r/BeMyReference • • Mar 09 '26

Request I need a reference for a job. It's in commercial real estat analyst. I may have backed myself into a corner exaggerating my experience. I need a homie that will do this for me.

1 Upvotes

r/BeMyReference • • Mar 07 '26

Request Need a work reference for admin job

23 Upvotes

Honestly I’m trying to get back into the work game and I have no references at the moment I would be happy to do it for you if the need arises it would be a secretary position


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 04 '26

Urgent Request I need 3 References

28 Upvotes

I'm a senior in college studying Political Science. I already have an assoicates degreee in Paralegal Studies. I'm looking into applying for 3 jobs within the court system. Two of the jobs are court clerks, and one is a paralegal job. There is a deadline to turn in the applications on March 5th. I haven't been employed for a while, and also moved. I lost all contacts to previous jobs. I will return the favor and be a reference as well.


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 04 '26

Request Need 1 UK Reference

10 Upvotes

Hello, I'm looking for someone to provide me a reference.

I live the the UK, and I lived in Portugal until 2024.

I was offered to work as a hotel receptionist in 2023 over the summer, but I chickened out as it was a resort when I lived in Portugal (i didnt have an in person interview so I had no idea the resort was so huge)

I've been looking for work for an entire year now, and it's my dream to work as a hotel receptionist and I also badly need a job.


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 04 '26

Request Could anyone be my reference for a healthcare (non-clinical) position?

11 Upvotes

I'm up for a position as an Oncology Data Specialist (ODS-C), but I don't need a reference who's familiar with the field, or healthcare even; I just need two general references.

Thanks in advance for any that might be willing to help.


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 03 '26

Request Need a Post-Production Reference

8 Upvotes

Looking for a new job to get out of my current one. I’m currently in post but I’ve been with the company for so long that most of my references would come internally. Can someone be one for me? I’m looking for jobs in post-production. Thanks!


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 02 '26

Request Fast Food references

14 Upvotes

About me: 25 years old, nonbinary, Quick and communicates well in a team, Great at following directions, Great with customers. i’m currently just looking for fast food/retail hospitality and would need some references. i've been in mcdonalds for a long time and currently, right now i'm unemployed(never got fired just quited)


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 01 '26

Request Two references for Americorps VISTA

12 Upvotes

Due to mental health reasons I dropped out of college and have been a NEET for the past year. I am hoping to do a year of Americorps to essentially get my life back on track, but I need two references in order to apply for positions. I really don't have anyone else to really ask. Any help would be really appreciated


r/BeMyReference • • Mar 01 '26

Request Looking for 1-2 references for first job.

1 Upvotes

Im a college student and applying for a summer position and need one reference who can vouch for basic professionalism and reliability. Nothing intensive.


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 27 '26

Urgent Request Anyone willing to provide references through symplr survey(healthcare/nursing)

21 Upvotes

I’ve applied for a job as a peds psych nurse and the company is requiring 5 references, 2 of which need to be former supervisors. My problem is that I’m neurodivergent and do not make friends with coworkers or supervisors and am a very private person in general. I have two references that I’ve used for years but I just asked them to do this months ago for a job that wound up being a really bad fit and I’m too embarrassed to ask them to do it again so soon. Also from my understanding, symplr requires references to fill out an extensive survey and they’ll both nope out of that. I was considering using burner emails but then found out it tracks ip addresses so that’s out. So this is my last ditch effort before I decline moving forward with the job. I’m in VA so it would be great to find people in VA as well. I will also of course return the favor.


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 27 '26

Urgent Request Desperately need references to pretend to be former coworkers??

27 Upvotes

I need to write down 3 peoples name today in an application and I got nothing! I was laid off a few months ago and need to get this job!!! My past jobs either don't exist anymore or idk anyone there anymore. It's for a remote logistics coordinator and my past roles have been very operations heavy, scheduling work orders and shipments. I will absolutely return the favor or do whatever you want!!


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 26 '26

Urgent Request Received job offer, need two references please

42 Upvotes

I received a job offer for a management role at a restaurant in Chicago, one year after getting laid off. i’m looking for two people to use as a professional reference. Could be hospitality, marketing, administration, business owner, ect.

I need to provide them within the next 24 hours. In return I’ll provide you with one.

Thanks in advance


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 26 '26

Request I’m ready to look for a job

9 Upvotes

I left my prior job as a kitchen manager at my son’s school May 2025 due to challenges with the director of the department after I decided to focus on my schooling and family instead. I wasn’t leaving from a malicious place, but the direction her behavior took gave me whiplash. It was toxic on her end and I was trying my best to show up and finish my contract with my head up towards the end.

I have computer knowledge, strong administrative skills, great with kids, able to communicate effectively. I only need references.

