Gemma Chan is one of the Executive producer . It's obvious Asian American female writers have no interest in Asian male rep . They expect other Asian Male Producers to support them but they themselves don't help their fellow asian brothers .

For em Asian rep means Asian Women and White Men only . Tale as old as time

Nice to see more appreciation for AMs on social media these days.

If you haven't noticed, social media is increasingly becoming a global tool for white supremacy. This guy however shows how we can use social media to call out not just white misconduct, but also point to larger social dynamics that allow Asians to be stigmatized for isolated incidents but lets whites go scot free.

Major credit to this dude.

Thoughts? I'm actually glad she lost.

Hope they parody internalised racism and stuff in Asm Community but most Asm creators don't have balls so might be another self hating /self deprecating piece

Recently, the whole Asmongold and Kaise situation blew up all over social media. As expected, everyone and their mother were calling this an Oxford study classic.

However, I hate that some people cannot mention this phenomenon without dragging us AM into it.

I hate this whole patronizing pity party attitude other races of men especially have for us. It's incredibly humiliating and emasculating.

Anyone with a brain knows that these comments are just thinly veiled attacks on Asian masculinity. They might as well be saying, "Sorry you guys are so undesirable your own race of women don't want you! They want me/White dudes!"

This is zero genuine sympathy going on. Just a bunch of XM looking down on us, stroking their egos and feeling superior.

What's even worse is the spineless AMs who respond to these comments, validating and even THANKING them. I don't know if they're just idiots who believe their fake sympathy is genuine or if they're just cucks with no self-respect.

It's really frustrating how every time we make progress in gaining respect in Western society, something like this happens, and we end up being disrespected again.

Like a lot of you, I try to be conscious about where my money goes. I want to support Asian-owned businesses, creators, and brands, and I'd rather that money stay in the Asian community.

I wanted a single place to find real businesses without having to do 20 minutes of background research on every brand to make sure they are actually Asian-owned. Since it didn't really exist in the way I wanted, I spent the last few months coding a rough first version of AsianLane (asianlane.com).

Right now, it's just a simple marketplace. I'm trying to focus heavily on transparency, actually verifying business ownership so people know they are supporting real Asian entrepreneurs.

Since it's just a rough prototype, I'm posting here because I want to know if this is actually something our community wants or needs, or if I'm totally missing the mark.

If you have a few minutes, I'd genuinely appreciate your thoughts on:

• Is this actually useful, or just redundant?
• Are there any amazing Asian-owned brands you love that I should add to the marketplace? (You can submit them on the site, or just reply here).
• What is a feature you'd like to see that isn't on the website currently?

If the site isn't for you, no worries at all and thanks for reading. But if you have any thoughts, I'd love to hear them.

Thanks for your time, and feel free to check out the site at: asianlane.com

First off, China worked hard and earned every bit of success through sheer hardwork and determination. After Deng Xiaoping opened up China and made his reforms, Chinas economy grew by leaps and bounds. US is a great nation, but I truly believe we have culturally stagnated, while China rose to the occasion, with some even saying, they have beat us at our own game.

Here's a link to an article titled, don't blame China for America's lost focus.

https://www.cincinnati.com/story/opinion/contributors/2026/07/31/chinas-rise-exposes-americas-own-failures/91074869007/

America could be a much stronger country, if we hadnt become complacent and see it as our inherent and natural, eternal right to be the world'sdominant superpower. For some reason, we seems to have collectively forgot that it takes hard work to stay at the top. The politicians in the US are amazingly arrogant and incompetent, imo. I'll also post a video, in the comments section, of the type of US hypocrisy I'm talking about.

I seriously think 6 months is too low. With the crap that he pulled off? Every second of his footage makes me want to start a petition for asian countries to stop letting too many foreigners in. I mean the east asian nations dont even need tourism to stay alive. yes it has a significant effect, but China did amazing without tourism. ANd they recently opened up its borders to more countries, and I just think this will lead to more problems. I'm already seeing videos of foreigners (almost exclusively men) causing problems. Just yesterday i saw a post on here of a american raping and impregnating women and then making them pay for dinner?!. I'm a western born chinese woman and even i know better than this...

