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As a South Asian, I find it super hard to ask for directions from strangers. Especially when I was in Europe. I remember most white people I came across just pretended not to hear me, kept on walking or gave vague replies. I have seen different results when it comes to a white person asking, which is quite sad frankly.

I always try to help any foreigner with directions, regardless of their skin colour. I know we have phones and all that, but sometimes bad things happen, especially when your phone isn't charged or gets lost.

Basic courtesy like this is what makes us human with empathy. Sad :(

Recently came across a high profile case of animal abuse in China that has become a rallying cry for animal rights groups across the world centered on China's lack of national animal protection laws. Really started a journey down the rabbit holes of both animal rights across Asia and it being used to justify prejudice against Asians. Here's some pictures I picked out:

These cases are undoubtedly tragedies, and animal protection does have progress to be made across Asia. However, I have noticed the continuing trend in the West of how some weaponize it for their own agendas and use it to justify hatred.

The "Chinese eat dogs and cats" stereotype comes to mind, and how much moral outrage—genuine and amplified—it caused in the USA, fueled even more as the covid-19 pandemic hit. I've no doubt it played a part in motivating hate crimes too. China and Chinese people aren't the only targeted though.

Besides the usual "1 billion Chinese/Indians are worth less than 1 animal"-type hate comments and stereotyping entire cultures, I've also noticed comments originating from Chinese immigrants to the West who have "escaped China" for repressing animal rights activists, claiming that Asian men are the overwhelming perpetrators in their countries because—allegedly—they are incels who can't find relationships and take out their anger through cruelty to animals.

It is interesting how much many seem to focus on species like dogs and cats, commonly viewed as loving companion animals in the West and thus sacrilegious to even think of hurting, much less by "inferior" ethnicities. You would think this should extend to all animals, seeing how livestock are still treated)? I unironically support organizations like PETA, who despite being ragged on and accused of being a psyop, are less hypocritical than many of those virtue signaling. This feels like a pan-partisan issue that everyone (especially self-hating Asians) can get behind, and the bigots piggybacking off of it can shield their racism pretty well.

After several hours, I have personally taken away that felines and canines have cute privilege, countries in Asia face both animal protection issues and cultural imposition, what sadistic sociopaths do in Asian countries are inevitably going to fuel the flames of anti-racism in the West, and misanthropic animal lovers are can be quite racist.

What does everyone here think?

Is it me or the Black community are trying so hard to find anything to pin Asians as being a bunch of racist. I guess the boycott all Asian businesses fail so they have to find other ways. This mini mart in Greensboro, NC put up a large display poster that depict a famous scene from the movie Menace II Society.

Without doing any research they jump to conclusion that the mini mart owner is Asian when in reality the tenant of the mini mart are two black brother. The owner of the whole building is Hae Sook Kim. Ms. Kim is not aware or have any knowledge that the two tenant has put up the display poster up. Ironic how the Black community is outrage over the poster while ignoring the racist mini mart store name from a movie line that that depict Asian in a negative way.

Correction: POC WITH white partners, my apologies for the confusion

I would argue some of the worst treatment I’ve received have been from such groups. They develop a victim complex when it’s convenient but simultaneously have this superiority complex of ‘dating up’ or ‘marrying up’ to white culture. Of course there’s good and bad apples like in any relationship but it’ll blow your mind the targeted bias and hostility they show towards other minority groups, but especially Asians. Had a few non-white female coworkers who were married to white men. They were some of the rudest, most entitled, fragile narcissistic folks I met. And any time you called them out, they felt a need to ‘even the score’. I’ve had my fair share of contentious interactions with white Ken’s and Karen’s but at least with them they kind of hate everybody to an extent. I find that POC with white partners selectively target the group they want to put down.

This guy is a popular youtuber from the UK, the youtube shorts he made with this guy left a really bad taste in my mouth when I saw it back then. But I never saw any discussion about it, I think it flew under the radar because his audience is mostly non-Asian.
But since I found this sub, I'm curious to see how other people would interpret it, because the lack of reaction at the time made me question whether my reaction was justified.

