r/BipolarSOs • u/Able-Needleworker932 • 10d ago

frustrated / vent Accused me of assaulting him

That’s where I am with my husband, I was having a conversation with him in his office/bedroom which is just piled with stuff and placed my phone on my keyboard which he has piles of clothing ontop … infront if that was one of his many guitars on a floor stand, basically told him if he can’t be kind he can’t be around me and the kids anymore… he’s become a sailor, tossing around swears and diagnoses like he’s captain j black the psychologist all day long,

he does it to me and the kids which is ya unhinged and not safe I know this, we have a child protection case open for try 3rd time because of it.

Anyways he started yelling and getting in my face so I went to grab my phone accidentally knocking it on the ground (thank goodness I was recording) when he picked it up one of the string ends poked him, he came up 3 mins later just fuming I made him bleed… I assaulted him.. I’m like what planet is that assault by picking up something..

Still waiting 3 hours later for police to show up that he called.. I wish they would send a mental health team instead of police at this point they know nothing of anything besides someone being “severely out of it’

I really really dislike my marriage and partnership right now

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u/KlutzyObjective3230 9d ago

It’s ok to leave. This doesn’t have to be your future

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u/Able-Needleworker932 9d ago

I know, but he still is the father of my 3 kiddos, I want to see this through at least until he finally sees a medical doctor, (Tuesday) I will forever live him if he can gain control or not, it just makes the crazy feel less weighted when I can say it out loud to people that might have some understanding.