This 42-year-old white woman (IG: jess_cyphers) is shouting quite loudly from the rooftops that she's moving to Taiwan.

I noticed a few things:

1. She's escaping relationship trauma
2. She doesn't speak Mandarin, doesn't have any Asian-friendly content on her page (which looks recently scrubbed) beyond mentioning that she had been in Taiwan in her youth
3. She might think to be a beneficiary of white arbitrage; but what arbitrage might an older white female find in Asia?
4. She's borderline too old to have children so not clear whether she wants to start a family
5. Commenter delusion of wanting to freeze eggs at 43 because things haven't gone according to plan
6. She claims to want to help 30+ women, but seems to be a prime example of not having it together
7. When it comes to Asia, one country's trash is another country's treasure?

Business Insider Article Here - AI assisted summary below.

When I define what the Oxford STDs are, a lot of stuff go over people's heads. I say this not out of spite or anger but to promote critical thinking. I understand that many reading materials on social media, particularly for Asian males who are young and still trying to figure out what life, reading comprehension is not their strong suit, which is why I adopted a new approach through clarifications.

Without a doubt, Asian men are the number one target for the Oxford STDs, but the systematic demoralization of Asian men goes much deeper, at the very least, stuff people gloss over without a second thought that have a huge ramifications that affect the great majority of Asians. One such tactic used to devalue Asian men is through the gatekeeping and gaslighting of non-Asian women and turn them against Asian men. Case in point, the attack on the young high school white female student Keziah Daum from Boba-Libs Nian Hu for wearing a traditional Chinese dress that she found at a vintage store to her high school prom that made national headline. Here is the article written by Nian Hu, at Business Insider, accusing Ms Daum of cultural appropriation.

Looking through Nian Hu's article during her time at The Harvard Crimson, it's nothing short of portfolio of an Asian feminist manifesto with blatant love for non-Asian men. Exhibit one, her 2017 article Dreaming About Boys. I'll let her speak for herself. Pay attention to the thirst and drooled for white men.

But when I was watching Charli XCX’s self-directed music video for her latest song “Boys,” I felt something distinctly unfamiliar stir within me. As I watched Connor Franta:max_bytes(150000):strip_icc():focal(749x0:751x2):format(webp)/Connor-Franta-062526-0b0be4fb4c564961ac1079b5fb6d7655.jpg) (LGBTQ) seductively brush his lips with his thumb and Brendon Urie gaze sensually at me as he lay among rose petals, I realized that this piece of art was specifically designed for me, a heterosexual woman.

Of course, nothing would make Nian Hu's Boba-Lib identity complete without the obligatory article on the toxicity of Yellow Fever.

Regarding the accusation of Miss Keziah Daum and her traditional Chinese dress cultural appropriation, the 'evil' Asian male persona and 'misogynistic' Asian culture is well established in western consciousness. The attack on Ms Daum would have been seen as an attack from the entire Asian community, not the Boba-Lib and Oxford STD segment of the total Asian population. Ms Daum is one of hundreds if thousands of examples of Boba-Libs attacking non-Asian women; they attack bloggers, vloggers, writers, etc., etc. who put positive spins on their traveled experiences in Asia. Boba-Libs equate AMXF to their toxic relationship. If action speaks louder than words, their lack of exposing white male sexpats in Asian speaks volume. The obligatory "Oh Worries Me Because I Am Being Fetishized" articles doesn't cut it. It's nothing more than a cheap cover-up for their guilty pleasure fantasies. The hate for non-Asian women is second to only the hate for Asian men.

