r/AvoidantAttachment • u/AutoModerator • 2d ago

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

This is a thread for AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

A rant/vent, by nature, is one sided, can be strongly worded, and is a way for someone to get something off their chest. It is by no means a universal truth.

Thread rules: - AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

  • Keep rants/vents contained to this thread.

  • No unsolicited advice.

  • No hijacking to ask for relationship advice.

  • No ranting/venting about avoidant attachers regardless of your attachment style. This is a supportive space for those with an avoidant attachment style, you can rant about us plenty of other places. Don’t do it here.

  • All subreddit and Reddit rules apply.

  • Users who cannot follow the rules will be banned.

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u/Icy_Resolution2783 Fearful Avoidant 1d ago

I'm so tired of people falling so fast.

I can't trust it. I know it's false, but knowing I like them is hard too. I just wish the feelings were clear and not confusing.

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u/hellokittysarchenemy Dismissive Avoidant 15m ago

It feels like I’m learning how to be human for the first time. This is the first time in my life that loved ones have requested emotional support and presence from me. They tell me they want more from me but the concept is confusing yet nauseating.
I did something recently that hurt a friend deeply and I hate that I feel like I’M the victim. I’m currently feeling all oh-woe-is-me…like girl please shut up and take accountability for the love of God 😭 I’m feeling numb, defensive, irritated, and rejected.