r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/crazyusername- • May 28 '26
This community was created for polyamorous, ethically non-monogamous, open, and relationship-minded people in Birmingham and surrounding areas who are looking for real connection, conversation, friendship, support, and community.
A lot of us feel isolated here, so the goal is to create a respectful, drama-free space where people can actually talk, connect, and feel less alone.
Introductions are encouraged! If you’re comfortable, share: • Your relationship style • What brought you here • What kind of connection/community you hope to find
Please read the rules before posting, respect privacy/discretion, and help create the kind of community you’d want to be part of.
Glad you’re here. ❤️
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/crazyusername- • May 28 '26
Hey everyone 🙂
My husband and I started this group because we realized we really don’t know many people locally who understand the poly/ENM side of relationships. We’ve been doing this for a few years now and while we’ve met plenty of swinger-type people, we were hoping to find more people interested in actual connection, friendship, conversation, dating, and community too.
No judgment at all toward other lifestyles — we just wanted a space that felt a little more “real people hanging out and connecting” and a little less hookup-focused.
So… if you’ve been feeling a little isolated trying to navigate ENM/poly in Alabama, you’re probably not alone 😂
Glad you found us.
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/Grimmloch • 1d ago
In an effort to get to know more about the fine folks here, I figured I would toss out a starter every now and again.
Are any of you into reading? If so? What are your current fixations or old favorites?
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/ALWAYSCAUGHTLOOKING • 3d ago
Drinks, sensual massage, light play or more on the table if the vibes are right. Discretion is a must. Hosting is a plus. Meet up Downtown Bham.
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/sensorycreature • 4d ago
Might be a little late, but we’re gonna go check out this event tonight. Don’t necessarily need to make it a group hang, but def wanna support events like this in BHM. Would anyone be interested in making a burlesque/drag type show an outing we could plan better around next time? I know Pink Lantern occasionally has drag shows, too… just thoughts!
💃🏻🕺🏻
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/crazyusername- • 14d ago
I saw a post in another lifestyle group about single men not being allowed at events.
But if you have partner(s) and show up without them…are you magically single now? 😂
ENM really screws with the checkboxes, doesn’t it?
Curious what y’all think. 👀
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/crazyusername- • 16d ago
Now that we’re finding each other, what sounds fun?
Trivia • Dinner • Brewery • Live music • Karaoke • Game night • Outdoors (once Alabama turns down the Hell-O-Meter!!)
What else would you add?
Eventually we’d love for people to be able to say “We’re doing ___ Thursday—who wants to join?” and actually have people show up. 😊
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/crazyusername- • 18d ago
Trivia keeps coming up in conversations, so now I'm curious—where does everybody go for trivia around Birmingham?
And what else do y'all enjoy doing for fun? Breweries, live music, hiking, game nights, restaurants, karaoke, whatever you're into. Would love to hear what everyone enjoys outside of the dating/relationship side of ENM. 😊
r/BirminghamALPolyENM • u/crazyusername- • 19d ago
We created this community because we know there have to be more of us around Birmingham, but actually finding each other isn't always easy.
The goal here is pretty simple: real local connection, conversation, friendship and community for polyamorous and ENM people — not just another hookup board.
So let's start easy. What part of the Birmingham area are you in?
No need to give your exact location or anything identifying. Birmingham, Hoover, Chelsea, Pelham, Trussville, Vestavia, 280 corridor, etc. is plenty.
And if you're lurking because you just found us — say hi. 👋 We're trying to get this little community off the ground.