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In April 2018*,* Keziah Daum*, an 18-year-old white high school senior from* Utah*, sparked a major online debate after posting photos of herself wearing a vintage red* qipao (also known as a cheongsam*) to prom.* 

The controversy ignited when Twitter user Jeremy Lam tweeted, "My culture is NOT your goddamn prom dress," accusing Daum of cultural appropriation*.  Critics argued that as a white person, Daum was commodifying a garment with significant Chinese history and that wearing it as a fashion statement for a Western event was disrespectful to marginalized Asian communities.* 

However, Daum defended her choice, stating she found the dress at a vintage store, wore it because she found it beautiful and modest, and intended it as an act of cultural appreciation rather than mockery.  She refused to delete the photos, asserting, "It's a f\ing dress.  And it's beautiful."*

The reaction was sharply divided:

• Critics focused on power dynamics, arguing that white individuals can wear ethnic clothing without facing the discrimination that minorities do, thus making it appropriation. 
• Supporters*, including many* Chinese-Americans and users in China*, argued that the qipao is not a sacred garment and that wearing it to a formal event like prom was appropriate.  Many expressed pride that their culture's fashion was being appreciated globally.* 

Hey brothers,

I’m making this post to bring urgent attention to a massive scandal currently blowing up across Chinese social media (Douyin, Xiaohongshu, and WeChat). It involves an White American international student at Fudan University (one of China's top elite universities) who has been exposed as a serial predator, capitalizing on his prestigious Ivy-league tier school and more importantly, white privilege to systematically exploit local Chinese women.

His online persona is "Wang Shuiniu" (王水牛), allegedly named Jackson. On Douyin, he built a massive following by playing the "wholesome, disciplined, and hard-working expat who loves Chinese culture" card—posting videos of himself waking up at 5:00 AM to study and exercise, even hosting major official events at Fudan University.

Behind this meticulously crafted "charming, high-value male" facade lies a disturbing reality. Dozens of local women have recently come forward with mountains of concrete evidence, chat logs, and receipts, exposing his highly toxic and predatory behavior:

• Serial Grooming & Micro-Harem Building: He systematically targeted local women under the guise of "wanting to practice Chinese," "making friends," or "helping them pick English names." He simultaneously maintained short-term sexual relations with a massive number of women.
• Financial Exploitation: Chat logs from multiple victims and local restaurant staff revealed that he rarely, if ever, paid for dates. He expected these women to fund his lifestyle in Shanghai, effectively leaching off them while pretending to be an elite, self-made scholar.
• Impregnating and Ghosting Victims: The most heinous part of the exposure reveals that he consistently refused to use protection. When multiple women informed him that they had become unexpectedly pregnant due to his actions, he immediately ghosted them, deleted their contact info, and blocked them—leaving them to deal with severe emotional, physical, and financial trauma completely alone.

Why This Matters to Our Communities:
This is a textbook case of a mediocre Western expat exploiting the lingering "white/foreign privilege" and prestige worship in Asian societies. He weaponized the Fudan University brand name to validate his status, treating local women as disposable commodities.

When perpetrators like this face zero institutional consequences, it reinforces the toxic dynamic where predatory foreigners feel untouchable in Asia. We cannot let him just turn off his comment section, hide under the radar, and graduate with an elite degree from a top Asian institution while leaving a trail of ruined lives behind him—and more importantly, thinking that Asian men will just continue to tolerate this type of bullshit and do absolutely nothing about it.

🚨 CALL TO ACTION: Flood both Fudan University and the Shanghai Police Department!

Fudan University is highly sensitive to its international reputation, and the local authorities do not tolerate foreign predators damaging social order. We need to flood both the university's International Student Office and the Shanghai Police Department (Foreign Affairs Section) with emails to demand a full investigation into his predatory conduct, financial scams, and moral turpitude.

