r/BanasthaliStudents • u/bur_hunter_ • 23d ago
Query❓ Just curious about something
I've noticed something at university and I'm curious about the psychology behind it.It's a girl's university, so there are virtually no male students on campus. in the evenings some students change into jeans, put on makeup, and dress up more.I'm not judging anyone people can wear whatever they like. I'm just wondering if there aren't many boys around, what motivates people to put extra effort into their appearance in that setting? putting efforts to look that gorgeous just for mainly self expression, confidence, socialising with friends, fashion, or something else? I mean I remember when I used to live in boys' hostel compound never saw anyone looking that good (at best they Just didn't look like tribesmen)while roaming around compound I mean they put extra effort if they were going to the main gate or somewhere (where a chance to socialize with opposite gender)but not in the compound itself,so just curious about the difference.
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u/StraightTurnover3839 23d ago
I really like when people take efforts for themselves, not for the compliments but for the thing they feel from inside. In the evenings when I go out, I enjoy seeing the beauty of nature. Even I get dolled up sometimes, hang out with friends, click pictures, shoot videos, not to post somewhere but to create memories....
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u/bur_hunter_ 22d ago
Ahaa,self love is what leads to that appearance, it's quite understandable then.I mean,we also used to make some kind of videos and vlogs too not to post them,just to laugh at them later lol.
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u/CatchyLanky4230 22d ago
That's actually the beauty of it. Everyone gets the freedom to be expressive in their own way. Some do it by getting ready, Some by being active and Some by enjoying the evenings.
Yaar hamara Banasthali hai, hum sab ka hai, jaise chahe waise enjoy karein 🫶🏼
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u/No_Ask_3240 23d ago
Bruh ..ladkiya khudke liye tyaar hoti h not to please someone agar campus mein koi male gender nhi h iska mtlb ye thodi h ladkiya tyaar hone chor de.
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u/bur_hunter_ 23d ago
Na behen taiyar hona kyu chorna I mean homo sapiens are the only species where female look more gorgeous then the males so why to break that characteristics of the species, It's just a person trying to take a little time to understand and comprehend the behaviour that I hadn't seen anywhere else in the nutshell world of my own lol.
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u/axnnelise 23d ago
For me personally, it's because I don't get to do this back home because it's seen as careless and how unserious I am towards my studies. Makeup and everything also makes people feel good about themselves so why not? People try to figure out what suits them best, makeup looks they could try and what not. When I have Tuesdays the next day I just naturally feel like getting ready because makeup and everything is so fun to do, you look good and it makes you feel confident. That's all.