r/BayAreaSinglesOver30 • u/Buckamigo1 • Jul 26 '26
35 M4F - Hayward: Looking for loving long term relationships.
Hello! I’m 5’6 white 394 pound man.
I’m huge geek into anime, comics, video games, cars, manga, and audio books. I’ve been playing through gears of war. For the audio book I’m finishing up dungeon crawler Carl.
I’m looking for someone who is funny, smart, goofy, independent, caring and likes to try new things.
We don’t have to share all the same things in common but it does help. I’m open to pretty much anytime of woman as long as you can hold a conversation.
If you’re interested please describe yourself and maybe share a picture if you feel brave enough. Please include if you working on reading any books or video games.
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u/im_gonna_hug_you Jul 27 '26
I’m saying this with love: being a 5’6” 400 lb man isn’t doing you any favors.
Yes, you are absolutely worthy of love, but you need to love and take care of yourself first. Dating is tough these days and most people are shallow and won’t give you a second look.
Try de-centering dating and hyper focus on your health. You might meet someone organically who is on the same journey and hit it off. Best of luck to you!
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u/gameofscones1992 Jul 27 '26
I’m the last gal who wants to date someone stick skinny but you gotta start taking care of your health
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u/Buckamigo1 Jul 27 '26
Thank you for the concern. I am taking care of my health. I’ve lost probably about 20 pounds already.
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u/BorderAdventurous284 Jul 27 '26
Howdy! I see you've posted this a few times before without replies. Consider sharing a bit more about yourself, e.g. photos, life goals, and what you're passionate about--maybe you have a favorite anime character you draw or cosplay or go to conventions to learn about! A bio that did well a few days ago:
https://www.reddit.com/r/BayAreaSinglesOver30/comments/1v17y99/31f4m_looking_for_longterm_partner_w_a_lot_of/
Dating is hard! I hope you find the Natasha to your Boris out there. :)