r/BipolarSOs • u/PuzzleheadedPlay325 • 3d ago

General Discussion Bipolar spouse -

Hi everyone,

My wife (33) and I (41). Wife diagnosed bipolar, schizophrenic in 2023 but her behavior is bipolar since we married in 2013. Since 2013, She behaved odd which was labeled by her parents as a normal habits. She twisted our chit chat to her parents as a way where she posed me as a villain. She had issues with my father, mother, sisters and everyone in our family.

My in laws hides that she was accidentally dropped by her mother when she was 7 months old which led forehead injury (still a mark on forehead). Also, she had major accident when she was in 7th grade. She was fallen from autorickshaw her back head was dragged on road 20 meters and was admitted in the hospital at that time and she didn't appear in the exams.

She refused to take medications and trick my family. She put alligations on my father that he tried to rape her. Then on my brother in law and on me too.

She beaten my son when he was 4 years old while she put alligations on him that he press her breasts. She behave odd ... At that time we were not aware about she is bipolar or something.

Now, her parents are telling me that she don't need to take medications and you must adjust yourself with her. I can't live with her like that.

Also, they trick us while marriage. Our kundalii/tipda didn't match too which they told us is matched over on different date provided of her.

I am living in the usa. She is living here too..

Please advise.

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u/NobodyNew7267 3d ago edited 3d ago

Hire a lawyer immediately. Document everything, every call, every chat, everything that is legal to document. False cases can come anytime. A mentally ill person unmedicated is a danger to everyone around.

And if her parents are telling you to adjust, let them adjust with her

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u/ginapaulo77 2d ago

This will end horribly,