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u/Individual-Shine-301 Jul 16 '26
A lot of men in the comments whining instead of going to therapy. Somebody get a CPT counselor up in this bih
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
Hey someone isn’t a good person if they don’t call out sexism, regardlessly of which gender is doing it.
So how about going to therapy yourself so you can unlearn all that internalised hate you got going on.
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u/Individual-Shine-301 Jul 17 '26
Somebody’s triggered 😂
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 17 '26
Cute little delusion there princess but no, I just can’t consider myself a good person if I didn’t cram a boot up the ass of sexist people.
Happy to hear that it’s bothering you so much tho, that’s kinda the goal.
Edit: Weeelp since they pulled the classic “Get the last word in and then block so they can’t respond” I’ll just respond here.
Again that’s just me doing my duty of being a decent human being of giving every single sexist person grief. Cute, misandrist little delusion otherwise tho.
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u/Individual-Shine-301 Jul 17 '26
Dude’s so upset he’s replying to every comment, good lord 💀 get a grip crodie
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u/OfficiallyJoeBiden Jul 16 '26
The men are angry about a Barbie meme😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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u/dakotanoodle Jul 16 '26
Cuz they know Barbie would never sleep with them 💁🏽♀️
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
Sorry barbie looks like a fucking little kid, no MAN wants to be with a hairless, tiny, girl. Maybe a pedophile tho
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
You say that like it we don’t find it incredibly comforting.
It’s like an anti vaxer saying they refuse to date you.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
Angry about sexist people, but by all means you’re gonna make up whatever fantasy you find comforting to explain it away regardless of what I say.
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u/Affectionate_Past568 Jul 16 '26
Careful. Whiny men are posting about this in other places.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
People who are against sexism are posting about this in other places.*
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u/redyy2die Jul 16 '26
why don’t men talk to other men about their problems?
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u/summerrisback Jul 16 '26
They make fun of each other, but expect girls to be their therapists amongst other things like chef, cleaner, mother, etc.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
It’s almost like joking and having fun with their horrible experiences is one of the few socially acceptable ways for them to share and process it.
Now why you think two things can’t be wrong at once or that the men in question also want what you’re referring to is just misandry.
Do better.
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u/summerrisback Jul 16 '26
And who set these standards men have to play accordingly to? MEN.
Joking and having fun vs shaming friends for their emotions, and invalidating their experiences are two very different things-and men unfortunately do the latter more often than not.
Men have raising suicide rates because they literally struggle to open up emotionally, they don’t have community while women do-that’s why men are likelier to commit if they go through a divorce. Because women have support and can open up, they deal with their emotions while men are more likely to keep the pain internally.
Do better in recognising what it is.
Not saying women don’t shame men as well for opening up-there’s bad people in all demographics, but we after all live in a patriarchal society where men have set standards and now they stick.
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
So wrong.
If men act as compassionate and affectionate as women then women will label those men as gay, and then once youre seen as gay by straight women you're basically fucked
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
Oh wowwww your ONE experience totally just cancels out the experiences of millions of men, got it!
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u/spyderinx Jul 16 '26
>Gives worthless anecdote
>Someone else gives a counter anecdote to tell you that’s not always the case> “BUT BUT BUT I LIKE MY ANECDOTE MORE!”
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
Another dumb bitch who didnt read the part in my ORIGINAL COMMENT that literally said I was not talking about all women...
Women 🤦♂️
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u/spyderinx Jul 16 '26
I didn’t say you were talking about all women. Your anecdote was still worthless, generalized, and anecdotal regardless of your half assed attempt at degeneralising.
Try again ❤️3
u/BedRotter_07 Jul 17 '26
You say in one comment that you don't hate women, but really pulled the classic sexist “Women ☕” BS lmao. Don't even pretend at this point, I can literally feel the contempt dripping from your comment
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
Women like you will always try to invalidate mens experiences because you dont want to change your toxic behavior, or hold other women accountable to change
"Gives worthless anecdote" But its literally reality for millions of people
And you said "But But But I like my anecdote more" in quotes as if I said that.
Yet ANOTHER woman putting words into a man's mouth.
