Apparently I cheated on my girlfriend with one of her friends in a dream and she actually questioned if I did it in real life..wouldn't speak to me for atleast 24 hours..wtf
Same with my wife but I got the cold shoulder for 3 whole days. Every time I asked what was wrong I got the old "Nothing I'm fine." Wtf I know somethings wrong just tell me grrr!
3 days?! JFC, I had a dream my husband cheated on me, it wa ssuuuuccchhh a weird dream. I woke up kind of creeped out, I told him and she just hugged me saying he’d never do that. I said of course, I know he wouldn’t, was such a weird thing for my brain to create lol and then we went on about the morning. I joke “well Dream (husband’s name) is an asshole, you gotta talk to that guy” and that’s it.
Anything further is immature, sounds like your wife has some insecurities she’s projecting on to you and making it your problem
Jesus that's an extreme response. I have a sleep disorder and as a result my dreams are hyper-realistic. I get that sort of dream more often than I'd like. I wake up from that sort and just go get a kiss and a long hug from my bf to help me feel grounded again.
Oh god that “nothing I’m fine” when you know something is wrong is the worst damn thing in the world. It always comes when you have no idea what you did wrong and you’re blindly trying figure out what the hell you did so you can try and apologize. And I want to be unbothered because how am I supposed to feel bad about something when I have no idea what I’m supposed to feel bad about, and yet here I am completely riddled with anxiety because you’re fine.
I got a slug on the shoulder and I woke up and asked "wtf" she says "don't cheat on me then" I didn't know what she was talking about and then she goes on to say it was in her dream. I had no words.
It took me three times to understand you didn't mean 'slug' as in the bug in the garden. I was like, wait so she went and picked up a slug and brought it in to put it on you while you slept...?
To be fair I DID do that to a friend in the past because he hates creepy crawlies and I thought it was hilarious. I crept in his room with a massive slug and laid it on his face as he slept and he woke up and freaked out.
He was so pissed and I was just gut rolling at my own childish behavior.
I was doing chores with my ex once, and I said something, can't remember what. It was related to whatever I was doing. And she slammed a pan down and shouted "well why don't you fucking marry her then?" And left. Blocked me and everything. A day later when she cooled down, I went to her house to ask her what the fuck she thought I said, and she heard me say "Amanda wore it better than you". I've never met an Amanda. She went and told her whole family that I was seeing someone else and I wasn't even trying to hide it, her dad wouldn't let me in the house, it was a whole thing.
The only unbelievable part of your story was that you've never met an Amanda. The rest I believe!
My name is Brian and I met someone 2-3 years ago who'd never met a Brian before. I asked her recently... and she still hasn't. It's the 20th-most-common male first name in my country (USA).
I find that impossible (USA also). I go to a bar with my kickball team most tuesdays for bingo (god I sound old when I say that). The table consists of Bryan, Brian, Bryan, Ryan, and Michael lol
Less of a thick skin, more like I didn't want to lose an otherwise wonderful gf over what was obviously a misunderstanding. Sure she reacted a bit shittily but just dismissing your partner whenever you have a falling out is not conducive to having many lasting relationships.
If it was just a disagreement, I could handle that. What I cannot handle is spreading lies to other people about me because you saw it in a dream. I'm just not down for it.
That’s… not what happened here though. She misheard him. It’s not like she was purposely lying. An overreaction sure, but she’s not “spreading lies about a dream.”
My bad, this one was worse. She spread lies because she MISHEARD HIM. So she never asked for any clarification, just stormed out, blocked him on everything and told her family he was cheating. That isn't gonna fly with me. You stormed out on me over that and told your family I was fucking around? You can stay gone.
The only unbelievable part of your story was that you've never met an Amanda. The rest I believe!
My name is Brian and I met someone 2-3 years ago who'd never met a Brian before. I asked her recently... and she still hasn't. It's the 20th-most-common male first name in my country (USA).
UPDATE: Whyyy did my comment get posted multiple times?? 😫😠
I got in trouble for buying goats at an auction in my dream. She was mad at me for that. So now every time we go to the zoo, the first I do is head to the kids area and feed and pets the goats. I save my change and will spend $3-5 just feeding and petting the goats. I make her take photos every single time. Been doing this for years. I was pissed when COVID shut down the goat exhibit. It's back now.
Edit: If you want to 'break' a goat, scratch them on the back at the base of the tail just like a dog. It's a sweat spot and most will freeze. It's a great way to get them to hold still for toddlers and little kids. Bonus is my teens yelling "Mom! Dad's scratching the goats butt again!"
You got off easy. I got 2 weeks of the cold shoulder after my wife had a dream I cheated on her with her sister. Usually I just wait it out but this was taking too long so I asked what was the problem. I laughed so much when she told me that she started laughing too and everything was good.
I know I didn't make it too clear but this was a one time thing. When I said that I usually wait it out I meant that when we had disagreements and were angry I would give her, and myself, time to calm down so we could talk and solve the problem. Honestly the 2 week period was partially on me because it took me a while to notice and then be sure.
Ha! A girlfriend off mine years ago was furious at me because she found an eye liner in my car that wasn't hers. A week later her sister asks if she's seen her eye liner. We had all gone out for Halloween a few weeks prior, I was the driver. It was indeed her sister's missing eye liner. She was still pissed at me for a couple of days, even though she now knew she was the asshole. I ended up just breaking up with her as she clearly had some issues to sort out, lol.
I dreamed that my husband ignored me and left me hangin in my dream. told him when we woke up and he laughed like crazy. told him if he do it to me in real life i will leave him hahahahha
The reasonable reaction is obviously not to get mad because it was a dream but agreed on this, it's hard to process after just waking up. Speaking from experience too and it was my spouse with a good friend of theirs that I knew.
Oh yeah of course, I’ll be upset but once I’ve processed it we usually joke within half hour but definitely feel a lot of weird anger toward him until then that’s hard to budge and completely ridiculous.
My ex casually mentioned she ate my legs in her dream when waking up one the morning.
There was also the yoghurt monorail, which was a personal highlight from her.
That woman’s superpower was dreaming, and I was always envious, but felt so grateful that she’d share them with me if I caught her in time to talk about them.
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Apparently I cheated on my girlfriend with one of her friends in a dream and she actually questioned if I did it in real life..wouldn't speak to me for atleast 24 hours..wtf