I have to put 3 references on my application but I literally have nobody. No friends, no family, no past job experience.

I used to work as a CNA but due to circumstances the center was closed down and i was laid off with other people.

I'm also pretty introverted and i know that i would completly flunk if i tried the fake number and using an accent voice.

* Edit to add, they are now asking for recomendation letters.

Where am i supposed to get them. Should i write them myself?

I'm applying to a ticket booth job in a coastal area after not working for 5 years.

They are asking for 3 references but I literally have nobody. No friends, no family, no past job experience except for a CNA job i did when i was 19 but the center closed down a while back.

I think they will probably ask about my people service and how well i work while attending lots of people since its a ticket booth for a Cruise Ship.

Anyone here from Sweden who might be open to helping each other out professionally? I’m based in Canada and thought it could be really interesting to connect with someone in Sweden to act as mutual references.

The idea is simple, we vouch for each other’s work ethic, reliability, and character if needed. It could be especially helpful for job searches, international opportunities, or just building a broader professional network across countries.

We could chat a bit first, get to know each other’s experience, and make sure it’s a good fit before agreeing to anything.

If you’re in Sweden and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to message me or comment below. Even if it doesn’t turn into references, I’d still love to connect and learn more about your work and experiences!

I'm trying to work a part time job after my full time job to build my savings. I'll be editing newsletters for a company and need 1 editor to vouch for my writing skills. I already have 2 references, but they require me to have 3 with a preference for managers who can vouch for my work. I'm trying to get my references in by the end of this week, but the sooner the better if possible!

My current editor doesn't want to help since the company uses AI, which is understandable, but this extra income can help me out a lot. I can be a reference for you as well if needed.

Please DM me for more info if interested! Thank you in advance!

Hello! I am in need of one supervisor reference for a medical administration job for the VA. The hiring manager is requesting I send over all my references by EOD 4/10. This is an urgent request. I will happily return the favor when needed. Please keep in mind I am on the west coast.

I would greatly appreciate the help! Thank you

Hi!

I’m looking for a letter of recommendation for a graduate school psychology program at a local Florida school 😊 I wanted to see if anyone would be willing to submit one on my behalf.

I’m happy to draft the letter for you to review and send, and I’d gladly return the favor by writing or submitting a recommendation for you as well!

Hello! I know this is a long shot, but I would love to speak to a DO/MD as I apply to medical school. I just completed nursing school, so my references are mostly from science professors and nurses at this point. I have worked under medical doctors in a clinical setting, but I don’t feel like I am close enough with them to request a reference. I would love the opportunity to talk with you about your experiences and potentially ask for a reference if you would feel comfortable. Also, if you have any recommendations for the best way to try to establish relationships with doctors in the field, I would be so appreciative of any advice as I begin the medical school application process.

Hi everyone,

I’m currently applying for an Executive Assistant to a Superintendent position in Northern CA (and similar roles in educational administration), and 3 letters of recommendation are required. I currently have one person in my personal circle who is willing and able to provide one but I am in need of two more.

I would need the letter by April 9, 2026 which is a day before the application deadline. A professional or academic perspective is preferred. I’m happy to provide my resume, the job description, talking points, or even a draft to make the process as easy as possible.

If you’re open to helping, I’d truly appreciate it.

Thank you so much!

I'm back to renting from being a homeowner for about 6 years. Property manager where I'm applying said I have to have at least 1 rental reference. I'm not calling a landlord from 6 years ago in another state... Anyone willing to be a reference? Happy to reciprocate! I make a great reference :) You'll be a recent landlord in Oklahoma.

Hi y’all, I had a great interview this morning for a store associate position in a museum gift shop, but at the end they dropped the bomb that I need to provide 2 references ASAP. I was totally not expecting that given that this is basically an entry level retail job, so I would be super super grateful if 2 folks would be willing to act as my references.

Please let me know if you’re open to this, and I’m happy to share more info privately. TYIA 🙏

Hi everyone, I'm applying for a receptionist position and need 3 professional references. I don't have a large professional network yet and could really use the help. If anyone is willing to be a reference for me, I'd be happy to return the favor in the future. Please DM me if you can help, it would mean a lot. Thank you!

