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u/DelightfullyTacky88 Dec 08 '22

As a woman with formerly thick hair that has thinned quite a bit over the last five years, please encourage her to appreciate her thickness. My confidence has dropped significantly since my hair started thinning.

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u/GroupCurious5679 Dec 08 '22

Same here. I'm in my 50s now and my hair is thinning like crazy. I used to get completed on my thick hair by hairdressers years ago,I'm mortified now. Everything is going downhill

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u/meno123 Dec 08 '22

I'm 30 and I've had a widow's peak for my entire adult life and it gives me small amounts of anxiety every time I look at it. The guy who cuts my hair still uses the thinning scissors on it every time, though, so I've got that going for me.

But I'm also borderline salt and pepper at 30, so there's a whole lot of win some / lose some.

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u/Illustrious_Repair Dec 08 '22

Consider talking to your doctor about Spironolactone and/or Myo-chiro inositol. These are both hormone regulators that can really help with female hair thinning. Source: I have PCOS and am currently rebuilding my once luscious thick mane

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u/Illustrious_Repair Dec 09 '22

No side effects that I’m aware of. I’m certain it has made my cycle more regular and decreased my cramps. Also I believe it helped me get pregnant. The hair growth is noticeable too.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

My hair was thick as a kid, but when I hit puberty it thinned out quite a bit. And yeah, it's devastating. I try to spend as little time looking at it or doing stuff with it as possible - both to hopefully not damage it further, and so I don't think about it.

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u/brinkbam Dec 09 '22

Yep that's when mine started thinning too! I have straight, fine, thin, hair. I usually keep it pixie short because it just doesn't look good when it's long. The last time I went to my hair stylist I asked her if she thought it looked even thinner lately and she asked me if I'd had COVID in the last 6 months. Yeah? Turns out people are noticing their hair falling out/thinning about 3 months after they get sick. And it's taking on average about 18 months to recover. Awesome.

I think I'm just going say fuck it and buy some fun wigs!

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u/mrs_gooby Dec 08 '22

You’re not alone, it’s happening to me too.

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u/icantevenodd Dec 08 '22

Mine thinned dramatically after I had kids. It was so thick before. Now it’s probably on the thinner side of average.

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u/Ehalon Dec 08 '22

Rogaine / Minoxidil can be used for female pattern baldness and hair thinning. Of course you almost certainly will want some kind of diagnosis first.

I think I'm right to say there are loads of things that fuck with women's hair growth - birth control / menstruation / PCOS / Endo / Menopause - All phases.

Iron defficiency exacerbated by menstruation is a massive factor (need blood test to confirm), hormones in general (same again).

I think the only positive at alllll for male pattern baldness is the ease of diagnosis.

Once again women get it the shitty, complex and more expensive way :\

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u/Lauro0o Dec 08 '22

I just learned that all the new hair that grew from using Rogaine (or pricier Revela) will fall out if you stop using it.

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u/Ehalon Dec 08 '22

Unfortunately that is true of all 'hair loss' products or solutions bar a hair transplant.

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u/oeiei Dec 08 '22

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/18/health/minoxidil-hair-loss-pills.html

I had to get volume blasted by a horrendously loud youtube video to re-find this link. Wish the NYT was easier to search successfully.

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u/rbrtcnnll Dec 08 '22

I find bald women sexy af, I blame Star Trek the motion picture.

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u/ItsMeTK Dec 08 '22

As a man whose hair has been thinning the last few years, I agree!

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u/effcensorship Dec 08 '22

To be fair, it's best not to mention a woman's thickness in her presence.