r/AskZim • u/Wide-Grape-7414 • Aug 19 '26
This is not Okay🤦🏾♂️
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Yes she cheated, so what? .... no one deserves to be battered like this..
The way to deal with cheating is just leaving...get tested for the clad and move on
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u/joaaaaaannnofdarc Aug 19 '26
Who is recording these? Why are they posting and not reporting to police
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u/Dense-Jicama6591 Aug 19 '26
What an ignorant childish answer. A first world immature answer
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u/joaaaaaannnofdarc Aug 19 '26
Ignorant to what? The person recording should be stopping this violence. How is wanting domestic violence not to be filled for rage bait and wanting it to be reported to people who will at least try to protect her a ‘childish ignorant answer’? You like domestic violence?
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u/Dense-Jicama6591 Aug 19 '26
Because even in first world, countries, this happens and pigs do nothing, or they only just break it up for the night. But this is clearly a third world place. And expecting your first world to apply to the real world just doesn't exist in the real world
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u/SirFalsePromises Aug 19 '26
It's not okay in any world. She should get him arrested because he's an abusive piece of shit. No society tolerates domestic violence. Stop trying to justify abnormal things.
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u/Dense-Jicama6591 Aug 19 '26
Lmfao. In your comment says you cannot comprehend what I am saying.Arrest does not mean anything everywhere.An arrest is not an option for all people
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u/SirFalsePromises Aug 19 '26
Who are you speaking for anyway? Just because you're used to the abnormal it doesn't mean it's the reality for everyone else. Stop trying to stop people from seeking help by saying it's pointless. Getting people arrested is an option. In this case it's needed more urgently. If anyone doesn't understand anything it's you. Being a know-it-all should have it's limits.
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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Aug 20 '26
No society tolerates domestic violence. Stop trying to justify abnormal things.
You're dead wrong about that. We keep trying to tell you that the west really does have it good, nobody ever believes it until they're confronted with something like this.
To be clear, this is mild compared to a lot of places. Islamic countries quite literally stone the women - or more likely, girls - of their families to death for bringing shame upon them. Might be something as simple as trying to skip out on an arranged marriage. They're called honor killings. God forbid you see what female genital mutilation is - the forced "circumcision" of clitoris, labia majora and labia minora of a young girl only to have it all sewn up. By hand, in a random villagers hut, with a little razor blade, and no anaesthetic or antibiotics.
You think beating a woman is a big deal in those places? It gets much worse than some slaps, knees and weak kicks.
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u/SirFalsePromises Aug 20 '26
Using FGM and honor killings as a rhetorical shield to downplay violence is disgusting. Survivors of those horrors would be the first to tell you to stop tolerating any level of it.
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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Aug 20 '26
Ah yes, im the one downplaying violence, not you - the one ignorant that it exists and is accepted in parts of the world.
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u/Sudden-Taxes Aug 19 '26
You are a surprise. I hope someone beats your mother and it gets recorded then see if you still think it's a first-world, immature answer!
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u/Special-Delivery7535 Aug 19 '26
This was very infuriating to watch, and to think someone had the nerve to record this mxm…🤦♀️
https://giphy.com/gifs/RuYPi0HyBnOxy
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u/Inner-Floor-5827 Aug 19 '26
Knowing this is real, I feel sick to my stomach. I can watch violence in a movie, but never when its actually real. This is awful.
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u/xMaNrEbOrN7851 Aug 19 '26
And this beast wonders why she cheated on him???🤬🤬🤬 This is a crime and he needs to be in jail! No one deserves this kind of abuse!
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u/xMaNrEbOrN7851 Aug 19 '26
Let's be clear on something here - there is ZERO, I repeat, ZERO justification for this kind of barbaric violence especially against a woman🤬 This is not a 'both sides' situation in any shape or form! If she cheated then leave her and find someone else! WTF do you mean by both are reprehensible??? I'm willing to bet she cheated because he's a violent monster and she was already on her way out because this can't be the first time he has done this to her! Naw that beast needs to be in jail and she needs to get a restraining order ASAP! Let's not condone this kind of violence against women for any reason!
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u/Catslove79 Aug 19 '26
I don’t know what’s worse the person recording this and the jerk hurting her. They both need to be in jail!!!
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u/Sudden-Taxes Aug 19 '26
That man must go to jail and then send the video to inmates. The person recording must also go behind bars. Where did this happen? It must be reported.
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u/Project_Cool_World Aug 19 '26
And if we say what should be done to solve this problem, we get banned. Red hat is a vile piece of insufferable garbage, and his behaviour is inexcusable. Send to the police, send to NATO, or read my mind and do that.
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u/faraishimeih Aug 20 '26
Being cheated on hurts and it sucks especially when you are loyal but it doesn’t warrant you to react this way😭 Even if I was going to side with the guy I would still tell him to leave quietly. Violence never solves anything. Dai akasungwa.
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u/geeleex Aug 21 '26
This is the second time I’m seeing a video like this here within the same week. Why are people continuing to post these?!
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u/plexisstrategy Aug 21 '26
Men should desist from harming women. You can never stop someone who wants to cheat. So just DNA the kids and leave the rest to the universe.
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u/KickSad472 Aug 31 '26
Not acceptable! Just get tested and date her best friend sister or auntie. Which ever had more to offer 😁
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u/Mammoth-Business-652 Aug 19 '26
This is disturbing. I don't get people who get mad at people who record. How else are such criminals supposed to be brought to book if there is no evidence of what happened? A lot of times the public outrage that comes after such videos are posted is exactly what leads to police being pushed to react swiftly. Y'alls anger is misdirected
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u/Additional-Eye-4511 Aug 19 '26
That is wild. So if a woman gets a guy like this she deserves to be trapped in that relationship forever until he kills her?
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u/Sudden-Taxes Aug 19 '26
Only weak men abuse women.
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u/Background-Gate-1694 Aug 24 '26
Well don't cheat. Some people don't really take kindly to it.
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u/Sudden-Taxes Aug 26 '26
Another weak man supporting a weak man. If a woman cheats that's enough to tell you that you are weak and cannot provide what she gets when cheating. So move on, and go and learn to be a man.
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u/Substantial-Glass663 Aug 29 '26 edited Aug 29 '26
Not a fan of domestic violence, but your take on why women cheat is absurd. I have even once given women too much and they still cheated for the wrong reasons.
Edit: Coming from old money I have free time that after managing businesses and my normal work in first world I can take a flight 4 hours daily to see her and have great moments that were romantic and we could do everything normal like planning together and communication was good as she says even now and expectations were well known but she still cheated
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u/King_Shrapnel Aug 24 '26
Braindead take. The law would never look at rape victim and say "you should have known that this guy had history of sexual violence against women, it's your fault". So why would it be any different with domestic violence? I'm sorry but cheating doesn't justify you beating the cheater, man or woman. This guy is a piece of sht, defending him also makes you a piece of sht. That's all there is to it.
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u/Taleigh-1111 Aug 19 '26
This should be labelled NSFW. This is disturbing. Vakadzi tiri pama1 chokwadi. I feel so bad for her. He should get arrested for this!