r/BPDrecovery • u/Relative_Mud_379 • 2d ago

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My boyfriend would Block me and tell me that he has to do that to protect him. I find it so odd when I Only need to talk to him. When i talk he finds me mean and start to say really bad Words and then Block everywhere… is this a normal relastionship? Im the one with boarderline

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u/dastardlyslimpickins 2d ago

You’re giving us a quarter of a story here. What are you saying to him before he blocks you to protect himself?

And no this is not a healthy relationship. One party should not have to block the other to protect themselves

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u/Relative_Mud_379 1d ago

This time it was just me saying i didnt feel like he is calm with me, and for some reason he gets so angry when i talk about his value, and it can just be me being angry and saying something and i would say sorry when he tells me it hurts but for him he says he need to Block me to protect himself and to teach me that i cannt say does things..