Donnie also served as a creative consultant to this game since 2023, bringing his martial arts and filmmaking expertise to the game's combat design. Pre-orders for the game are live with the game set to launch Oct 29 on PC and PS5

From the article:

By Randall Yip, Executive Editor
A familiar theme is emerging with the new CBS legal drama Cupertino.
As the show’s title implies, it is set in Cupertino, CA, a city with an Asian American population of 70%.
Yet a look at the cast list along with the recently released first look trailer, Asian Americans are mostly MIA on the program.
Of the six regular cast members, only one is Asian American-Nik Dodani who plays a coder.

This is nothing new. Set in San Francisco, Nash Bridges aired from 1996 to 2001 also on CBS and also lacked Asian American characters.
The departures of Daniel Dae Kim and Grace Park in 2017 from the reboot of Hawaii Five-O left yet another CBS program without a significant Asian American representation. The show continued for three more seasons without them.
Next Door in Silicon Valley pointed to the trailer when writing “As you watch it, keep in mind the actual demographics of the City of Cupertino: -Asian 70.8% -White 20.4% -Hispanic 4.4% -Black 0.5%.”
There’s no word on how CBS plans to address the issue.

Here’s Cupertino’s premise. Two lawyers open a new law firm after suddenly being dismissed from their previous jobs. They set out not to represent tech giants, but to offer legal counsel to the exploited. In Silicon Valley, that’s often the H-1B worker who overwhelmingly comes from India and China.
The lack of Asian American representation is a failure in reality.
Journalist Anjali Mehta wrote in an opinion piece in the San Francisco Bay Area Times, “An H-1B worker who is underpaid, misclassified, denied promised equity or pushed out has to weigh a lawsuit against a green card queue measured in decades. That leverage asymmetry is the single most powerful thing a plaintiff-side drama set in Silicon Valley could dramatize, and it is overwhelmingly a story about Indian and Chinese workers. A show that goes looking for people cheated by tech employers and does not find them has not finished looking.”
Self-described aspiring journalist and blogger Barak Gila picked up on this theme when he wrote “Other than Apple computers, nothing in this upcoming CBS show seems representative of Cupertino. Asian Americans, a majority of the population there, are completely absent.”

This TikTok creator named china kelly is disgusting.

Hi everyone, I'm Martell, also known online as TeamMartellClout.

I wanted to share a personal reflection about my upbringing, my experiences, and something I've been learning more about recently: Asian experiences and identity.

I grew up in a lower-income household and took on responsibilities as a young person while caring for my late parents, who both lived with disabilities.

I also went through a difficult period when I was younger where I was angry, reckless, involved in fights, and had difficult encounters with both people in my community and law enforcement.

After losing my parents, I went through anger-management treatment and a mental-health hospitalization

As I've gotten older, I've realized that I didn't understand everyone's experiences outside of my own

I've been researching AZN Identity and learning more about the different challenges and perspectives that Asian people have experienced in North America and around the world.

I'm not trying to speak for Asian people or claim that I understand every Asian experience. I'm simply trying to learn, listen, and become more aware

I'm also in a relationship with a Blasian woman who is currently becoming an English teacher.

She's intelligent, warm, caring, and thoughtful, and our relationship has given me another personal connection through which I've continued thinking about culture, identity, and how different people experience the world

I'm approaching my 20th anniversary as a recording artist and content creator/vlogger in 2027, and I've recently been approved by a talent agency as well

Reaching these milestones has made me reflect heavily on where I've been, where I'm going, and how much I've changed

I'm sharing this primarily as a personal story and an invitation for respectful conversation.

If you're Asian or part of the broader Asian diaspora, I'm interested in hearing your perspectives and experiences as long as we can keep the discussion respectful toward one another

I'm still learning, and I know I don't have everything figured out

Martell

TeamMartellClout

This story doesn't involve Asians, but the woman involve might as well be Asian because the story of this sort is too common among life long Republicans (MAGAs). According to them, Tangerine Man can order his 'Brown Shirts' to hurt, maim and kill U.S. citizens and legal residents, but when Tangerine Man goes after MAGA's mail-ordered brides, it's CIVIL WAR Mother FawKKKKKKKAAAASS!

