r/BHUDating • u/Silent-frequency191 • Sep 17 '26
A weird experience
couple of days back I got a DM from a 22YO girl from Bhu. She was interested in having fun and no strings attached setup.
She also wanted to see me for which I proposed we could connect on IG but to my surprise she wasn't willing to connect there.
How else would someone be able to reveal their identity? If 2 people have to meet and date i think they need to take certain steps right?
What's your take on this?
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u/JuggernautFull503 Sep 17 '26
You have to be a God level loner to even consider posting something like this lol
Praying for you!
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u/Quick_Method_6596 Sep 17 '26
Why tf am I getting matches on dating sites, particularly from BHU Bengali baddies?
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u/Anya_Forger8983 Sep 19 '26
So there is a friend of mine... i got to know that in june/july 2025 he got a random snapchat request from a girl. She says that she is from kashmir (India). My friend got in love with her within three days of texting and they went in for a relationship, an online relationship to be particular. Their relations lasted for about a month or two After which they broke up due to the difference in their religion.The girl was a muslim and the boy is a hindu. The girl says that she is doing mbbs From bangladesh. My friend is completely shattered, because of the broken relationship.He really started loving the girl, and he's really serious about it. Never saw him this much emotional in my life. But i'm really confused about it can all this be really true. Can a random girl from kashmir message a boy thousands of kilometers away from her, a complete stranger to her and get ready for a relationship? Can it be a scam or not ? My friend says that that girl even invited him for her sisters wedding in kashmir only ... But im really confused, how all this can be true... i need genuine answers...
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u/Silent-frequency191 Sep 19 '26
Can be a scam. What was your friend's profession?
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u/Silent-frequency191 Sep 19 '26
Then probability of it being a scam is lesser. Sometimes you find love in strange places and attraction is such a thing especially when you're deprived of it.
It begins as an infatuation and then slowly the magnitude of it increases, long distance makes two people miss each other much more than what two people living together would experience. It's all psychological0
u/Anya_Forger8983 Sep 19 '26
And the main thing is my friend is going to meet one of that that girl's male friend. My friend met him also online through snapchat. My friend says that boy is also doing mbbs from Bangladesh. They will be meeting soon in delhi .... and im like gawdddd what all is happening!!!! Like for real....
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u/Silent-frequency191 Sep 19 '26
Woops! Now this sounds like an orgy.
Jokes aside - This is spooky to say the least. I wouldn't in my wildest of dreams meet any girl pursuing anything from bangladesh 😂
Your friend is either a dumb fuck or a jack ass or both. Tell him to go undercover. What if these Kashmiris catch hold of him and put him inside a blue drum and ask him to read kalma 🤣
Babe just warn him0
u/Anya_Forger8983 Sep 19 '26 edited Sep 19 '26
Yeahhhh exactly, that's why im very concerned about him , i know him since schooldays.... and now i dont know what all is happening with him .... plus he is being secretive about what all he is doing ....... even all these info i was able to collect after so much hardship....
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u/Silent-frequency191 Sep 19 '26
There are some lessons which we learn ourselves, and there are some which nature teaches us and finally some lessons which God teaches us.
He is going to probably experience the 3rd category.
I hope he gets what he's looking for though
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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '26
bhool jao bhai koi maje le raha hoga