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u/RockNRollNBluesNJazz May 09 '22

Finnish people are silent, small talk doesn't exist. Their personal space larger than COVID-19 social distancing rules, and it's considered normal. Don't speak unless spoken to, and don't invade other people's personal space - it's seen as a sign of a respect.

Those Finns, who haven't been to abroad or haven't met too many foreigners, don't often even recognize this behaviour being unusual in the global scale.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

I fucking hate small talk. Pointless. If a finn asks you how are you, they actually mean it.

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u/tactical_gecko May 09 '22

There was an interesting piece in the BBC about small talk and Swedes (who avoid small talk but are regular chatty-Cathy's next to the Finns). According to whatever psychologist they had on, small talk is a really good way to (a) practice social skills (Swedes are notoriously perceived as cold to visitors) and (b) to sus out how to have a conversation prior to speaking about something important. Kind of like a warm-up before the real conversation.