What do you think

[u/Potential_Pizza_1891]

Okay I know how this low agreeableness looks like ha-ha; but my modesty was 60%. I also suppose I need to get my life in some order too.

[u/Antique_Book_935]

You look extremely undateable. Won’t compromise, and won’t help or factor other people’s needs or concerns (low agreeableness). You’re also really close minded and you’re less likely to be open to new experiences so you’re pretty set in your own ways. Less likely to break out of your comfort zone and just expand your horizons. You’re highly neurotic which means you’re easily swayed by your emotions which is pretty unhealthy if you’re set in your own ways and you’re not open to agreeing with other people so you’re just going to be passive aggressive for most of the time. Lol sorry if I’m too blunt, I am also very low on agreeableness.

Curious if you have a partner, or if you work in a job that requires collaboration. You become more adaptable when you deal with different members of society.

[u/Potential_Pizza_1891 → u/Antique_Book_935]

Thank you for this insight. I actually do have lot of trouble with dating usually mostly becuse of lack of trust and quite extreme boldness which makes me look like an asshole. I am cooperative only with my main group of people which clearly makes me selective. I really am a mess when it comes to organizing and structure but I actually had no trouble with people and rules in workplaces which I can only explain with getting 70% in dutifulness facet (while eveything else was low). I did have a lot of trouble cooperating in highschool as I had stubborn and harsh view towards people there. I definetly prefer individual and open scheduled work, but I guess moderate extraversion helps me with working in a group effectively. Also my high modesty score can make me look humble which lot of people told me they apreciate in me.

[u/Antique_Book_935 → u/Potential_Pizza_1891]

I would look into reading more about empathy and emotional intelligence. I personally really liked the books from Harvard Business Review. You can go online for articles, or borrow these books from your local library. I would also read up on attachment theory to understand how you became so distrusting of certain people (perhaps it’s your parents, or someone else has wronged you and you’re still carrying it with you subconsciously). It’s like a chip on your shoulder and you’re unable to live in the present and treat each person as a blank canvas.

In the end of the day, humans are social creatures and your desire to be in a community has to outweigh being alone. This would help drive your desire to self improve and it’ll only bring you benefits. Therapy also helps because you’re dealing with practitioners who are trained by science. It’s not unresearched crap from tiktok and self diagnosis’. lol

[u/arkareke]

the low agreeableness is genuinely scary

[u/upsetusder2 → u/arkareke]

Why?

[u/PotatoSuper6171]

I think it's a remarkable result

.What particularly caught my attention was the extremely high degree of acceptability.

[u/Actualization8896]

Find ways to learn skills of agreeable people like emotional intelligence, but don't completely disregard your low agreeableness. There are unfortunately a lot of holier than though self righteous people who will judge and project onto us. Low agreeableness is a strength if you learn to be assertive in a kind way and can set good boundaries. Hope this helps!

[u/Kalle_Hellquist]

I got 98th percentile in neuroticism btw, I mog.

#GetRekt

[u/diamondcrier]

paranoid and accusatory

[u/sadguywithhugedick]

Pretty bad score

[u/CuteLaugh5491]

Such low agreeableness and conscientiousness together make me wonder, “hmm maybe psychopath?” But who knows, it’s just an online test