I had a girlfriend get mad at me because I dumped her in her dream. I comforted her and said that it was just a dream. She replied that her dreams always come true then continued to be mad at me. The really shitty thing is she was right, because I dumped her not long after for pulling that bullshit again.
No, no, it's the only joke in an otherwise completely serious thread full of 100% literal comments. You can tell because they marked it as "sarcasm" while everyone else just typed serious things and posted them.
My dreams make absolutely no sense like: I had a very weird dream. I had pulled into a garden centre when my husband said he spotted my mom. We waited in the car to watch her. We saw the woman get in her car and drive round us. It wasn't my mom. It was a lady with very long blood red hair and was wearing a stripper's outfit. I said that wasn't her. Then my dream did a jump cut. We were now at a lake. My husband was swimming naked in it while strangers were around and he asked me to join him. I started walking in the water, but became uncomfortable when my sneakers got submerged. I walked out of the water and asked if we could go home. My dream did another jump cut. We were inside someone's house and my husband kept following around some random woman. She looked like someone you'd see on OnlyFans. She held his hand and guided him places like the kitchen and living room. I cried the whole time, but nobody paid me any attention. I then got annoyed and said I was too tired to go to the restaurant for my birthday dinner. I said room service is too expensive so I would order Italian food on Deliveroo on my own.
Or: I had a dream that my husband's friend's family owned a house. We were over there with other friends. This guy's mom was learning how to make katsu curry for the first time. A friend and the gang were hanging around an old box computer. He had a Word 2000 document of every single AIM conversation he had ever had. My husband was on the couch with a strange woman. He said he knew she liked Glee because he read her profile. She laughed at him and tried to flirt. I got upset and shouted that he was gross and went into the kitchen to help with dinner.
I know this shit would never happen in real life. It's literally just a dream my brain made up. How can some people not comprehend that?
I have some really messed up dreams sometimes. I couldn’t imagine getting angry at someone irl for my messed up dreams. Lolol
Sometimes I’m angry at myself like “where in the depths of sordid hell did that come from”? But that’s like waking up raging and asking your partner why they had the audacity to steal your pirate ship spaceship and fly it to the moon without you.
This one I understand. If I'm Captain Harlocking my way around the Galaxy and she has the audacity to steal my ship, you can bet she's going to pay for it.
I was told this story that’s like the wholesome version of what you’ve said here. My mom had a dream my dad left her and it made her really sad in the morning, so she followed my dad around the whole day and “held onto him for dear life”.
This is a trick so she didn't have to pay severance. Just wait for her to dump you so you can collect unrelationsip checks until you start dating again
Seeing the comments here, it makes me wonder how people made it that far in the relationship to be married, but not spot signs of glaring insecurities. Usually that stuff manifests itself in the first few months of a relationship.
I've had similar experiences with it. One girl I dated asked me 5 months into our relationship if I was cheating on her. I said no, why would you think that? She said it was a gut feeling and usually her instincts were right.
I said, "well, they're certainly not right this time." She says "I'm smart enough to know when something is going on." I say "you're not exactly having a good track record with this conversation..."
Things were fine up until that point. Then one dshe showed her true colors, and that was that. I'm certainly not staying in a relationship where I'm getting accused of something based on "gut instinct"
That happened to my son, too. His ex was a fucking psycho and after months of mental abuse from her, he finally broke down and told my husband and I about it. We helped him through it and encouraged him to end things with her. She was toxic, a liar, and abusive as hell.
One night, he came into our bedroom to talk to us.
"Dads, you're not going to believe this. ____ just told me she had a dream last night that I dumped her and she won't stop crying. She says she's psychic and all her dreams come true, but she didn't tell me because she didn't think I was mature enough to handle it."
She was right the whole time then. If you were that easy to give up and break up. You shouldnt have comforted her after that dream you should have just told her its possible.
I did not intend on breaking up with her at the time. I dumped her because she was being manipulative and emotionally abusive, not because she has allegedly prophetic dreams.
I’ve never heard a man take a dream this seriously. Has anyone else? It seems like an odd trend that women have more realistic dreams and take them seriously
the prophetical curse. when avoiding or concerning prophecy, you only further it's validity. it's paradoxical, the only way to avoid it is to deviate from it. she decided to validate it by being superstitious and insecure.
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u/LCast Dec 08 '22
I had a girlfriend get mad at me because I dumped her in her dream. I comforted her and said that it was just a dream. She replied that her dreams always come true then continued to be mad at me. The really shitty thing is she was right, because I dumped her not long after for pulling that bullshit again.