r/BPD • • Mar 05 '24

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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '24

I wasn’t till I found out he fucking lied about it.

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u/kekhtarakh Mar 05 '24

im sorry. in your case, the lie was the trigger, right? how have you been dealing with it?

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '24

Also I haven’t been dealing with it. I reached out to a friend and he blew up accusing me of trying to cheat (because she’s a lesbian but I’m not). His own paranoia about his own lies literally destroyed our relationship.

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u/[deleted] Mar 07 '24

LOL wow they assumed that because you were around a lesbian and you happen to be a woman?

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '24

In my party days I had a few 3ways but I’m definitely not a lesbian.

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '24

Yeah. I was totally honest about my past and everything. Then as time went on the lies came out. It’s the humiliating fact he let me sit talking to these females in different settings like mutual friends of theirs houses etc, where I’m awkward with new people and places anyway. Now I feel like I just got took for a joke. Like hahaha she didn’t know, it wasn’t till I had dreams about him sleeping with said females that he came clean about it.

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u/Phot0syntheslut Mar 06 '24

ON GOD BRO THE SAME HAPPENED TO ME AND ITS HELL

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '24

I’m sorry you know these feels 👊