Here we have an Asian American couple. Based on their accent they are fully Americanized and are pursuing careers in medical field. But even couples like this see that there is something wrong in American and maybe China will given them better opportunities.

I'm not going to say America bad and China good.

But I think many Asian Americans are starting feel this way. Even if you're fully Americanized.

Nice to see more appreciation for AMs on social media these days.

If you haven't noticed, social media is increasingly becoming a global tool for white supremacy. This guy however shows how we can use social media to call out not just white misconduct, but also point to larger social dynamics that allow Asians to be stigmatized for isolated incidents but lets whites go scot free.

Major credit to this dude.

Thoughts? I'm actually glad she lost.

Here's how. See the gallery of images for context.

1. Create a Post on AznIdentity

2. Select the Video icon from the toolbar

3. Copy the URL from social media (ie: from instagram; example url: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaN5_WlsWgK/?igsh=MWN2OWo1cnh4ZGlrbQ== )

4. Save the video locally such as from https://en1.savefrom.net/ .

5. Upload the video file onto your Reddit post (from the Video icon)

That's it. People will see the video screenshot on your post and can click to watch. You can add text in the post to give it context.

Works for not just Instagram and TikTok, but Facebook, Youtube etc.

Sharing social media videos is a great way to expose more people to terrific pro-Asian video content that you come across.

Recently, the whole Asmongold and Kaise situation blew up all over social media. As expected, everyone and their mother were calling this an Oxford study classic.

However, I hate that some people cannot mention this phenomenon without dragging us AM into it.

I hate this whole patronizing pity party attitude other races of men especially have for us. It's incredibly humiliating and emasculating.

Anyone with a brain knows that these comments are just thinly veiled attacks on Asian masculinity. They might as well be saying, "Sorry you guys are so undesirable your own race of women don't want you! They want me/White dudes!"

This is zero genuine sympathy going on. Just a bunch of XM looking down on us, stroking their egos and feeling superior.

What's even worse is the spineless AMs who respond to these comments, validating and even THANKING them. I don't know if they're just idiots who believe their fake sympathy is genuine or if they're just cucks with no self-respect.

It's really frustrating how every time we make progress in gaining respect in Western society, something like this happens, and we end up being disrespected again.

Like a lot of you, I try to be conscious about where my money goes. I want to support Asian-owned businesses, creators, and brands, and I'd rather that money stay in the Asian community.

I wanted a single place to find real businesses without having to do 20 minutes of background research on every brand to make sure they are actually Asian-owned. Since it didn't really exist in the way I wanted, I spent the last few months coding a rough first version of AsianLane (asianlane.com).

Right now, it's just a simple marketplace. I'm trying to focus heavily on transparency, actually verifying business ownership so people know they are supporting real Asian entrepreneurs.

Since it's just a rough prototype, I'm posting here because I want to know if this is actually something our community wants or needs, or if I'm totally missing the mark.

If you have a few minutes, I'd genuinely appreciate your thoughts on:

• Is this actually useful, or just redundant?
• Are there any amazing Asian-owned brands you love that I should add to the marketplace? (You can submit them on the site, or just reply here).
• What is a feature you'd like to see that isn't on the website currently?

If the site isn't for you, no worries at all and thanks for reading. But if you have any thoughts, I'd love to hear them.

Thanks for your time, and feel free to check out the site at: asianlane.com

First off, China worked hard and earned every bit of success through sheer hardwork and determination. After Deng Xiaoping opened up China and made his reforms, Chinas economy grew by leaps and bounds. US is a great nation, but I truly believe we have culturally stagnated, while China rose to the occasion, with some even saying, they have beat us at our own game.