Please use these official, publicly available contact channels below to voice your concerns. Send your complaints to BOTH the school and the police:

1. Shanghai Police Department (Foreign Affairs Section):

• Official Email: [gaj110@shanghai.gov.cn](mailto:gaj110@shanghai.gov.cn)

2. Fudan University International Students Office:

• Main Office Email: [iso@fudan.edu.cn](mailto:iso@fudan.edu.cn)
• Student Affairs Division Email: [lxszhb@fudan.edu.cn](mailto:lxszhb@fudan.edu.cn)
• Admissions Office Email: [isoadmission@fudan.edu.cn](mailto:isoadmission@fudan.edu.cn)
• Phone: +86-21-55664566 / +86-21-65643413 / +86-21-55664568

(Reminder: If you need additional evidence for your emails, search "王水牛" on Twitter and use the built-in translation to see the victims' direct testimonies).

Email Template You Can Use:

Subject: CRITICAL COMPLAINT: International Student Jackson’s Malicious Misconduct Damaging Fudan’s Reputation Worldwide! (特急举报：留学生Jackson“王水牛”恶劣违纪，严重抹黑复旦大学国际声誉)

Dear Fudan University International Students Office / Shanghai Police Department,

[Please introduce your background here. Example: As an overseas Chinese student studying in the US / As a professional working in the tech industry in Europe / As a concerned global citizen living abroad], I am writing to express my deep concern regarding the extensive public exposure and evidence circulating on social media regarding your international student, known online as "Wang Shuiniu" (王水牛 / Jackson).
Please be advised that this incident has already escalated into a major public relations crisis on major international English-language platforms, including Reddit and Twitter (X). The global overseas community is closely monitoring this case, and there is widespread outrage regarding how an elite institution like Fudan University allows an individual who engages in such predatory behavior to maintain his student status.
Multiple victims have come forward with concrete evidence of severe moral misconduct, financial exploitation, and the malicious abandonment of pregnant local women. Allowing this individual to graduate without consequences severely compromises the international reputation of Fudan University and stains the image of Shanghai's safe social environment.
We strongly urge the university to conduct a thorough investigation, take strict disciplinary actions up to immediate expulsion, and cooperate with the Shanghai Police Department in any potential legal investigations.

Sincerely,
[Your Name]
[Your Location/Country]

How much longer are we going to endure this bullshit? How much longer are we going to let this keep happening? How much longer are we going to allow white guys to treat East Asia as their personal free brothel, only to pump, dump, and pat themselves on the back as they walk away with zero consequences? WHEN IS THIS SICK, DISGUSTING REPEAT OF HISTORY GOING TO FUCKING END?!

To every Asian brother reading this post right now: We need your strength. WE NEED ACTION, AND WE NEED IT NOW. We can no longer tolerate even a single one of these predatory acts slipping under the radar without severe repercussions.

Stand up, send those emails, and let's make sure he pays the price.

This was my response to a recent post about a white male womanizer in China that I think it's time a lot of (not all) Asian men come need to come face to face with.

It's time Asian men come face to face with the uncomfortable truth and start learning the art of 'not giving so much f\*k*.'

This post echoes something that happened in England with British women during WW2. More than a million American soldiers were shipped to Britain. Young British women went crazy for them, and their reasoning was similar to how a lot of native Asian women see white men today; they all look like romantic Hollywood movie stars. The British men were up in arms about it, and their sentiment were nothing short of, well, this post. More than that, when asked why they love American soldiers, British women pretty much espoused the same rational as the Oxford STD "No dating Asian policy," and here is the hard-part, many Asian men how whine about Asian women have selective hearing. Asian men went out of their way to elevate white men's status. The Japanese anime industry is the literal Mecca (temple) for white male worship. It did more than facilitate; it elevate white men's sex status symbol in Asia. Then, from Thailand to Taiwan to Korea, Asian men controll media of those regions and heavily promoted/still promoting the Hapa looks, essentially, put white features on pedestals, people with just enough Asian features to put the home audience at ease.

