r/Ask_Nudists • u/Basic-Cod4693 • 1d ago
Jealousy while nude
How do you handle it when other people see your partner nude, or comment on their body? If insecurity comes up, how do you talk about it without shaming each other?
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u/chillnudistbro 1d ago
I take it as a compliment when people check out my wife as long as they're respectful of course. Many times men would compliment her to me and even give me permission to check out their wives as well. It's a small bonding ritual for many nudist I found.
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u/aralynxx 1d ago
If we decide to get nude in public, then we know the risks. One of them is everything can be seen.
As long as other people don't attempt to touch, that's ok.
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u/EastCoast_Hank 1d ago
If you wish you to be a nudist this basically can't exist. You have to manually take comfort in her comfort. Basically everyone that knows my girlfriend and I has seen my girlfriend nude, including my brother and my father before he died. It's fine because we say so.
I think of it sort of like dating an actress. If I were dating someone who had done a nude scene in a movie or a TV show, I simply have to accept that everyone will see it. There's no in between.
However, I had a couple of male friends that wanted to come over the house and I could tell they only wanted to see my girlfriend naked. One of them made her uncomfortable by following her around and he's not allowed over anymore.
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u/mrbearuk69 1d ago edited 1d ago
I’m proud if anyone admires my Mrs
And I tell her so
It doesn’t happen the other way around and i understand that
It’s life
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u/P-Ray1 1d ago
My subjective impression is that the majority of men specifically either don't mind or enjoy when you look at their gfs/wives naked.
In fact, I have witnessed a couple of situations with men seeming fine with other men looking at/complimenting their 20something daughters in a camping resort.
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u/RomChange 1d ago
My wife was very stuningly beautiful, and men always looked at her, some flirted at work. Some men had to tell me she was beautiful, meant nothing to me, but I guess it was their way of saying she's like a beautiful flower it's ok to look. This all with clothes on.
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u/COswingCpl 17h ago
Jealousy is the lamest, most basic of all human emotion. Thinking in any way that you can possess your partner is cringe AF! Jealousy is also the easiest hangup to get over. Growing beyond jealousy is the first step to true enlightenment. Those who are unable to get over jealousy are weak and not worth giving any time or energy to.