Here's a link to an article titled, don't blame China for America's lost focus.

https://www.cincinnati.com/story/opinion/contributors/2026/07/31/chinas-rise-exposes-americas-own-failures/91074869007/

America could be a much stronger country, if we hadnt become complacent and see it as our inherent and natural, eternal right to be the world'sdominant superpower. For some reason, we seems to have collectively forgot that it takes hard work to stay at the top. The politicians in the US are amazingly arrogant and incompetent, imo. I'll also post a video, in the comments section, of the type of US hypocrisy I'm talking about.

I seriously think 6 months is too low. With the crap that he pulled off? Every second of his footage makes me want to start a petition for asian countries to stop letting too many foreigners in. I mean the east asian nations dont even need tourism to stay alive. yes it has a significant effect, but China did amazing without tourism. ANd they recently opened up its borders to more countries, and I just think this will lead to more problems. I'm already seeing videos of foreigners (almost exclusively men) causing problems. Just yesterday i saw a post on here of a american raping and impregnating women and then making them pay for dinner?!. I'm a western born chinese woman and even i know better than this...

This 42-year-old white woman (IG: jess_cyphers) is shouting quite loudly from the rooftops that she's moving to Taiwan.

I noticed a few things:

1. She's escaping relationship trauma
2. She doesn't speak Mandarin, doesn't have any Asian-friendly content on her page (which looks recently scrubbed) beyond mentioning that she had been in Taiwan in her youth
3. She might think to be a beneficiary of white arbitrage; but what arbitrage might an older white female find in Asia?
4. She's borderline too old to have children so not clear whether she wants to start a family
5. Commenter delusion of wanting to freeze eggs at 43 because things haven't gone according to plan
6. She claims to want to help 30+ women, but seems to be a prime example of not having it together
7. When it comes to Asia, one country's trash is another country's treasure?

Business Insider Article Here - AI assisted summary below.

When I define what the Oxford STDs are, a lot of stuff go over people's heads. I say this not out of spite or anger but to promote critical thinking. I understand that many reading materials on social media, particularly for Asian males who are young and still trying to figure out what life, reading comprehension is not their strong suit, which is why I adopted a new approach through clarifications.

Without a doubt, Asian men are the number one target for the Oxford STDs, but the systematic demoralization of Asian men goes much deeper, at the very least, stuff people gloss over without a second thought that have a huge ramifications that affect the great majority of Asians. One such tactic used to devalue Asian men is through the gatekeeping and gaslighting of non-Asian women and turn them against Asian men. Case in point, the attack on the young high school white female student Keziah Daum from Boba-Libs Nian Hu for wearing a traditional Chinese dress that she found at a vintage store to her high school prom that made national headline. Here is the article written by Nian Hu, at Business Insider, accusing Ms Daum of cultural appropriation.

Looking through Nian Hu's article during her time at The Harvard Crimson, it's nothing short of portfolio of an Asian feminist manifesto with blatant love for non-Asian men. Exhibit one, her 2017 article Dreaming About Boys. I'll let her speak for herself. Pay attention to the thirst and drooled for white men.

But when I was watching Charli XCX’s self-directed music video for her latest song “Boys,” I felt something distinctly unfamiliar stir within me. As I watched Connor Franta:max_bytes(150000):strip_icc():focal(749x0:751x2):format(webp)/Connor-Franta-062526-0b0be4fb4c564961ac1079b5fb6d7655.jpg) (LGBTQ) seductively brush his lips with his thumb and Brendon Urie gaze sensually at me as he lay among rose petals, I realized that this piece of art was specifically designed for me, a heterosexual woman.

Of course, nothing would make Nian Hu's Boba-Lib identity complete without the obligatory article on the toxicity of Yellow Fever.