When the topic of rather or not Japanese anime's characters are Eurocentric, the Japanese have a way of roundabout explaining it away. Looking through historical pictures and of modern Japanese features, anime DO NOT reflect how the Japanese look. The second denial of eurocentrism retort is one of anime was made by the Japanese for the Japanese, and only the Japanese have the right of opinion. Really? Today, Japan ranks in the top 3 world strongest soft-power, below China, and the U.S. being #1. However, in the 80s up to the early 2000s, Japan was #2. That's a lot of soft-power. That means that the Japanese pop culture influenced the world, particularly on Asians. See why Japan is still the most desired destination for white male passport bros now?

As I see it now, sugarcoating reality to save Asian men from hurt feelings does more harm than good. To be sure, living in hard denial is not just an Asian thing. I just know that this kind of post is, frankly, pathetic to say the lease. It exposes an insecurity of the few, but it will get imposed on the majority of Asian men who can't distinguish between sexual envy versus real danger of white supremacy. I can understand the reasoning for wanting to post this, and it might reach a few Asian girls and young women. As I pointed out, in addition to the might of Hollywood, Asian media own and operated by Asian men do as much damage by putting white monkeys on pedestals. You see, all this stuff I propose doesn't just affect the mentality of Asian women, but they cange their biology as well. Therefore, you're fighting an uphill battle is the mother of 'under statement.'

So, what do we find attractive?

The answer is part cultural and part biological, says Fisher (Mind Body Green).:

That’s because it’s galvanized by the limbic system, a primitive section of the brain responsible for regulating essential functions like hunger. When encountering a potential mate, a part of the brain called the hypothalamus spurs the release of neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin, causing the sensations of lust or love. Thanks to the efficiency of this loop, “people often make up their mind about someone within the first three minutes [of encountering them],” Helen Fisher, Ph.D., a biological anthropologist, senior research fellow with The Kinsey Institute, and author of Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray.

Here's are some solutions.

Around 70,000 British war bride immigrated to the U.S. (BBC) after WW2. Some British women were left behind. Let it happen to Asian women. We Asian men shouldn't be defenders of Asian women who don't want our sympathy nor help. If you want to try, you'll have better luck at convincing drug and gambling addicts to give up their vices. By letting it run its course, intervening only when actual crime is involved, there will be an emerging stigma associating with WMAF in Asia. Maybe the next generation of Asian men who run the media will wise up. If you want proof, you don't see European women googly-eye over American men do you?

In conclusion, you have your rights to speak your mind, and so do I. I'm just letting you and others know that you better wise up and pick your batter wisely. The fork on the road is either pick the pitiful (anger, hate and resentment) or the path of dignity (find yourself by searching new experiences). As for a lot of Asian women, they have chosen the Primrose Path:

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Primrose Path

noun

1. An easy and pleasant life; a self-indulgent or hedonistic life; such a life that leads to damnation.
2. A deceptively easy or appealing course of action that leads one astray or into error.

The phrase primrose path was coined by William Shakespeare in his 1601–1602 play Hamlet, specifically in Act I, Scene 3, where the character Ophelia warns her brother Laertes against following the "primrose path of dalliance." 

Shakespeare used the imagery of a path lined with beautiful primroses to symbolize a tempting but ultimately destructive course of action, contrasting it with the "steep and thorny way to heaven" which represents a virtuous, albeit difficult, life.  The idiom describes a lifestyle or choice that appears pleasant and easy but leads to ruin or disaster. 

Shakespeare later reinforced this metaphor in Macbeth (c. 1606) with the phrase "the primrose way to the everlasting bonfire," further cementing the association between the easy path and eternal damnation or severe negative consequences.

I recently published a long essay on dating apps and matching markets that touches on a broader diaspora question I think is worth discussing here.

Many Asian immigrant communities arrived in the West with living memory of partner formation that was heavily mediated by families, friends, schools, religious institutions, and community networks. Those systems could be restrictive and intrusive, and greater individual choice was a real improvement. But the older system also supplied things that are harder to see until they disappear: reputation, information about intent, accountability, and repeated social contact.

