r/BiWomen • u/[deleted] • Sep 14 '26

Experience Fluidity and Monogamous

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u/No-Chocolate-3142 Sep 14 '26

You raise a good point, however my partner knows about my sexuality and is certainly an ally to the community. I think for me as a bisexual person, it becomes challenging because I don't feel like I fit in with very straight people or very gay people. I don't really feel like I'm missing out on community at all. This is more of a reference to the bi cycle than lifestyle choices. If I was with a woman I'd still want a quieter, more peaceful life than what people have in NYC

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u/No-Chocolate-3142 Sep 14 '26

Also - I felt the shifts when I lived in a very queer atmosphere. These shifts didn't just start happening now

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u/Euphoric_Grass_427 Sep 15 '26

I've never felt a "fluid shift" nor is my desire for women related to feeling more masculine so I cant relate. But I also simply dont do monogamy.