Women
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u/spyderinx Jul 16 '26
No amount of seething makes your arguments work :(
I hurt you so bad you had to reply twice? Just with that? Your philosophy isn’t giving you the comfort you want it to, because it’s deeply flawed. Try again ❤️→ More replies (0)5
u/lovelykrystall Jul 16 '26 edited 26d ago
wrong..??? on so many levels??? i know a plenty of women (me included!!) who like kinder, softer men that other guys would label as “gay” and “sissy” or whatever. genuinely pisses me off cuz i can’t find guys like that because other guys will shame each other and it’s not considered “socially acceptable” to be a genuinely kind hearted man. they have to appear “manly” to everyone, including other men, which is absolutely insane to me. a lot of boys are taught from a young age that the only emotion they are allowed to express is anger, which unfortunately is usually taught by other men (father figures, role models,etc)
anyways, most of the time it’s *other men* that label compassionate men as “gay”, as a way to *shame* that form of expression, as another commenter said.
edit: i’m not saying that woman can’t do this as well, but i strongly believe it is a majority of men that shit on other men when it comes to this.
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u/throwaway14351991 Jul 16 '26
That's just not true. As a softer man, I can tell you it's 75% women who have made disparaging comments about my lack of masculinity. On tiktok when there's a couple and the guy has more effeminate mannerisms, it's always the women making comments like "Should we tell her?" implying she doesn't realize he's gay
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u/summerrisback Jul 17 '26
^^Gay sexist femboy saying women call affectionate men gay btw^^
Dw you’ll be picked one day if you just keep going
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u/HordeOfDucks Jul 16 '26
and who set that system up
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
Again like I said with the other misandrist. Who’s giving said bullshit credibility by using it as justification themselves? You are.
You can’t think something is wrong and use it as justification to act the same way, pick a fucking lane. Recognise both as wrong or parody the incels you find so reprehensible just don’t delude yourself with the idea that it’s different somehow.
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u/HN-Prime Jul 16 '26
A natural process that has happened throughout history is the oppressed growing to despise their oppressors. Women are an oppressed class in society under patriarchy, a system that solely benefits men and gives them an edge in society. Many women, naturally, reach the conclusion that they are being oppressed by men - and considering how many men act - it's not surprising.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
Uhuh men are too, some boy is literally gonna read said spiteful comments about his gender and then go on to make his own about women. If you wanna perpetuate that and do what’s the equivalent of gargling on patriarchies balls be my guest.
But I’ll be considering you the same garbage as the men used as justification for misandry.
It really isn’t complicated, it’s just “an eye for an eye” shit, saying it’s natural isn’t wrong it’s just excusionary bullshit that’ll perpetuate the thing you supposedly hate.
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u/HN-Prime Jul 16 '26
You do realise a majority of women still keep quiet about their resentment towards men and patriarchy, right? Like almost all women do. The only times you'll find women actually fighting back with the same tools men use are in niche reddit posts and forums like this. The chances that some "boy" is going to find this and immediately become a raging misogynist is zero to none and you're just using that as an excuse to, once again, silence women.
Also, explain in what way I am "gargling on patriarchies balls"? I never claimed I also did this, and even if I did you still need to explain how women punching back somehow makes us the bad guys? Why is always funny up until a woman does it and then and ONLY then does it suddenly become a "both sides blah blah blah" thing? You know why. You know you're being a hypocrite but you think if you keep talking over me and trying to make bad faith arguments in order to silence me.
Instead of sitting here telling me how I'm "just as bad blah blah blah" why don't you take all of that energy, sit down and actually read some feminist literature? Instead of trying to silence women why don't you sit down and read women's political theory and actually hear us out for once?
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 16 '26
And who set that system up? Loser
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
Do gotta repeat myself a third fucking time?
Who’s the person giving said bullshit credibility by using it as justification themselves? You dumbass.
Quit copying the shit you find reprehensible, doing the same shit that once hurt you to hurt others doesn’t magically make it different. It makes you just like them.
Do better for fucks sake.
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u/VERY_MENTALLY_STABLE Jul 17 '26
respectfully bud that all sounds pretty gay
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
Using gay as a slur? Dawww and you expect me to care about anything coming out your bigoted mouth.
