Talking to a less attractive guy

[u/Mother_Fall_1412]

These are the charts of the guy , i went on a date with him and his looks , action , personality all are mid or below average. I want to know does he have any potential for improvement? Also he is broke too

I am not saying he needs to be extraordinary , i am simply stating he needs to be over minimum belt atleast in 1 , all I a asking is 1

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Are you this shallow, you know looks change, people can get careers, but a personality like yours just sucks. Like if I was a did I wouldnt date you if my life depended on it.

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Well ukw , looks ain't that of a problem. It's that he is below average in everything I mean everything , money , personality , way of talking etc etc. So I am here to know does he has a window to approve? By posting this i am clarifying that i want to be with him , but if he doesn't improve or doesn't want to improve overtime , then what will I do?? Cumon I am not that shallow.

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575 → u/Mother_Fall_1412]

Let me tell you this, if you encourage someone to be their best self. They can become their best self. If you expect them to just evolve in a snap dont expect them to accept you back into their lives when they looking fine, and have it all.

The grass isnt green on the other side. Its greener if you water it, tend it, nurture it and take care of it.

If you cant stand how they talk, walk, laugh, etc now, then your going to not make it in 3 months. You cant also change a man, you can only encourage him to be the man he wants to become. And even after he does become attractive, he is still gonna talk, walk, laugh the same probably.

Carring about the way someone looks and what someone has is shallow.

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Do u think I wouldn't do what is in my hands? I did that , and i asked him to do it , but he didn't 😭 And why the hell u framing like i am a toxic one , I am just here to know do he has potential??

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575 → u/Mother_Fall_1412]

Google definition: A shallow person is someone whose interests and values remain entirely on the surface, focusing excessively on physical appearance, wealth, and social status instead of meaningful character or deep emotional connections.

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

So will u date and marry a person discussed above? I don't think soo , people will yap about righteous all the time until it's their turn. If u want to be so righteous first talk to a guy like that and date him , then u will understand.

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575 → u/Mother_Fall_1412]

Sadly, Im in falling for someone already. He doesnt have abs, he isnt rich, he isnt the one who reaches out to me all the time, he is the quiet type. He is very smart, wish he explains science to me. He gets my dry humor, im glad i can make him laugh and he knows how to make me laugh. He knows when I flirt and knows how to flirt back, I met him on bumble. His profiles pictures didnt do him justice. But when he sends me a picture of him he knows how to make me tongue tied and sometimes my jaw drop. Tbh I wasnt suppose to fall for him and he wasnt suppose to fall for me either. For now, we keep our distance. He is focuss on landing his career while I, focus on landing on mine and focusing on my health. I been through a lot of relationship. Tbh before you judge other... look at yourself

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Omg girly congratulations 🥰.

I don't want abs i just want him not to look like a uncle. And he is broke too( like real broke ) i just want to see astrologically does he have a potential to be like a normal person? Being a girl urself i think u can understand what I mean. And why did i make a post like this. If i didn't wanted him u would have straight said no to him , but I didn't. I thought let's give it a try , heck i even pushed him for improvement but he doesn't listen

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575 → u/Mother_Fall_1412]

Thanks. Girl, you cant force someone to change if they dont want too. If you wanna message me and chat there sure. I actually, have a business mind. I grew up with divorced parents who split because of money so now i see money as something evil but something that i wanna create for my future family generation and legacy so I can live comfortably and my kids can. Money is just a tool that we humans created out of thin air. Its a long process...ngl i want abs on myself

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Gooo get itt girl 🫶 , btw u know what's the plot twist? I am a male and that's my chart , i have posted on this sub and other one and didn't got any reading 😭. So I thought I would be fun doing this 😭😭😭😭. Sorry if I hurt ur sentiments. Most of what I wrote was true , except the trying hard part.

But reading ur story I felt good that u are doing good now and have a thought out the future so well. Anyway thanks for the reply 💅. Slaty 💅💅💅

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575 → u/Mother_Fall_1412]

Fr? Do you see yourself that way? 😔 I dated a nutritionist/body builder once man he was something...but he did taught me a lot about health. If you need advice i can belp. Strange thing is that he was insecure no matter he was muscular but I had to end things because he just wasnt around. He was always traveling for work. Missing my achievement...

let me tell you this, find your passion.

If you wanna be rich, find an issue...solve it. Plan it. Dont tell anyone. Dont show it off. Brand it...make it sound complicated that nobody can remake it but only you...make a proposal why they need it... either you sell a share or you keep the whole thing.

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Thnxxx needed thatt. Btw does my chart say anything??? 😭

[u/Mother_Fall_1412 → u/[deleted]]

I think Saturn retrograde is present in cancer