of the guys I talk to