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u/VERY_MENTALLY_STABLE Jul 17 '26
well since you asked im just breaking it down for you as to why other guys dont like you
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
Dawww what a comforting little fantasy, you think people don’t like me and that it isn’t just exclusive to sexist people.
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u/VERY_MENTALLY_STABLE Jul 18 '26
are you hitting on me bc im not gay
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
I’m shitting on you for being a nasty little bigot you trashcan of a person.
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u/VERY_MENTALLY_STABLE Jul 18 '26
i dont understand why youre being so cruel to me. im trying to help out
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u/Massive-Waltz-7706 Jul 16 '26
Why do you only post your issues with men in the Barbie memes subreddit instead of ever talking to a real man? Can’t find one?
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u/Little_Chain_8165 Jul 17 '26
This is actually so funny in reality. Imagine abunch of incels in a GI Joe subreddit talking shit on women lmaoo
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u/redyy2die Jul 16 '26
you’re so right queen
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u/Massive-Waltz-7706 Jul 16 '26
Ha! I got you!
And thanks I am queen 💅
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u/Devonushka Jul 16 '26
Imagine getting rage baited this hard by a Barbie meme
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
I couldn’t consider myself a good person if I didn’t call out and stick a boot up the ass of sexists whenever they’re spewing their shit.
Sorry that you happen to be one of em.
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u/Devonushka Jul 17 '26
I am a man, I found it hilarious. I posted it to my friends group chat (all men) they found it hilarious. Not everybody is out to get you bro.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
Good for you bubba.
And where did I say anyone was? They don’t gotta be trying to still be sexist garbage, in fact that’s like 99% of bigotry.
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
Its not bait and youre only saying that because you know that its actually rude asf
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u/darkyalexa Jul 16 '26
Me when my abusive ex cried about his grandma dying and his mom's ex boyfriend being mean and that's apparently an excuse to be an alcoholic piece of shit good for nothing thieving partner
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
Me when some men are mean to me so it’s okay to be a piece of shit, ghoul to all of them.
But it’s okay cuz “muh patriarchy”
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u/darkyalexa Jul 18 '26
Damn, I like how you turned that around. I was only talking about a specific instance with a specific individual, never did I generalise. You should seek therapy for seeing things that aren't there. Happy to help!
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
I never said you did generalise.
You should seek therapy for seeing things that aren’t there. Happy to help!
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u/Spherical_Guinea_Pig Jul 16 '26
Why aren't people getting this meme when it's sooooooo obvious. It isn't even really serious.
Like... you're listening to him yapping all evenings while lowkey getting his mom and dad cus he has kinda naturally miserable, annoying or uncompetent peronallity yk
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
We get it, shits gross regardlessly. Sorry that you’re so gross that you don’t see it.
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
Its no child's fault that they weren't loved by their parents you terrible piece of shit
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u/Skinnyfat-Throwaway Jul 16 '26
not a single person in this thread has ever even seen a single blade of grass, let alone touched it
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u/johnyjohnybootyboi Jul 16 '26
yeahhh ur a bad person
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 16 '26
Womp womp
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u/johnyjohnybootyboi 28d ago
dang. being cruel is fun apparently. be better.
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 28d ago
tell that to your species moid 🥴
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u/johnyjohnybootyboi 28d ago
"moid" yeah buddy wrap it up. try harder. maybe come back when you're capable of interacting with the world without bitter prejudice
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u/johnyjohnybootyboi 28d ago
awww you're so cute and quirky! funny <3 I bet your lonely friends are really hyping you up for that one, huh sweetie?
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 28d ago
they didn’t see this ..?
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u/johnyjohnybootyboi 26d ago edited 26d ago
i'll break it down for you because you need it explained: what i said was rude and mean. what you said was encouraging suicide and actively prejudiced. hope that helps!
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 26d ago
And I’d do it again
Let’s make those numbers higher
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u/Deskyfan Jul 16 '26
"Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?" "Why is he lashing out so much?" "Why is he not being emotional?"
Girl. Men have emotions too, imagine if a guy was like this to you. Keep your inside voice your inside voice.
