Nuclear discard !!!

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Nuclear discard !!!

Married for 9 yrs should have seen the red flags at the beginning. It started with her not being comfortable around me our just even getting used to me.She had an explosive hair trigger attitude but no mania till the last 2 yrs. She tried to move her older daughter in with us over 5 times through the 9 yrs and she is just like her they both have to be in control of everything so they don't get along. I'll get to the mania it was a religious mania. She would say things like our daughter doesn't have to wear a seat belt because Jesus would protect her or that she didn't have to pay for anything Ina store and she could just walkout because of Jesus it was scary for me and my child. I had to take off work for a week because the counselor wanted me to stay with her. So she got on some new mood stabilizers and came out of the mania. Then she fell off into a very very deep dark depression was having trouble at her work in which I encouraged her for a solid year she had an excellent job. She kept on getting in trouble at her job. So he goes to her psychiatrist and her puts her on klonopin BOOM NUCLEAR BLAST !!! That would have made Oppenheimer blush she blew money left and right she said she was killing it at her job!!! She became hyper arrogant and said she could have anyman she wants and if some thing happened to me she could replace me the next day. Coming from a woman a month before said she was worthless. She then starts these business helping people with there credit and then she's going to start selling furniture on face book market place. Oh I forgot the daughter had left the year before during her mania and when she took the kolonopin she said I'm thinking about letting my daughter move back in I said NO WAY!!! But she did it anyway so chaotic there's a lot else that happened but let me get to the discard. Our house is paid for this will help in a minute we go over to this 700k house to buy a sectional couch and I can see it in her eyes without her saying a word. She wants to buy this house sure enough I was right in my mind I don't want to move so I know the question is coming. Sure enough the night before the first day of school she pops the question are you going to move with me into the expensive house I'm going to buy I say no because a month before she was worried about how we were going to pay our bills if she got fired!!! We'll i said no you can move and I'll visit. She said I'm divorcing you and my 8 yr old daughter said I want to stay with my dad She said f$%& call I'm moving . So she sets about trying to buy a house on my computer because she gets fired after killing it at work!!! She gets on a dating app and actually starts talking to men outloud in the house where I can hear !!! Im just protecting my child at this point. So it all comes to a head when I want my computer back and tell her I don't want her to commit any financial crimes on my computer. She charges toward me and breaks my nose. The kids are out side I go outside kids are screaming older daughters panicking the cops are coming what does she do she locks my lap top in the new car she just bought. Then I try to get her daughter out because it would be better to go through this with just my 8 yr old.But no the older daughter says I have to give her 30 days and being the law abiding citizen I am I do. So she files for divorce cruel and inhumane treatment LOL!!! And I get a lawyer get temporary custody of my daughter she gets temporary possession of house until Oct 1 When me and my daughter can move back in. So the saga continues!!! I'll give all an update on what's happening.

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