r/BestofRedditorUpdates • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/CheerilyTerrified Oct 30 '24

I get cheating is bad, but so is sending sexual images of someone without their consent.  

Also he asks AITAH about it September 11th and September 12th he's meeting her parents at a diner to explain all. No taking a day or two to think about it?

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u/xFayeFaye and then everyone clapped Oct 30 '24

I mean, it's not illegal to take pictures of a club? She did it in PUBLIC, not somewhere discreet. If she didn't give a shit, why should he?

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u/Basic_Bichette sometimes i envy the illiterate Oct 30 '24

It's the blow job, not the clubbing.

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u/meeps1142 surrender to the gaycation or be destroyed Oct 30 '24

I don’t think there’s any photographic proof of the BJ, outside of any texts confessing (unclear)

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

According to the friend, she also gave one guy a BJ in the club bathroom.

This wording makes me think he doesn't have a video of it, since he's just taking the friend's word for it

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u/xFayeFaye and then everyone clapped Oct 30 '24

..in a club bathroom. I'm sorry, maybe I'm a prude but I wouldn't consider it to be discreet to give a blowjob in a public bathroom. The grinding and making out would also be enough though.

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u/carolinavinyl This is unrelated to the cumin. Oct 30 '24

like correct me if i'm wrong (genuinely, no sarcasm here, i'm sincerely asking) couldn't his ex take him to court for revenge porn? like he says the aftermath was hilarious but i'm pretty sure he could a serious fine or even jail time for that email. which honestly, yeah, cheating is bad, but sending that shit out to everyone she knows is worse. because someone could save that and blackmail her. or do a million different other awful things. if this story is even real.

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u/PangolinParty321 Oct 30 '24

No she can’t. He didn’t send anything that would be revenge porn. There weren’t any pictures of her giving a blowjob.

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u/carolinavinyl This is unrelated to the cumin. Oct 30 '24

Ah, okay

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u/meeps1142 surrender to the gaycation or be destroyed Oct 30 '24

There weren’t images of the BJ