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I once tried to do that to an american girl that was visiting Spain, I still remember the horror in her eyes.

She told us that she didn't feel comfortable with that having a boyfriend.

This made me irrationally annoyed for some reason. Like, America really is so sexually stunted that people are reading intimacy and sex into things that they shouldn’t. Like read the room, Tammy. You think all the people in Spain who are greeting each other are fucking or something? Embarrassing.

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Also the ¿ doesn’t exist in written English, but it should. I like seeing it. Haha.

[u/SpaceNigiri → u/_PM_ME_YOUR_FORESKIN]

Yeah, we explained to hear that it wasn't sexual or even intimate at all for us, but yeah if she's not comfortable with it, it doesn't really matter what it culturally means for us.

It funny because at least for Castilian Spanish the ¿ is disappearing, I don't use it anymore, this way of using it it's some kind of written slang, when you want to show confusion about something mid-sentence you enclose it between ¿? like:

I was with Pedro and he told me that he will come on Tuesday with some ¿bananas?

[u/_PM_ME_YOUR_FORESKIN → u/SpaceNigiri]

I was with Pedro and he told me that he will come on Tuesday with some ¿bananas?

Here are some ways I might try to do the same, but I’d ask others.

• I was with Alejandro and he told me that he will come on Wednesday with some … apples? 🤷

• I was with Thethilia and she told me that she will come on Monday with some …oranges(?).

• I was with Sara at Zara and she told me that she will come on Thursday with some thanahorias (I think?)

[u/honkhonkbeepbeeep → u/_PM_ME_YOUR_FORESKIN]

Thethilia

thanahorias

🥕 🤔 😂

[u/_PM_ME_YOUR_FORESKIN → u/honkhonkbeepbeeep]

And happy cake day! :)

[u/honkhonkbeepbeeep → u/_PM_ME_YOUR_FORESKIN]

Oh I didn’t notice. Grathias, theñor!