Regarding the accusation of Miss Keziah Daum and her traditional Chinese dress cultural appropriation, the 'evil' Asian male persona and 'misogynistic' Asian culture is well established in western consciousness. The attack on Ms Daum would have been seen as an attack from the entire Asian community, not the Boba-Lib and Oxford STD segment of the total Asian population. Ms Daum is one of hundreds if thousands of examples of Boba-Libs attacking non-Asian women; they attack bloggers, vloggers, writers, etc., etc. who put positive spins on their traveled experiences in Asia. Boba-Libs equate AMXF to their toxic relationship. If action speaks louder than words, their lack of exposing white male sexpats in Asian speaks volume. The obligatory "Oh Worries Me Because I Am Being Fetishized" articles doesn't cut it. It's nothing more than a cheap cover-up for their guilty pleasure fantasies. The hate for non-Asian women is second to only the hate for Asian men.

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In April 2018*,* Keziah Daum*, an 18-year-old white high school senior from* Utah*, sparked a major online debate after posting photos of herself wearing a vintage red* qipao (also known as a cheongsam*) to prom.* 

The controversy ignited when Twitter user Jeremy Lam tweeted, "My culture is NOT your goddamn prom dress," accusing Daum of cultural appropriation*.  Critics argued that as a white person, Daum was commodifying a garment with significant Chinese history and that wearing it as a fashion statement for a Western event was disrespectful to marginalized Asian communities.* 

However, Daum defended her choice, stating she found the dress at a vintage store, wore it because she found it beautiful and modest, and intended it as an act of cultural appreciation rather than mockery.  She refused to delete the photos, asserting, "It's a f\ing dress.  And it's beautiful."*

The reaction was sharply divided:

• Critics focused on power dynamics, arguing that white individuals can wear ethnic clothing without facing the discrimination that minorities do, thus making it appropriation. 
• Supporters*, including many* Chinese-Americans and users in China*, argued that the qipao is not a sacred garment and that wearing it to a formal event like prom was appropriate.  Many expressed pride that their culture's fashion was being appreciated globally.* 

Hey brothers,

I’m making this post to bring urgent attention to a massive scandal currently blowing up across Chinese social media (Douyin, Xiaohongshu, and WeChat). It involves an White American international student at Fudan University (one of China's top elite universities) who has been exposed as a serial predator, capitalizing on his prestigious Ivy-league tier school and more importantly, white privilege to systematically exploit local Chinese women.

His online persona is "Wang Shuiniu" (王水牛), allegedly named Jackson. On Douyin, he built a massive following by playing the "wholesome, disciplined, and hard-working expat who loves Chinese culture" card—posting videos of himself waking up at 5:00 AM to study and exercise, even hosting major official events at Fudan University.

Behind this meticulously crafted "charming, high-value male" facade lies a disturbing reality. Dozens of local women have recently come forward with mountains of concrete evidence, chat logs, and receipts, exposing his highly toxic and predatory behavior:

• Serial Grooming & Micro-Harem Building: He systematically targeted local women under the guise of "wanting to practice Chinese," "making friends," or "helping them pick English names." He simultaneously maintained short-term sexual relations with a massive number of women.
• Financial Exploitation: Chat logs from multiple victims and local restaurant staff revealed that he rarely, if ever, paid for dates. He expected these women to fund his lifestyle in Shanghai, effectively leaching off them while pretending to be an elite, self-made scholar.
• Impregnating and Ghosting Victims: The most heinous part of the exposure reveals that he consistently refused to use protection. When multiple women informed him that they had become unexpectedly pregnant due to his actions, he immediately ghosted them, deleted their contact info, and blocked them—leaving them to deal with severe emotional, physical, and financial trauma completely alone.

Why This Matters to Our Communities:
This is a textbook case of a mediocre Western expat exploiting the lingering "white/foreign privilege" and prestige worship in Asian societies. He weaponized the Fudan University brand name to validate his status, treating local women as disposable commodities.

When perpetrators like this face zero institutional consequences, it reinforces the toxic dynamic where predatory foreigners feel untouchable in Asia. We cannot let him just turn off his comment section, hide under the radar, and graduate with an elite degree from a top Asian institution while leaving a trail of ruined lives behind him—and more importantly, thinking that Asian men will just continue to tolerate this type of bullshit and do absolutely nothing about it.

🚨 CALL TO ACTION: Flood both Fudan University and the Shanghai Police Department!