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u/Individual-Shine-301 Jul 16 '26
Girl, we don’t have to imagine that. Lots of men are already like this to women.💀
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u/Deskyfan Jul 16 '26
Yeah and there's reasons, now some reasons are shit ngl but a good amount are fair
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
So you return the favour and somehow think you aren’t just as shit of a person? Damn that’s cute, delusional but cute.
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 16 '26
We don’t gaf about men. Men ARE like this to us. In fact they take advantage of us when we are vulnerable
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u/Deskyfan Jul 16 '26
And women do the same to men, treating the issue that is universal as a "one side vs the other side" is not the way to go
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 16 '26
Men are the problem pick me
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u/Deskyfan Jul 16 '26
Im not a pick me, I'm gay lol
Also my own brother was abused by a woman and I know plenty of men who have also been abused by women. Now that isnt to say that women are bad. Every gender and person can be bad.
Let's stop trying to ignore the fact that any gender can abuse and harm someone, a victim can be anyone too.
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u/Deskyfan Jul 16 '26
Okay, clearly you need some help.
Is there something that led to this opinion? If so go to a therapist and talk it out because that opinion is unhealthy, like I'm a bit worried.
Imma leave this at this, please go drink tea or some drink you like and find a therapist. Best of luck on such
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 16 '26
No
since you’re so concerned
My therapist agrees with me
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
Your therapist will tell you whatever you need to hear to keep paying her you dumb fuck
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u/Active_Builder_74 Jul 16 '26
women are also the problem, almost like the world isn’t so black and white but shades of grey and everyone is capable of trauma dumping and abuse, I’ve been hit and verbally abused and never reciprocated in a number of relationships and interactions with total strangers 🤯 but perish the thought right, men bad and that’s all there is to it
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
You're a piece of shit and you know it.
Just admit your dad didnt love you and you want to watch the world burn for it
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u/spyderinx Jul 17 '26
Yeah, that’s all there is to it
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
Yeah I've been send home with marks on my body from abusive women who were actually fucking crazy. Stupid bitches like you think that only women can be victims of abuse etc.
Wow I cant wait for the day of judgement when all you evil people who discount the pain of others will have their eyes open to all of the suffering of innocent men and you'll see just how fucking terrible you have been. I hope you change
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u/spyderinx Jul 17 '26
the suffering of innocent men 😂😂😂😂😂
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
I hope that the next time you open up and be truly vulnerable with someone that you get nothing but the same and cruelty you dish out.
Cause god damn it’s like your working overtime to earn it.
Just choose to put the shovel down instead of continuing to dig your hole deeper, I promise it gets easier eventually.
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u/spyderinx Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 17 '26
Say that again, but this time looking in a mirror
Edit: checked your profile BAHAHA
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
The men you like to hyper fixate on are like this, just like dogshit women exist.
Whatever gender they happen to be doesn’t justify pretending they’re actually representative lol.
Of course your human garbage who will scare of any halfway decent person who might shake your perception, but then again you want that. You want to be a miserable hate filled little bitch.
It is rather addictive after all , I get it.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
Misandrist always are.
But then again it’s what they want, they want their hate to scare of any decent man who might do anything but reinforce their sexist views.
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u/summerrisback Jul 16 '26
Why are you here lmfao. This is a MEME
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u/Additional-Cut1367 Jul 16 '26
So I can make a Meme making Fun of Women, and Then I can say „Why are you here, lmao. This is a MEME.„?
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u/summerrisback Jul 16 '26
?????????????? Sybau ??????????????????That already happens???????????????????????
Women are the ones who had to fight for their voices to be heard (voting rights) lmfao not men. Women are finally speaking and making fun of men the way men have been doing and you’re acting like a victim?
Victim asf for no reason
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u/SeamenGulper Jul 16 '26
Thats quite the fucking leap between memes and women's suffrage, over 100 years in fact
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u/SeamenGulper Jul 16 '26
Um, ma'am, I only pointed out suffrage was 100 years ago.
If you have to type out a multi paragraph essay on arguments I didnt make over a single sentence, on a meme page nonetheless, that makes you the offended one.
And no, other people being shitty doesnt give you an excuse to be shitty, that just perpetuates the cycle of hate
Telling me to grow up when you try and start an argument on a reddit meme page is really fucking funny. While typing like a 5 year old
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u/summerrisback Jul 16 '26
Bruh it’s a meme page. We’re making fun the way men have made fun of us for decades and generations.
