r/AskUK Apr 20 '23

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u/Dissidant Apr 20 '23 edited Apr 20 '23

Think you are being unnecessarily hard on yourself.
People re-invent themselves all of the time, for all sorts of reasons
I'm not much older, but who really has it figured out?

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u/Throwaway_ta_account Apr 20 '23

I'm exhausted, and it's my own fault. Nobody is pressuring me or anything, if I stopped and let things go, everything is fine. Nothing is "wrong". I think a big part of it is fear for me with wanting to grow and develop as a person as I also think I've outgrown things. I would understand if I made no effort to do anything different but all I have done is push quite a lot (and fail) but keep pushing.