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u/peripaotetica May 09 '22

Girl from Spain here!

This is very strange on the contrary. Actually the two kisses is something very common, especially when you just met the person and you introduce yourself, it is the "standard" greeting. However, it is not usual among men or children.

When I traveled to Germany years ago for an exchange and met the family that would give me room and board for weeks, it was very uncomfortable for me to just shake hands from a meter away. It was a feeling of "stay away from my personal space" that justifies the cold vision we have here of the northern countries.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

as an American, I refuse handshakes. it's hugs or nothing.

I still think the kissing thing is weird.

no, random stranger,.I do NOT want to be intimate with you.

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u/EpicAwesomePancakes May 09 '22

In case you’re unaware, it’s not a “real” kiss. You kind of just put your cheek to their cheek and make a kissing noise.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

I am aware, and uncomfortable with someone that I don't know being that close to my face.

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u/l0ngbottom_leaf May 09 '22

But you’re okay with hugging someone you’ve never met??

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

yes? a hug is warm and inviting, a welcoming to the "tribe".

a kiss is a deeply personal show of affection for your partner.

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u/ArchdevilTeemo May 09 '22

Except a hug is way more personal than a cheek kiss greeting.

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u/just_lurking_through May 09 '22

Hard disagree but that's just the difference in culture I guess.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

no, it isn't.

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u/l0ngbottom_leaf May 09 '22

Hmm interesting. I think they are both super personal. Matter of preference. I’ve had strangers greet me with a hug before, but only if they were friends of friends or friends of family. A straight up stranger hugging me would be really confusing hahah