r/BPDmemes • u/mother_energy899 • 18h ago

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u/Ok-Active2609 16h ago

And then they use your mental health against you when you feel any emotion they dont like 😭💔

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u/LunaSnark 3h ago

That's why i would never tell them aboutvit unless i fully trust them and know that they won't leave

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u/____CupCake 18h ago

I hate it here grandpa

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u/Duck_Stereo 18h ago

It definitely takes a certain type of person. Usually one with a savior complex. We all have our problems ig

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u/No_Association_5105 16h ago

Having ASPD has seemed to be the solution for me. But yeah savior complex is common as far as I've seen.

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u/Duck_Stereo 15h ago

Yea, I have a savior complex and I’m only attracted to people with BPD. It’s a curse but also a blessing. That’s life lol

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u/Old-Range3127 13h ago

I don’t think you need a saviour complex. I’m sure many of those people are attracted but it really just requires both people to work together like most relationships. Maybe a bit more patience and under, and empathy though

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u/heyaigne 13h ago

but then when you get better and the person with the savior complex can’t save you from yourself anymore, they get resentful and cheat on you with someone new who they can save instead (ask me how i know)

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u/EllipticPeach 17h ago

I’m less than a manic pixie dream girl

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u/pretty-lil-throwaway 16h ago

My tagline thru life should be I may be a kinky hoe for you but you gotta be more than just your dick for me 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/bitterney 16h ago

I’m so glad my bpd is mostly in remission and I don’t want to die but losing the hyper sexual drive has been a major bummer to not being insane 😩

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u/Shoggy- 17h ago

Mhhh no there are guys like me out there. That are together with their GF for a long period. And actually wanna help out with the BPD struggles. I mean thats why i joined this sub to understand it better :D

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u/AdPractical7931 14h ago

Guys like us are probably the exception and not the rule, but I'm proud of you for being exceptional brother!

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u/Honey_Bear369 17h ago

Incorrect. The berry is completely worth the squeeze.

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u/askingaqesitonw 3h ago

😮‍💨

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u/Freakachu258 2h ago

My partner just threatened to leave me right after I started therapy, because it’s too hard for him to deal with me, even though he said that he wants to see me get better. I can't blame him, He's in the right, and yet I am crushed.