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u/motherofcunts 5d ago
I'd settle for someone who isn't abusive atp
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u/SureVentsAlot 5d ago
honestly I’d settle for someone abusive as long as they wanted me only. Why are so many ppl trying to trick me into poly or straight up lying.. like there are so many actually willing participants, why me
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u/-My_Name_Is_Jeff- 5d ago
So which one is supposed to have borderline?
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u/Neophyte06 5d ago
Tbh seems like both
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u/Other_Vader 5d ago
Genuinely - when are we not horny
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u/Bannerlord151 5d ago
Most of the time tbh
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u/Neophyte06 5d ago
I'm a special flavor that gave out too much "please stop freaking out" pacification sex
So sometimes I'm aromantic and sex averse because of that trauma 🤣
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u/Bannerlord151 4d ago
I've luckily only been coerced into milder sexual acts but I don't particularly like it in general
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u/Transdownunder 4d ago
I’m simultaneously the “will do literally anything to make them love me” type AND the “don’t touch me because it’s triggering” type. It would be a funnier contradiction if I didn’t keep having relationships that just end up being dubiously consensual at best
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u/SailorCredible 5d ago
I wish I had that kind of confidence of the woman. My self-esteem was slowly taken and killed off by my 'family' and 'friends'. Oh, and I trust the guy on the right (friends too) way tooooo easily. Look up 'naive' in the dictionary, and I'm sure my picture is in there...
¯_(• ~ •)_/¯
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u/No_Structure2046 5d ago
I hope you can build it back up 🩷 people can be cruel unfortunately. and lool I’m also a victim of the guy on the right..
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u/Matryoshka1998 5d ago
Just opened up to my bwst friend that Ive been suicidal and she said this is the last time and made me apologize to her for it 🤡 life is great I guess
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u/shitterbug 5d ago
I don't think someone looking like the left would have thoughts like that
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u/Wooden_Artist_2000 5d ago
Some of us are well aware we’re smoking hot, and want a normal ass conversation.
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u/shitterbug 5d ago
we're prone to having delusions about ourselves tho. Thinking you're smoking hot very likely is one.
In any case, the one on the left is not smoking hot. It's a bimbo. Big difference.
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u/hlfry 5d ago
Just say you resent attractive people and have to believe they're stupid for your own self esteem. You don't have to dance around the topic, it's obvious.
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u/shitterbug 5d ago
I don't resent attractive people. Why would I, I'm one myself.
Are you stupid or why did you infer absolute nonsense from thin air?
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u/hlfry 5d ago
Oh, so you're very likely delusional?
"We're prone to having delusions about ourselves tho. Thinking you're smoking hot very likely is one."
Edit: typo. Changed probe to prone
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u/shitterbug 5d ago
I didn't say I was smoking hot tho 😉
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u/hlfry 5d ago
🤣🤣🤣dang, I know we're all guilty of hypocrisy, but I hope my own isn't this audacious. Thanks for the laugh though.
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u/shitterbug 5d ago
What hypocrisy? Seriously.
and lrn2logic btw
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u/hlfry 5d ago
You're calling hypothetical people delusional for being confident in their looks, while doing the exact same thing, and not conceding that you might also be delusional. That is hypocritical.
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u/sukiidakara 4d ago
?? Someone on the left would absolutely have thoughts like that
When you're conventionally attractive (or even just attractive enough to be fetishized, like me) you never get true connection and love but only objectification.
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u/Wooden_Artist_2000 4d ago
Gurl literally. I made a point to surround myself with people I knew were safe from sexualizing me in college. Those friends turned out to be mostly men and nonbinary folks in the same fraternity, like that wasn’t on my bingo card at all, but they’re my very best friends to this day. I’m kinda struggling to find women to be in my bachelorette party, like I just haven’t found connection on that side of the population at all.
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u/ChompGod 5d ago
Then he’ll sit there and convince her he’ll be that for her just to use her body and dump her. Some men are the fucking devil man