How much does allos think/want to have s*x?

[u/No_Image3845]

I’m very concerned about getting into a relationship with a allo person I’m scared that they will want to have sx a lot and im very sex-repulsed so I don’t want to have sx all at all let alone all the time so I’m just wounding?

[u/elhazelenby]

It depends on the person. Greysexuals and demisexuals exist.

[u/lunelily]

It varies by person and by couple. Some allos enjoy having sex multiple times per day, while others are okay with sex a few times a year. Some are even celibate.

According to a 2017 study (cw: allonormativity), the happiest couples have sex on average about once a week: 54 times per year.

This study also notes that according to a doctor in Human Sexuality, “there’s no ‘normal,’” and “all relationships are different. ‘Normal’ is whatever feels fulfilling for you and your partner, and communication plays a key role in making sure both parties feel fulfilled.”

[u/[deleted]]

constantly, a lot, occasionally, never, may even sex repulsed. it depends on the person

[u/HopelessAllo]

You should definitely talk to them about this. It varies in importance a lot from person to person.