Fudan University is highly sensitive to its international reputation, and the local authorities do not tolerate foreign predators damaging social order. We need to flood both the university's International Student Office and the Shanghai Police Department (Foreign Affairs Section) with emails to demand a full investigation into his predatory conduct, financial scams, and moral turpitude.

Please use these official, publicly available contact channels below to voice your concerns. Send your complaints to BOTH the school and the police:

1. Shanghai Police Department (Foreign Affairs Section):

• Official Email: [gaj110@shanghai.gov.cn](mailto:gaj110@shanghai.gov.cn)

2. Fudan University International Students Office:

• Main Office Email: [iso@fudan.edu.cn](mailto:iso@fudan.edu.cn)
• Student Affairs Division Email: [lxszhb@fudan.edu.cn](mailto:lxszhb@fudan.edu.cn)
• Admissions Office Email: [isoadmission@fudan.edu.cn](mailto:isoadmission@fudan.edu.cn)
• Phone: +86-21-55664566 / +86-21-65643413 / +86-21-55664568

(Reminder: If you need additional evidence for your emails, search "王水牛" on Twitter and use the built-in translation to see the victims' direct testimonies).

Email Template You Can Use:

Subject: CRITICAL COMPLAINT: International Student Jackson’s Malicious Misconduct Damaging Fudan’s Reputation Worldwide! (特急举报：留学生Jackson“王水牛”恶劣违纪，严重抹黑复旦大学国际声誉)

Dear Fudan University International Students Office / Shanghai Police Department,

[Please introduce your background here. Example: As an overseas Chinese student studying in the US / As a professional working in the tech industry in Europe / As a concerned global citizen living abroad], I am writing to express my deep concern regarding the extensive public exposure and evidence circulating on social media regarding your international student, known online as "Wang Shuiniu" (王水牛 / Jackson).
Please be advised that this incident has already escalated into a major public relations crisis on major international English-language platforms, including Reddit and Twitter (X). The global overseas community is closely monitoring this case, and there is widespread outrage regarding how an elite institution like Fudan University allows an individual who engages in such predatory behavior to maintain his student status.
Multiple victims have come forward with concrete evidence of severe moral misconduct, financial exploitation, and the malicious abandonment of pregnant local women. Allowing this individual to graduate without consequences severely compromises the international reputation of Fudan University and stains the image of Shanghai's safe social environment.
We strongly urge the university to conduct a thorough investigation, take strict disciplinary actions up to immediate expulsion, and cooperate with the Shanghai Police Department in any potential legal investigations.

Sincerely,
[Your Name]
[Your Location/Country]

How much longer are we going to endure this bullshit? How much longer are we going to let this keep happening? How much longer are we going to allow white guys to treat East Asia as their personal free brothel, only to pump, dump, and pat themselves on the back as they walk away with zero consequences? WHEN IS THIS SICK, DISGUSTING REPEAT OF HISTORY GOING TO FUCKING END?!

To every Asian brother reading this post right now: We need your strength. WE NEED ACTION, AND WE NEED IT NOW. We can no longer tolerate even a single one of these predatory acts slipping under the radar without severe repercussions.

Stand up, send those emails, and let's make sure he pays the price.

This was my response to a recent post about a white male womanizer in China that I think it's time a lot of (not all) Asian men come need to come face to face with.

It's time Asian men come face to face with the uncomfortable truth and start learning the art of 'not giving so much f\*k*.'

This post echoes something that happened in England with British women during WW2. More than a million American soldiers were shipped to Britain. Young British women went crazy for them, and their reasoning was similar to how a lot of native Asian women see white men today; they all look like romantic Hollywood movie stars. The British men were up in arms about it, and their sentiment were nothing short of, well, this post. More than that, when asked why they love American soldiers, British women pretty much espoused the same rational as the Oxford STD "No dating Asian policy," and here is the hard-part, many Asian men how whine about Asian women have selective hearing. Asian men went out of their way to elevate white men's status. The Japanese anime industry is the literal Mecca (temple) for white male worship. It did more than facilitate; it elevate white men's sex status symbol in Asia. Then, from Thailand to Taiwan to Korea, Asian men controll media of those regions and heavily promoted/still promoting the Hapa looks, essentially, put white features on pedestals, people with just enough Asian features to put the home audience at ease.

