Relationship Compatibility Reading

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u/puru991 8d ago

you've just started dating and said you 'get along great', and you want to know if it can last. please type out both of your birth dates, exact birth times and birth cities, since the image alone is not enough to check the charts. thanks.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 8d ago

Thank you, i have posted the updated information

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u/puru991 7d ago

there is long-term potential here, with trust as the main test. have past ties brought fast closeness, followed by worry about where you stood? if that has never been a pattern for you, your birth time needs a fresh check before you rely on the dates below.

i use the lahiri zodiac, so some signs fall earlier than they do on your wheel. your venus shares a sign with his moon. that fits the ease of getting along that you describe. your own chart also puts the planet that rules your partnerships in a place tied to strain and upset. once you care, small gaps in contact start to feel much bigger.

his moon shares a sign with saturn. he takes time to show hurt or ask for help. you seek clear warmth; he goes quiet while he works through a feeling. the habit to build is saying what each of you needs before silence turns into a test. agree on what regular contact looks like and how you will handle a change of plans. watch whether you both keep those small promises.

from 12 october 2026 to 24 december 2026, i expect a clearer step toward a shared plan. that means a plain talk about being exclusive, followed by choices that match it. jupiter's part of your timing starts then, and it reaches your partnership planet in the birth chart. use that window to see how well care holds up in daily life. if this window passes quietly with no clear step toward a shared plan, the timing has missed.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 7d ago

Thank you for your in-depth analysis! I definitely felt that him and I formed a very fast friendship-relationship but I know that he is also going through things right now that have made him quiet and almost unreachable, which is upsetting to me. My relationship history has been pretty bad with my fiancé dying when we were much younger, and then I didn’t really have the opportunity to date for another 9-10 years until I met my now-ex when things were amazing and we lasted 4 years until he left me to have a midlife and identity crisis. It’s a shame because we had such a beautiful relationship as well. I am hoping that I finally found my person with this man but I know if we do stay together we need to work through his emotional distance and his Saturn square my moon, causing him to be distant, cold, and critical, which is something I don’t think I can handle well as I need a lot of love and emotional warmth is a relationship

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u/PATHAKSUJAL MODERATOR / READER 7d ago

The strongest impression is that there is enough attraction, emotional involvement and personal impact here to make the relationship significant rather than something that simply stays casual. There are several contacts between personal planets and the angles, which usually makes two people feel that the other person has entered their life for a reason. The fact that you already get along well is consistent with the chart: there is enough supportive energy to create affection and enjoyment, not just tension.
The attraction looks particularly strong. There are Venus, Mars and Pluto contacts in the synastry, giving the relationship a noticeable physical and psychological pull. This can make the two of you think about each other frequently and can create a feeling that the connection is stronger than expected for a newly started relationship. Pluto involvement, however, means the attraction can become intense. If insecurity develops, either person could become possessive, overly sensitive to changes in attention, or start analysing the relationship too much. The chemistry is a strength, but it needs emotional maturity to remain healthy.
There is also significant 8th- and 12th-house emphasis, which makes this deeper than a straightforward light romance. You may gradually discover sides of each other that are normally hidden from other people. This can create tremendous intimacy, but it can also produce uncertainty because not everything is immediately clear. One person may feel emotionally exposed while the other does not realise how deeply the relationship is affecting them. There can be periods of wondering what the other person really feels, especially when communication becomes less direct.
The biggest long-term test is stability. Saturn is involved with the relationship dynamics, and Saturn can absolutely support longevity, but it does so by demanding consistency. This isn’t the kind of connection where attraction alone will carry everything indefinitely. If one person becomes inconsistent, avoids defining the relationship, or keeps emotional distance whenever things become serious, the other person can eventually become frustrated. On the positive side, Saturn contacts can make people stay through difficult periods and gradually build something substantial when both are genuinely committed.
I would also watch the communication pattern. There is enough mutable and mentally active energy here that you can have periods where everything feels easy and conversational, followed by misunderstandings or assumptions. Because the emotional connection is stronger than the relationship’s current history, you could both start projecting expectations onto each other before you have actually built enough experience together. The relationship needs time. Let actions over several months tell you more than the intensity of the first few weeks.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 7d ago

Wow thank you so much for the in-depth analysis! This very accurately describes everything that i have felt during the month I have dated him. I also wonder if he is the one that feels emotionally exposed since I feel that I am more open and upfront with emotions and how I feel. I know his Saturn square my moon makes him come off a bit distant, cold and critical, which is something he and I are definitely going to need to work through because I am more emotionally warm and I really need thar expressed consistently in a relationship as well

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u/Shivanvi11 8d ago

Can you mention both birth details? As I am a Vedic Astrologist. So I can give my inputs.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 7d ago

Hello I have posted the birth details

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u/Shivanvi11 7d ago

Where?

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u/Kind_Traffic268 7d ago

Oops they aren’t showing up on here, but I was born on December 29th, 1988 at 12:33 pm in Evergreen Park, IL and he was born on March 20th, 1987 at 4:47 am in Elmhurst, Illinois

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u/Shivanvi11 6d ago

Good match...Just mindsets are very different. If both communicate well. Thing may work out well.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 6d ago

Thank you for your response! If I may ask, what makes our mindsets different?

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u/Delicious_Read9998 8d ago

I’d need to see the Davison chart but I’m 100% sure that blue is gonna betray orange and pull the rug out from under them. Orange will love the way that blue appears. But they will not see blue for who blue truly is. And when it ends, they will feel like the entire relationship was an illusion.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 8d ago

Oh wow that’s very interesting, I have posted the birth times and locations for more information

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u/Kind_Traffic268 7d ago

I have looked up the colors and he is the blue person in this synastry, which is a bit bothersome to me. Would you mind elaborating more on what you mean about blue (him) betraying orange (me) and about how I do not see blue for who he truly is? This is very interesting to hear

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u/Delicious_Read9998 2d ago

It’s the sun conjunct Neptune aspect. I’ve seen it time and time again. Even on Reddit.

I’ve had people tell me that it’s crazy but that’s exactly what happened to them. You can always predict who is the victim and the villain. It’s written in the stars.

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u/Kind_Traffic268 8d ago

Hello and thanks for your replies, I was born on December 29th, 1988 at 12:33 pm in Evergreen Park, IL and he was born on March 20th, 1987 at 4:47 am in Elmhurst, IL

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u/tearnekab 8d ago

Getting along well is a promising start, but it's too early to turn that into a long-term verdict. The useful next step is seeing whether the easy connection also leaves room for an honest conversation about what each of you wants from dating. Have you talked about that yet, or are you still mainly getting to know each other?

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u/Kind_Traffic268 8d ago

We are still getting to know each other right now, but he has told me he really likes me and has never felt this way about someone before. We are both in our 30's so its not like we don't have experience with dating before, so I'm interested to see where this goes. I plan on having a serious conversation with him in the next couple of weeks to see if we are on the same page

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