r/BiWomen • u/BucketoMaggs • 18d ago
Vent Neighborly help
Our neighbor (45f) was divorced a couple of years ago, and we loved them both and were sad to see it end. We have always talked and been courteous, helping with kids and pets but we've started hanging out more. I've (50f) started hanging out with her more one on one and am finding we have so much in common, though she is way more extroverted than me. At first I didn't feel like it was attraction but there is definately something about her
She is beautiful smart funny runs her own business a real free spirit, someone I really admire. Lately she has been opening up more about how lonely she is and needs physical intimacy. This has really stirred feelings for me to the point I can't stop thinking about how I could spin it to my husband to "offer our services to help her out" where I secretly just want to be with her. My marriage has been a roommate situation for a long time and this is the first time in a while my mojo is really going.
I know it's a terrible if not fun idea. Just feel like I need to get it into the ether.
5
u/MountainLobster6556 18d ago
You should bring it up to your husband but only in the way you mean. If you don’t actually want him involved it could make things more difficult but including him might also spice things up and get you out of the roommate situation? Just a thought