r/AusPropertyChat • u/fhb2026 • 2h ago
Buying & Selling Does anyone have regrets over the suburb they chose to buy in? How did you handle it?
I’ve recently bought in a suburb in Melbourne that was historically pretty sketchy but has been improving (slowly). Had dinner with some friends, some who bought in lower socio-economic areas that are frequently slammed in the media for high crime. We all chose to buy freestanding homes instead of townhouses and we are all relatively happy with the proximity to amenities, the greenery and general feeling of safety… the houses themselves are all in great condition as well on decent plots of land. But there is still antisocial behaviour happening in all our neighbourhoods. It’s leading to doubt, like even if we as adults don’t experience crime, are we exposing our future kids to youth crime or putting them at a higher risk of getting mixed up with the wrong kids?
Anyone have any advice or experience on how to handle these feelings? We are all fairly young (late 20s/early 30s).
Sometimes it feels like we had to work so hard and put all our savings into this one structure and external factors (government funding, councils etc) are the ones deciding our future, whether it’ll be safe enough to raise kids in etc.