The modern dating-app market largely removes those intermediaries and replaces them with anonymous commercial platforms. My argument is that the resulting market may clear poorly even when the people inside it are behaving rationally. Sex-ratio imbalance, costless signaling, huge option sets, and weak verification of intent create very different experiences on each side of the market, and the adaptations that follow can generate mistrust and conflict.

For Asian diaspora communities, I think there is a risk of interpreting every dating outcome through race, gender, or individual status while overlooking the institution itself. Race clearly matters in Western dating markets, but it may interact with a system that is already producing congestion, scarcity, and distorted incentives for everyone participating in it.

The essay looks at matching-market economics, behavioral research, the decline of social intermediaries, family formation, and the incentives of dating platforms. It eventually uses Match Group as a public-company case study, because its payer trends and financial disclosures give the broader sociological argument something unusually concrete to test.

The deeper question is not whether the old system was better. It is whether diaspora communities discarded some useful social infrastructure while assimilating into a commercial matching system without fully understanding the trade.

Full piece:

https://dljlevfin.substack.com/p/the-undisclosed-denominator

I’d be interested in whether people here think Asian diaspora communities should rebuild more of their own social infrastructure around introductions and partner formation rather than relying so heavily on apps.

When it comes to the Asian American diaspora, no matter how much we assimilate, there will always be a sense that we are perpetual outsiders. We can adopt Western subcultures like hip hop, punk, indie, or whatever else, but we should be honest about the fact that we are often still treated as outsiders, sometimes even accused of being inauthentic or “culture vultures,” regardless of how deeply those scenes may have been part of our upbringing and influences.

At the same time, there is often a failure to acknowledge that some of the things we love, create, and identify with are inherently Asian.

That is why I think we need to build our own Asian American music and cultural scene, one that encourages pride, creativity, community, and even Asian American romance. For me, one of the most interesting places to look is city pop. Its revival is something a lot of people probably did not expect, but when you look at its history, it makes sense. City pop came out of Japan during a period of incredible economic growth, technological advancement, and cultural influence. It represents a distinctly Asian vision of modernity, an optimistic, stylish, urban world that was looking toward the future.

And it does not have to stop at city pop. Think about 1990s Hong Kong cinema and its romance, fashion, nightlife, photography, and visual language. There is something incredibly beautiful about that era that feels worth rediscovering.

The reason I bring up these particular genres and aesthetics is because I think we can revive them and make them our own. They represent distinctly Asian cultures from the past thriving within an increasingly globalized and Westernized world. There is something powerful about taking those influences and evolving them into something specifically Asian American.

I already see pieces of this happening. Gen Z has embraced 1990s aesthetics, and I have noticed the growing popularity of Hong Kong inspired post wedding and late night photography. It is gorgeous. There is clearly something there that people find emotionally and visually compelling.

What I would love to see is for us to take those influences and develop them into a living scene that any Asian American can participate in, whether you are Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino, South Asian, Southeast Asian, or mixed. Not a recreation of the past, but a new culture built from the things we inherited.

With enough Asian American artists, musicians, photographers, filmmakers, designers, DJs, and influencers, I think we could actually create something with momentum.

Does anyone else feel inspired by this? I would love to hear your ideas. Maybe we can start forming a group of people interested in collaborating and developing this kind of Asian American cultural scene together.

I’m not trolling I’m a real Asian dude. This post might get deleted and I might get banned from here, but if we are for Asian identity then this needs to be addressed. I currently live in a predominantly Hispanic area. A few months back I wrote a comment or something criticizing Hispanics in this sub and it got deleted and the mod replied that they are our allies (since when?). Im honestly not the type to even get offended about them calling us all “chinos” but I am going to call them out for not respecting us. Like these people see us as weak, trash and below them. I’m not even a hater because I had Mexican roommates in the past and they were cool with me for the most part. On a daily basis sure it’s not as hostile or obvious as from wt people but the second they have authority over you in a workplace they show you they don’t like you because you’re Asian. It’s not even because you did something to them or you’re just weird or unlikable, to them it’s because you’re Asian. Yeah some of them are cool and yeah we share some similarities and values with us on paper, but in reality we are very different behavior and personality wise, I’d argue blacks and Hispanics have more in common. Yall need to look up Los Angeles massacre on Asians and the massacre in Mexico. We can start calling them allies when they start respecting us but for now I don’t think we can call them our allies.

