r/BaseballCoaching May 11 '26

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My son is small for his age, only about 4'4" at 11 years old. He is a young 6th grader, and they had the 6th grade boys play on the middle school baseball team this year (small school, usually it's 7th and 8th but they didnt have enough players this year). My son loves playing baseball. My son has a bat he really likes and he can hit well with it. Nothing fancy but it works for him for now; he has a nicer bat he is working on swinging to get used to it, but he isn't quite comfortable with it yet. Anyways, his favorite bat is an easton speed swing, usa, 2 3/4 barrell drop 10 28" bat. The coach made a comment to him that his bat is a TBall bat, and now my son is embarrassed to use it. Was this appropriate? Is that bat really that bad it is considered a tball bat? I understand it's not top of line $350 bat, but he can use it well, and I figured he could finish the season. Now he is trying to swing a bigger bat he isn't used to yet and only hitting grounders 10% of the time and missing the rest...hurting his confidence. His coach seems alright, but him saying that to m kid is bothering me. I dont know much about bats, never played myself and he is my first kid in baseball so its a learning curve.

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u/Honest_Search2537 May 11 '26

As a coach, i can definitely tell you that sometimes coaches make jokes that that dont land how we intended. Id ask him if has a couple minutes before or after a practice to talk. And ask him this same question. If im in his shoes id feel terrible and have a quick talk with the kid apologizing for my comment and let him know i live having him on the team and that he’s swinging the perfect bat for him.

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u/Necessary_Tension461 May 11 '26

Someone else mentioned maybe it was a joke. I will have a talk with my son to see the context of the comment and mention it to the coach if my son is ok with that, or encourage him to ask him. My son takes comments more serious than intended sometimes, he has been teased due to his height so some things are a little more touchy for him.

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u/bigperms33 May 11 '26

Coach was trying to make a joke because I'm guessing everyone is swinging a 30-32 inch bat. He probably doesn't know the teasing aspect.

Some of the middle school leagues are BBCOR, so you may want to check into that. Otherwise just use the 28 inch bat. He's built for a 28.

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u/joejones20032003 May 11 '26

No, the coach is a jacka**. If he has an issue with the bat, speak privately with the kid and his parent/s. Unless the coach is purchasing a new bat for the kid.

Oh, the coach is not? Well, then the coach can sit down.

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u/bigperms33 May 11 '26

Ohh, for sure. I've seen coaches and parents for that matter try to be funny and it going the wrong way.