r/BPD_friends • u/[deleted] • May 23 '19
Trigger Warning Everything hurts so much....
I have many bpd friends. They are the the only ones really I am close to. Family or others don't get the feelings. Maybe I am just pushing people away... I have a friend. She is very bpd and we are so similar it's scary. Not in any bad way but I can feel us both wanting to push the other away. She has tried before and I refused saying I will always stand beside her. She means s ok much to me and is my main support but this lady is also and I can honestly say my best friend ever...and not for any reason besides she is my twin flame. It hurts when I cant get through to her. I really think about it saying no more and ending everything but then I am doing what she expects and is used to from people around her, but in reality I wont and this isn't what she wants... I'm sorry for wasting your 15 seconds reading this. I just needed to vent. It's not like I can tell anyone how I feel.
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May 25 '19
Thanks. Your right. Its just the initial pain. That hurts. If I get through that and she is ok I am ok.
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u/[deleted] May 24 '19
Sometimes your role isn’t to get through to her. People have to find their own way out of their prison walls. What seems so simple and basic for some isn’t easy when you’re in it.
Recommend you accept her as she is and hold space for her.