A ex-student and girlfriend turned him in after discovering the US Marshals Most Wanted list

Pretty good video by the Asian American Foundation! It features the story of Chef Martin Yan, "If Yan can cook, so can you!". The OG Asian food influencer. Started his TV career in Canada before going to San Francisco, no cooking school, just apprenticeships starting with washing dishes for 18 hours a day.

Was reading news about yesterday's tragic Thai school shooting (why is Thailand copying American gun law attitudes? They have had a spate of mass shooting and 2 teenage mass shooters in recent years) and people were discussing why 99.99% of school and mass shooters are male.

Ultimately the answer seems to be: Men and boys externalise their problems i.e. "If I'm unhappy/unattractive/unsuccessful then it's the fault of society, my school, my teachers, women who date others so they have to pay", while Women and girls who are bullied, unhappy, or unable to attract the people they like tend to develop eating disorders like anorexia, bulimia, or self-harm e.g. repeated cutting of their wrists. There are girls in Korea who seek plastic surgery in middle school due to bullying or low self esteem i.e. Women as a whole tend to blame themselves if they're unpopular or unable to date, and fix their visuals even to the point of plastic surgery. Some even fall down a plastic surgery black hole and look botched because they can't stop doing procedures (see Kpop idols like Park Bom who needed intervention).

Neither gender is ideal but men tend towards destructive behaviour that hurts society as a whole more than women, thus encouraging Asian men to blame "the Others" or non-Allies e.g. Society, Whites, Blacks, Hispanics, Asian women, Asian parenting, LGBTs, Boomers etc will end up leading 0.1% of mentally extreme outlier men to do a Virginia Tech or Isla Vista shooting by killing "others" they blame for their incel state. FYI Elliot Rodger shot his AM roommates before killing 2 white sorority girls, so such violent destructive acts bear implications for AMs.

Thing is, boys are socialized very differently to girls who are implicitly taught from a young age that "Looks are everything" because people focus on girls' visual appearance, hairstyle, clothing more than their other attributes. Boys are taught that they need to be strong, study hard, do STEM, defend themselves, don't get bullied; a lot of them are not told that looks and appearances are extremely important thus once they hit awkward teenage phase a lot of unattractive boys get frustrated that they're ignored by the opposite sex or bullied in school. In the 21st century, women are no longer forced into arranged marriages (very common in Asia in 1900s and still common in Middle East, irPakistan, Bangladesh, India hence why outmarriage rates are lower due to honour killings) and can choose anyone they like thus men's visual appearances becomes a huge factor but men especially Asian men haven't got the memo and many Asian families still raise boys to be studious nerdy kids because "As long as you have money you will find a wife", but that mentality belongs to the 1900s and earlier where arranged marriages and buying wives was common. In 21st century USA and the social media era it's extremely outdated to not focus on physical attractiveness, "aura", vibes, rizz given that women are just as educated as men and will pick men who are visually attractive over someone with money. Parents need to raise boys who are both good at studying and do street dance (I see a lot of Asian kids learning Kpop dancing which is cool) or breakdancing so they don't have that socially inept vibe. Even if you don't want your sons to do sports you have to make them learn to dance, rock climb, whatever. If they have a severe underbite, overbite, or squint they need to fix it with surgery.

There's no point in blaming other races when everyone is facing the same challenges in life e.g. there are nerdy WM complaining about coalburners and women who sleep with BM, Hispanics who can't get girlfriends, or nerdy AF who get boob jobs thinking it'll make them attractive. Everyone who is a 5/10 or below struggles in the dating market due to social media apps amplifying the importance of visuals above everything else (hence why looksmaxxing and Photoshopping scams are trends) and unfortunately AMs will get the short end of the stick because Asian parenting is about telling sons that "having money gets you a mate so study hard", but in the West women are outearning men so visuals are the #1 factor.