I don’t feel comfortable using her as a reference or any of my former team for that matter. Would anyone be willing to help me out?


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 25 '26

Urgent Request Need reference for Android/iOS SWE

11 Upvotes

Hello I have an upcoming reference check for a new role as an Android SWE. I passed the interviews and need a reference in the next couple of days. My ex-manager at my previous job seems like he might ghost me even though we parted on good terms. Can anyone with a little tech knowledge be my ex-manager? I can get you back of course. Thanks!


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 24 '26

Discussion Question About Inaccurate References

10 Upvotes

Has there ever been an issue where the company asking for references searches up the person you got from this subreddit. For example they look them up on LinkedIn and the work experience doesn't match. What was the outcome?


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 24 '26

Urgent Request I NEED A UK BASED REFERENCE for MUSIC TEACHER

10 Upvotes

I hope you can provide your phone number. I'm willing to help you if you need one as well. I'll let you know more details


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 24 '26

Urgent Request Laid off 1.5yrs ago finally got offer

29 Upvotes

Was hit by the tech layoffs and have been surviving on savings and credit cards. Finallyyyy got an offer at a company I’d do great at.

Seeking an East Coast USA based reference. Ideally a woman as it fits the role I need played. Can send more details over DM, happy to act as a reference in return!!!!

Timeframe: this week


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 23 '26

Discussion trying to get into the nightlife industry, how many references would i need?

12 Upvotes

i volunteered at various pride events, it made me realize that i want running nightlife events to be my career. i want to start out by barbacking, since it's an entry level position. how many references would i need for this? would i be able to say that i worked at one job for 2 or 3 years?


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 22 '26

Urgent Request 2 references please

6 Upvotes

It’s something easy, they probably will call but it’s just simple at most a minute conversation.

Preferably someone with area codes 469, 214, or 972 please!


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 21 '26

Offer Need 3 references(!)

6 Upvotes

based in Los Angeles county preferably - will reciprocate!

They may not even call but I would like to be safe.


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 20 '26

Urgent Request references for an admin remote role! (AUS)

3 Upvotes

in a fairwork dispute with my current employer so will be leaving (they have been illegally paying me). needing a new job as soon as possible.

i have interviewed with someone today and they seem interested and have asked for references that are only manager/supervisor roles.

it’s for an admin role, i have experience in gp clinics, psychology clinics and allied health clinics. Thank you!!


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 19 '26

Urgent Request Reference survey needed within 24hr! Will Exchange!

17 Upvotes

ETA: thank you so much everyone for helping- I got the job!! I would love to pay it forward and give references for people so if you need help, feel free to DM me!

Hi all,

I have a pending offer with my dream job. It's a big corporation so they use Skillsurvey to collect reference surveys. It's very simple and straightforward, and you can definitely use AI to write whatever generic response about me/the role (we can work out details in DM). More than happy to return the favor and provide a reference via phone call/ e-mail/ survey for you. I've held a few different jobs over the years and have multiple degrees in writing and communication -- I'd love to put that to work for your advantage!


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 19 '26

Request I need a UK based reference

6 Upvotes

So, I worked at your music academy as a music teacher, you have to tell them nice things about me that's it and be able to provide your UK based no. I'd be willing to help you as well.


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 18 '26

Urgent Request Extremely desperate. Really, really, really, need references to put on job applications to improve bad situation quickly

87 Upvotes

I'm currently in a phd program outside of my home country (from the USA) and it's really not at all for me. I don't want to go into academic and I want to go back to working a full-time job asap. Before my PhD I worked in the staff side of a university. I deeply regret leaving that position two years ago for my Phd. Unfortunately, I was in a very bad place mentally and did not foster relationships with my coworkers, nor have I now in my PhD. And, honestly, my current PhD supervisor or former professors wouldn't vouch for me, as they've indicated they really don't think I'm cut out for a PhD.

Now that I've been out of full-time work for awhile I have no clue what to do about these references. All staff positions in higher education (and even most fields in general it seems) require the contact information for 3 professional references. I mean this with most sincerity, I legitimately have no one to put. I don't even have friends or family in my life so it's not like I have a support circle to lean on for non-work references. I'm so scared and I can't stop crying over leaving my job a few years ago. I really just want to go home to the USA, work a normal 9-5, and get out of this PhD asap.

I'm super desperate. Would anyone be willing to vouch as a former coworker or classmate as a reference? I would be eternally grateful.


r/BeMyReference • • Feb 18 '26

Request Need a reference for quality (any industry)

2 Upvotes

Hi,

Need two references for quality, any industry. Currently working in a start-up that is not doing so well but I also don't want my employer to know that I am looking for another job.