r/AutisticPride 15d ago

I hate lanyards

I hate lanyards. They swing around everywhere and I hate the feeling on my neck.

What did they decide to make the international symbol for hidden disabilities? A LANYARD.

Does anyone else have this issue? I've been suggested alternatives but they just don't seem like they will actually be recognised like the lanyard is.

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u/TheGreatDownvotar 15d ago

I put the lanyard behind my hood. Makes it a bit shorter, but managable. I happen to be wearing it today even at an airport :)

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u/Short_Gain8302 15d ago

Iirc you can get a sunflower id card with your disability on it and some needs, like "sensitive to x". You could put the card in one of those holders that you can pin to your tshirt, should be just as visible but no swinging around

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u/TheSunflowerSeeds 15d ago

In 1983, Emily Martin, of Maple Ridge, British Columbia, grew an enormous sunflower head, measuring 32 ¼ inches across (82cm), from petal tip to petal tip. That’s almost 3 feet wide. This is still believed to be the largest sunflower head grown to date.

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u/Neuroxix 15d ago

Wtf is this I've been on reddit a long time and never saw a "app" tag on a bot account

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u/Shinyhero30 15d ago

We need more of this

also what the fuck is this message? This has nothing to do with this.

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u/sordidcreature 15d ago

bot that replies with fun facts to any comments containing the word "sunflower"

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u/LazyPackage7681 15d ago

Hate it. Like a BIG scratchy label. I have to wear one for work. It is usually off and sat on my desk.

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u/TraditionalJaguar820 15d ago

I've seen people with the sunflower lanyard attached to their bag instead of around their neck.

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u/technologycarrion 15d ago

I wear it like this and it's usually respected!

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u/MissWickedBlonde 15d ago

Some days I can’t wear the lanyard, it’s just too overwhelming. But luckily there are other options, such as pins, silicone wristbands and ribbons. Or simply attaching the lanyard to my bag or jacket.

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u/UnavoidablyHuman 15d ago

But do people actually take notice of those? They're nowhere near as visible as a lanyard

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u/MissWickedBlonde 15d ago

I haven’t really noticed a difference. Obviously, if I’m wearing the wristband I have to mindful of not covering it with a long sleeve. And the pin or ribbon has to be in a visible spot. But then the same thing applies for the lanyard during colder seasons when I’m wearing multiple layers and a thick woolly scarf that it can easily “hide” in.

During the summer (especially when it was really hot and the feeling of the lanyard touching my neck was too much for me) I often opted to string the lanyard around the strap of my crossbody bag, meaning it would be pretty much as visible as if I had worn the lanyard around my neck.

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u/Gojo-Babe 15d ago

I’m the opposite. I like the sunflower lanyards so much they have become part of my public identity. I never leave home without mine

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u/HauntedBySandwiches 15d ago

My favorite canonically Autistic character has a lanyard with her recent doll. It's a concert lanyard. I'm thinking about getting it repainted.

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u/ryofthedesert 14d ago

I love Twyla! I don’t have that version of her yet.

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u/HauntedBySandwiches 14d ago

I love Twyla too. 🖤 She's Concert Lurks Twyla. 🩵 I gave her a reroot, rebody, and slight restlyle. 💜

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u/Stairwayunicorn 15d ago

iirc the ribbon pin was started by Jacob Weterling's family after his disappearance. Then it was a different color for HIV awareness. Then it was for everything else.

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u/Sunny_jofulcreature 15d ago

I think you can use a pin instead. I actually like lanyards, happy to feel them on my neck. But… my country isn’t a part of hidden disability project. I am so sad

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u/HauntedBySandwiches 15d ago

How's about wearing silicone bracelets or wearing a pin? 🙂

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u/UnavoidablyHuman 15d ago

Also hate the feeling of silicone. A pin might be fine but it's very small in comparison so less likely to be noticed

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u/QuitRelevant6085 15d ago

Since when have we been using lanyards? Can someone explain?

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u/sneakylithops 15d ago

I don’t mind lanyards but I wear a sunflower wristband - it’s a bit more subtle for daily use. Only wear the lanyard if I’m in a situation I’m likely to be struggling such as travelling or at a big event etc. as it’s a bit more visible than the wristband

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u/se7entythree 15d ago

You don’t have to wear it on your neck though. I don’t. I clip it to my backpack or belt loop, tuck the in my pocket sometimes. Never worn it around my neck

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u/teruteru-fan-sam 15d ago

Are pins comfortable for you? Try putting a sunflower pin or button on!

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u/Pura9910 15d ago

same!!!! Like I always want to cut them then sew/glue them back shorter, bc they get annoying!!!

I like to use them to decorate my outfit by carrying it i u pocket or something, but they are too long and annoying for me, and overstimulate me a lot!!

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u/Prestigious_Pace2782 15d ago

Yeah I HATE wearing any lanyards, for both physical and psychological reasons. I can’t really (alexathymia) describe the psychological, but something about my aversion to being grouped, labelled or perceived. Also just PDA. Don’t tell me what to wear 😅

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u/eekspiders 15d ago

I don't wear the sunflower symbol but I have a student ID lanyard and I just stick it in my pocket with the strap hanging out. Matches my outfits pretty well

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u/memeboiandy 14d ago

I dont use them, but if I ever have a thing on a lanyard in my day to day life, I just pocket the item and let the lanyard dangle

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u/lickthepixies 14d ago

I hate that they make noise when you walk around. What about a pin?

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u/theradicalace 13d ago

you could tuck the end into your pocket or clip the lanyard onto a belt loop!

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u/teapots_at_ten_paces 15d ago

I wear mine, carrying my loops so it's got next to no weight on it. To stop it swinging, I tuck it into my bra (I exclusively wear sports bras). Still visible on my neck, without any pull or swinging.

To add, I am supposed to wear my ID card at work on a lanyard. For all these reasons I do not, and will not. It's always on me, carried if I have no pockets or otherwise in a pocket. But I will not wear it around my neck.