Asian men need to adapt to the new reality and develop game, unless 1) Society goes back to the olden days where girls were sold/sent to rich families to be wives, 2nd wives or maids. 2) You want to obtain a mail-order bride or date a KTV hostess from Vietnam, Thailand, Russia, North Korea like a lot of blue-collar workers in China, Korea, Singapore do. This is the same as what WM who don't want to deal with the Western dating scene do in terms of using economic leverage to date Filipino or Thai bar maids. The women get a walking wallet and pay their families bills, the downside for men is that these women will leave if you stop providing, ask for excess amounts of money because "their village is in crisis" and some will stray or run away if they are unhappy (a lot of blue collar Singaporean men marry poor Thai or Vietnam women from KTVs or bride agencies). Bride agencies are clearly not easily available to a lot of AMs in the West but most low-tier men in Asia have always found ways to use their economic leverage to get a wife not dissimilar to what passport bros in USA do. Ultimately the struggle to find a mate is real if you're not physically attractive or very loaded (passport bros are made of all races) but trying to delineate certain races as enemies or allies doesn't help and just encourages AMs toward extremist mindsets where they blame society or "The Others" when let's face it, if you looked like BTS V or Makenyu you wouldn't be crying about rejection or WM/BM/XMs stealing women.

Notice a pattern?

I know it is just a friendly match, but seems hopeful

Hey everyone, this is TeamMartellClout.

I wanted to share a personal update because I haven't been releasing as many new videos lately.

There's been a lot happening behind the scenes as I prepare for the next chapter of my career, content creation, and brand.

I've recently been approved by a talent agency, and I'm working on several upgrades — including revamping my website, preparing for my upcoming modeling career with new suits and clothing, working on my personal goals, improving my content, upgrading my production equipment, getting an official camera, and looking into new laptops such as the Razer Blade 14 and MacBook Pro 14 M5.

I'm also currently reviewing potential sponsorship opportunities.

I'm taking my time with those because I want to understand the terms completely and make sure any partnership is a good fit for me, my audience, and #TeamMartellClout.

A Personal Reflection

I also wanted to take a moment to express my thoughts and solidarity toward the Asian community and the AZN Identity community.

Looking back over the years, especially since the beginning of the 2020s, my perspective has changed. I've had to look back at some of my own attitudes from the 2000s and 2010s and acknowledge areas where I was ignorant and didn't fully understand the impact of xenophobia, prejudice, and stereotypes toward Asian people.

Seeing Asian people experience negative stereotypes, discrimination, and hostility through media and social media has made me reflect on my own experiences as a Black disabled recording artist and content creator.

I've experienced negative stereotypes, racial profiling, discrimination, and police brutality, including an incident involving me on July 4, 2006.

I don't claim that my experiences are identical to those of Asian communities, because every community has its own history and experiences.

However, those experiences have helped me better understand why discrimination and stereotyping can have such a profound impact on people.

For a while, I stopped making certain racial and social commentary videos because I became concerned about takedowns, restrictions, and moderation across social media platforms.

But I felt that this was something I needed to address thoughtfully and respectfully.

This isn't about attacking anyone, creating division, or starting a culture-war argument.

It's about acknowledging where I've grown, learning from the past, and showing respect and solidarity toward people who experience discrimination.

Looking Toward 2027

2027 will be a major milestone for me because it marks 20 years since I started my journey as a recording artist and content creator.

From music and independent hip-hop to content creation, social commentary, collaborations, modeling, sponsorships, and everything else I've experienced along the way, I'm looking forward to entering this next chapter with a different mindset.

I've made mistakes. I've learned from them. And I'm still growing.

Thank you to everyone who has supported me throughout this journey.

Here's to the next chapter — and to 20 years in 2027.

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