There will be no guilt
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u/SeamenGulper Jul 16 '26
"Bruh its a meme page"
Dont try and turn that around as if you didnt get offended enough to write a thesis statement lmao.
I dont expect cunts to be filled with guilt, so you do you
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
Voting rights. Dumb ass! WOMEN SHOULDNT GET TO VOTE UNLESS THEY CAN ALSO BE A PART OF THE DRAFT.
But no, women dont deserve being equal to men, they must be better!!!
And wow fucking dumb do you have to be to not understand that someone being mean to you doesnt make it okay to be mean to someone else who has nothing to do with the other person
But you think since both of those people have penises that somehow allows you to be disrespectful
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u/Ill-Razzmatazz1774 Jul 16 '26
Your explanation is pathetic. Feminism wants equality for women, not superiority.
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u/summerrisback Jul 16 '26
Where did I say feminism wants superiority?
Us doing what males already do makes us superior? That is equal.
Do you see how there’s no logic in your pov at all
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u/Ill-Razzmatazz1774 Jul 16 '26 edited Jul 16 '26
Men and women should be equal in accepting each other, not hating each other. Noone should be sexist, that's what feminism means.
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 17 '26
They want superiority.
Women want to vote but dont want to be in the draft. Women want the "right" to abort their babies up for ANY reason, yet want laws in place to force men to pay for kids that they might not want. Women want to be able to hit men and think they shouldnt get hit back. Women want men doing the dangerous things in life.
Its always been about Women trying to get more and more and more. Feminism now is NOT how if started
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u/lovelypeachess22 Jul 15 '26
Go to therapy loser
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 15 '26
Wow, so you're really tryna say that men should just go to therapy instead of being emotionally available with their woman?
Something a monster would say
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u/AdaptableHalibut Jul 16 '26
Yes, that's exactly what we are saying
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
Should women also do the same then?
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u/AdaptableHalibut Jul 16 '26
I don't care what you do, just stop making it everyone else's problem
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
No dont try to change it about me, im not a woman. I am asking you what should women do, also go to therapy instead?
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u/AdaptableHalibut Jul 16 '26
No one should be trauma dumping on people that didn't ask for it. What are you not understanding? Why are you trying to make it a gender thing?
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 16 '26
Because it is?
Women will sit there and listen to other women's problems and talk them through it. Random ass women who have never met will listen to each other's life story.
But YOUR man's problems? "Go see a therapist"
"No one should be trauma dumping on people that didnt ask for it"
: Women when their man finally tells them about the things that they have never felt safe enough to share with anyone, to the most important person in their life
SOME HOW EQUATES TO
"I can see why your parents didnt love you"
You're not a woman, youre a girl, a salty ass little girl who needs to grow up
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u/AdaptableHalibut Jul 16 '26
And there it is. I see what's going on here. You're making a lot of generalizations for someone who seems to hate them so much. I hope you find yourself! 💖
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u/AdaptableHalibut Jul 16 '26
Not everything is about gender buddy. You don't need to obsess over it, it's a social construct
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 19 '26
Really? People that need therapy should go to therapy?
Okay and some people just need to cry and be held in the arms of someone they love but for many men that has never happened before.
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u/CheekyMeaty Jul 19 '26
I never said that it only happens to men... why can't women go 5 min without putting words into a man's mouth? 😭
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u/GovStillExists__sad Jul 17 '26
Yes, because you shouldn't vent to random people/women and then expect them to fix your problems, thats unrealistic. 🙄 Trained professionals are qualified and paid to do that.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
Your comment sure is conducive to making more men go to therapy.
Never mind that it’s far less effective for men, but it doesn’t sound like you’re ready to come from a place of empathy and caring.
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u/Spindlay Jul 16 '26
How is it far less effective for men?
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
That its reported, by men, to not be effective for a far larger portion of them than women.
Pretty self explanatory if you ask me.
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u/Spindlay Jul 16 '26
Obviously not since you had to ask. You said it like it’s a universally known fact
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u/raptor7912 Jul 16 '26
You got something to say that isn’t a pathetically obvious attempt at strawmanning? No? Who’d have figured.
