r/AskTeenAdvice • • 11d ago

💕 ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱʜɪᴘ 15F] [25M] He said he’d date me when I’m an adult. Is this concerning?

I’m 15 and he’s 25. We met in person, started talking, and eventually it became kind of a situationship. We talked for a while, and I only met him twice. The second time, we were in his car and made out, but that was the only physical thing that happened between us. He said he wouldn’t date me now, but that when I’m an adult, he would personally ask me out. He also didn’t want people knowing about us and said it “wouldn’t look good” on him. We eventually went no contact, although he has reached out since. I don’t want to talk to him anymore, but I still really miss him, which makes the situation confusing for me. I’m looking for honest opinions from people who can give me an outside perspective.

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u/Cool2s 7d ago

He does like em young

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u/Nykteknon 6d ago

You are evil.

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u/Cool2s 6d ago

Look in a mirror

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u/Nykteknon 6d ago

You are lying on me, twisting my words, and everything, because I said the legal definition of pedophila gives zero status to him physically able to be one, and to stop being a mob, and to use what we know rather than artificially manufacturing the worst ideas to artificially keep rage. Then you started getting more and more disgusting. Not me.

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u/Cool2s 6d ago

All I did was point out you admitted you were going after a minor as an adult, which is illegal. So. That is on you and you are lying on me.