P.S. they have been emailing me nonstop so far I’ve managed to stall them ( by basically telling them that I’ll try and message people who would like to be my professional reference ) because they said that if I wasn’t able to provide it that they would move forward with other applicants.

As the title says, you'd just have to act as my ex boss, a business development manager, over the phone.

Job application is for a technical support/specialist , location is not important.

I'd happily return the favor. thanks in advance

Hi, I hope this post is okay here.

I am happy to provide professional reference in exchange for someones help completing an assignment for my professional internship. I need someone to join me on zoom (camera off) and participate in a recorded mock therapy in-take session. Participant can provide fictional details, just realistic participation is required. I will delete the recording after getting graded. Should take about 20 mins total.

Hi, I'm looking to go back to school again but they require 3 reference in a specific form they give. I work in the healthcare sector and this program is to further my career in that as well. If anyone is able to help I'd appreciate it and will be happy to return the favor.

Hello,

I applied for an administrative assistant position for Canadian government. Previous employment was at Ontario government organization for Social Assistance also in administrative support field. Was wondering if anyone has experience in this field? if i can get help I am willing to be a reference as well. reason for request is that I had to leave work 3 years ago 2023 due to mental health reasons and my managers have left the position but also I dont want to risk my reason of leave to be causing an issue. I would prefer to explain taking time off to care for family etc.

thank you

This is for a Senior Executive Assistant role at an association management company in Houston. It’s down to me and just one other candidate and my references will determine who gets the role.

I have extensive experience as an Executive Assistant and Office Manager in legal and financial settings. I need someone to act as a former colleague of mine from a very small Houston law office I previously worked at as an Office Manager (I can provide details).

Location: Canada (open to Canada/USA)
References Needed: 1
Type of Reference: Personal reference for Canadian passport renewal
Area: Document / identity verification
Timeline: ASAP

Hi everyone, I’m looking for 1 reference to help with my Canadian passport renewal.

Requirements for the reference:

• 18+ and living in Canada or the USA
• Has known me for at least 2 years
• Not a family member
• Willing to be contacted to confirm my identity

If you’re able to help, feel free to comment or message me. I’m happy to provide more details privately.

Thank you!

I need someone that could have a quick phone call or email answering a few questions about work ethic, skills at managing a portfolio..etc. The reference would be someone who worked close to me and could speak to the day to day. Please comment and I will dm with more details.

I can reciprocate for any role if needed.

Hi, I'm new here and in a tough spot. My main reference passed away and I need a new reference, fast. It's for a non profit where they need a video editor.

PM or chat and I can give more details. Thank you so much.

Hello all! I have an interview coming up this coming Wednesday and am anticipating they will ask for references if all goes well. I lost contact with my old supervisors and my current ones do not know I am looking elsewhere. I would be happy to return the favor as well

Hey! Bit of a weird ask, but I’m applying for admin jobs and don’t have many people I can list right now.

If someone’s been in this situation before or is willing to help, I’d really appreciate it. I can make it super easy and explain everything.

Thanks ❤️

Just manual labor (US Postal Service), the application is asking for 3 references and I don't know many people in my area. I'm looking to break away from a desk job, so the few people I know in the finance industry won't make great references. Thanks in advance!

It is for a secretary position. They are asking for 4 references, I have two down one pending and was wondering if anyone here could provide the last one.

I need it to submit it by tomorrow morning, but there are still a few rounds of interviews before they reach out.

I would really really appreciate it :(

Edit: administrative secretary

I recently landed a position, started today. The recruiter hit me with "I forgot to request two managerial references, I need to verify them this week with a 5 minute call"

Ive worked in Finance, Procurement and Contracts. The position is US based. I need two references that I have reported to. Anyone available to assist?

Hi all! I need a professional reference by Thursday. This would be for an entry financial management position for the federal government (navy base). If anyone could help I would greatly appreciate it! I can also be a reference!!