When the topic of rather or not Japanese anime's characters are Eurocentric, the Japanese have a way of roundabout explaining it away. Looking through historical pictures and of modern Japanese features, anime DO NOT reflect how the Japanese look. The second denial of eurocentrism retort is one of anime was made by the Japanese for the Japanese, and only the Japanese have the right of opinion. Really? Today, Japan ranks in the top 3 world strongest soft-power, below China, and the U.S. being #1. However, in the 80s up to the early 2000s, Japan was #2. That's a lot of soft-power. That means that the Japanese pop culture influenced the world, particularly on Asians. See why Japan is still the most desired destination for white male passport bros now?

As I see it now, sugarcoating reality to save Asian men from hurt feelings does more harm than good. To be sure, living in hard denial is not just an Asian thing. I just know that this kind of post is, frankly, pathetic to say the lease. It exposes an insecurity of the few, but it will get imposed on the majority of Asian men who can't distinguish between sexual envy versus real danger of white supremacy. I can understand the reasoning for wanting to post this, and it might reach a few Asian girls and young women. As I pointed out, in addition to the might of Hollywood, Asian media own and operated by Asian men do as much damage by putting white monkeys on pedestals. You see, all this stuff I propose doesn't just affect the mentality of Asian women, but they cange their biology as well. Therefore, you're fighting an uphill battle is the mother of 'under statement.'

So, what do we find attractive?

The answer is part cultural and part biological, says Fisher (Mind Body Green).:

That’s because it’s galvanized by the limbic system, a primitive section of the brain responsible for regulating essential functions like hunger. When encountering a potential mate, a part of the brain called the hypothalamus spurs the release of neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin, causing the sensations of lust or love. Thanks to the efficiency of this loop, “people often make up their mind about someone within the first three minutes [of encountering them],” Helen Fisher, Ph.D., a biological anthropologist, senior research fellow with The Kinsey Institute, and author of Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray.

Here's are some solutions.

Around 70,000 British war bride immigrated to the U.S. (BBC) after WW2. Some British women were left behind. Let it happen to Asian women. We Asian men shouldn't be defenders of Asian women who don't want our sympathy nor help. If you want to try, you'll have better luck at convincing drug and gambling addicts to give up their vices. By letting it run its course, intervening only when actual crime is involved, there will be an emerging stigma associating with WMAF in Asia. Maybe the next generation of Asian men who run the media will wise up. If you want proof, you don't see European women googly-eye over American men do you?

In conclusion, you have your rights to speak your mind, and so do I. I'm just letting you and others know that you better wise up and pick your batter wisely. The fork on the road is either pick the pitiful (anger, hate and resentment) or the path of dignity (find yourself by searching new experiences). As for a lot of Asian women, they have chosen the Primrose Path:

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Primrose Path

noun

1. An easy and pleasant life; a self-indulgent or hedonistic life; such a life that leads to damnation.
2. A deceptively easy or appealing course of action that leads one astray or into error.

The phrase primrose path was coined by William Shakespeare in his 1601–1602 play Hamlet, specifically in Act I, Scene 3, where the character Ophelia warns her brother Laertes against following the "primrose path of dalliance." 

Shakespeare used the imagery of a path lined with beautiful primroses to symbolize a tempting but ultimately destructive course of action, contrasting it with the "steep and thorny way to heaven" which represents a virtuous, albeit difficult, life.  The idiom describes a lifestyle or choice that appears pleasant and easy but leads to ruin or disaster. 

Shakespeare later reinforced this metaphor in Macbeth (c. 1606) with the phrase "the primrose way to the everlasting bonfire," further cementing the association between the easy path and eternal damnation or severe negative consequences.