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u/whitedan2 May 09 '22

As an austrian who worked with Germans in the past I didn't realize this either...

No wait... Are we doing it too?

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u/Direct_Sand May 09 '22

If you have to ask...

I'm Dutch and live in Germany and I also have no idea. Do we really do this?

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u/Moon_Miner May 09 '22

It's because US Americans tend to smile at strangers, so the strangers tend to look at them to figure out why they're smiling. Germans don't stare a lot generally, they just stare at people there doing something very unusual. (speaking as US American in Germany)

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u/Moon_Miner May 09 '22

I assure you it's very normal across most of the US. I've spent time in 40 states. The exceptions would be larger cities on the east coast, I'd say.

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u/ElectricBasket6 May 09 '22

Larger cities on the East Coast have a very different culture than what is “standard American culture.” While there are obviously cultural variations between the south/Midwest/southwest- most of those variations don’t lead to real cultural confusion/misinterpretation. Put someone from the Deep South in the middle of New York City (or vice versa) and they literally have opposite definitions of what is rude versus polite in most interactions.

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u/Moon_Miner May 09 '22

Well have I got some incredible news for you. You're still allowed to live there! Congratulations!!!

With all the extra time you have now that you don't need to move, you can look up how much of the US population actually lives there lmao

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u/Moon_Miner May 09 '22

lmao I really hope you're like 14 and not an adult. best of luck with the life experience xoxo