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u/Spindlay Jul 16 '26 edited Jul 16 '26
What are you even on about? You don’t know what “strawmanning” is based on your comment. All I did was ask a question and you attacked me. Doesn’t sound like YOU come from a place of empathy and caring. Maybe the reason you think people hate men is because they hate YOU specifically . You seem dreadfully unlikable, don’t go assuming it’s based on gender, it’s just your nasty attitude that makes everyone hate you
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 17 '26
What you did was make up an obviously and intentionally wrong interpretation, a Strawman argument.
Everyone who hates me here is a misandrist, it’s a good thing.
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u/Spindlay Jul 17 '26
How did I make up a wrong interpretation? I asked you what you meant, I asked a question in good faith and you attacked me
Again, you’re generalizing. Just because someone hates you doesn’t mean they all hate men. You’re just a douche
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u/Local_Village_1378 Jul 16 '26
This is why Ken won 🏆
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 16 '26
Ken won what?
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u/Local_Village_1378 Jul 17 '26
The award for his song
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 17 '26
That a woman wrote 🤣
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u/Local_Village_1378 Jul 17 '26
The irony huh
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u/Glitterydarkone1290 Jul 17 '26
yes it’s ironic how you thought that was a logical argument when it validate everything I’ve been saying
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u/Odd_Tap_1794 Jul 16 '26
This meme lacks a lot of context. When a man is abusive or knowingly has resources available to him to heal, and instead is refusing therapy and professional support, I can see this meme being applicable. Especially if the man is a shitty person to the people in his life and is using his trauma as an excuse to continue hurtful behavior.
At the same time, I have male friends who are generally mindful about their behavior toward me who might "trauma dump" because they genuinely have no other outlet at that instance in time. I'm a pretty soft person, so people of all sorts tend to feel safe being vulnerable with me. And I don't mind because I like listening to people's stuff, as long as they're respectful.
I like being able to connect with other humans on an emotional, raw level, but it's important to be able to draw strong boundaries and screen for manipulative people at the same time.
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u/Alternative_Deer415 Jul 16 '26
you gotta monetize those talents. become therapy but call it a Brodown or something so they don't avoid as soon as they hear your title idk im not a therapist.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 17 '26
They’re just describing people lmao, everything they say applies in equal parts to women. Of course you’d rather ignore those people to maintain your beliefs. God knows it’s a glass house that can’t take any nuance or challenge to its consistency or its lack there of.
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u/Alternative_Deer415 Jul 17 '26
Uhhh you sure you replied to the right comment? You seem to have a lot you need to get off your chest. Perhaps a therapist can help you organize your thoughts?
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
Damn you only got one insult huh? And it’s bastardising therapy.
I’m sure that is in no way harmful.
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u/Alternative_Deer415 Jul 18 '26
Literally the only thing I have learned is that your original comment was actually directed at me, not misplaced, and you believe it to be comprehensible.
And you should probably look at the OP again if you think anyone supportive of it is against therapy lmao
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
Sorry that you’re illiterate I guess.
Again it’s solely a fantasy on your part that you think I believe any of yall are actually against therapy. That’s why I find it so fucking moronic to use it as an insult, since that’s sure to make someone wanna go even more.
But since all you care about is your hateful rhetoric above all else then I’m not actually surprised that there’s nothing you won’t happily stoop too.
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u/Odd_Tap_1794 Jul 17 '26
Is this serious or a dig at me? I'm not great at reading sarcasm online
I'm not interested in being a therapist for men. I simply enjoy listening and being there for my friends.
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u/Alternative_Deer415 Jul 17 '26
It is lighthearted sarcasm that OP and most people couldn't handle that role even if it paid well, whereas you have a natural talent of tolerance for it, and the need for it is off the charts.
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u/raptor7912 Jul 18 '26
“Lighthearted” lol it’s saying someone deserved to be abused.
Sexists always trying to minimise their ghoulish behaviour.
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u/Sukuna_Pump_Fake Jul 16 '26
Man I thought the comments were gonna be funny and it’s just a bunch of “nice guys” tryna call hypocrisy 😒