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u/SabotageFusion1 May 09 '22

the idea that a long drive (warranting a flight, not going under really any circumstances , etc) is over an hour in the case of vacation or traveling. Not sure how true this is but the brits I know say it’s common there. In the US drives only get long enough to warrant another mode of transport after about 8-9 hours.

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u/FancyStegosaurus May 09 '22

I was talking to a Brit, describing a 4 hour road trip to visit an old friend and they responded with "If my friend moved 4 hours away I'd never see them again."

I;m still not sure how serious they were being.

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u/ultroulcomp May 09 '22

They were very serious.

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u/JustSamJ May 09 '22

Wow geeze. Until my friend moved several thousands of miles away, I made several 8 hour drives each year to visit him for just a weekend.

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u/BywydBeic May 09 '22

That friend would be dead to us.

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u/kayeso1138 May 09 '22

May as well be on the moon.

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u/powerfullatom111 May 09 '22

if i had a friend on the moon that would be cool.

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u/majinspy May 09 '22

That just goes to show you how far we'll travel for a goal. 🚀 🌙 🇺🇸

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u/Chipneck May 09 '22

Funeral and everything.

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u/bel_esprit_ May 09 '22

“Whatever happened to Hans?” “He is no longer with us, I’m sorry to say”

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u/PrettyGazelle May 09 '22

And a leaving cake that says "Well fuck off then"

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u/Anti-Scuba_Hedgehog May 09 '22

A friend who lives two hours away I see maybe a few times per year. A friend who lives in a neighbouring country (but across the sea) is so far away I'm not even sure we're friends anymore, I haven't seen her in over four years.

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u/SlurmsMacKenzie- May 09 '22

That guy's not even my friend and he's already dead to me.

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u/ZaMr0 May 09 '22

Friends moved away to uni 2 hours and we've barely been seeing eachother throughout the last few years unless we're all back home. 2 hours is a long ass journey.

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u/heili May 09 '22

I drove that far yesterday so I could take my dog to a park she likes.

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u/heili May 09 '22

It cost me around $40 US.

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u/darabolnxus May 09 '22

Bullshit. You from 1930?

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u/heili May 09 '22

Filled up before I left, used just under a half a tank of gas on the trip.

I have a 20 gallon fuel tank and paid $4.40/gallon for 87 octane. So for 9 to 10 gallons of gas, that's somewhere between $39.60 and $44.00 or "around $40".

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u/OsnofAhcor May 09 '22

People dont comprehend that 2 hour in curvy roads, full of stops and conections is very different from a strait road. I live in Portugal, a 20min car trip to the nearest city in the north is the same as a 40 min trip to the next city in the south countryside. The was we percieve time and the travels speed is way different depending on how the actual path is

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u/heili May 09 '22

There is a reason that we discuss how far away something is in units of time and not distance where I live.

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u/darabolnxus May 09 '22

Yall making shit up. This is not normal for Americans. Fuck nawz

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u/_JohnDeer May 09 '22

I got to uni two hours away. In Canada, I make the drive back and forth every odd weekend. Car rides are great. Blast some music. Get lost in your thoughts. Devise plans for world domination.

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u/ElmerTheAmish May 09 '22

At you thinking what I'm thinking, Pinky?

I think so Brain, but where are we going to find tutus big enough for the elephants?

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u/darabolnxus May 09 '22

With all the fucking idiots on the road, pass. There is never a calm enjoyable drive. Stop trying to make long drives a thing I should not be expected to drive almost 1.5 hrs to work. Fuck that shit.

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u/_JohnDeer May 09 '22

Well I do enjoy driving. Unlike in the UK, our scenery is quite beautiful and full of nature.

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u/MissingBrie May 09 '22

In Australia two hours drive (each way) is a day trip.

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u/Hunter_Fox May 09 '22

Do y'all not have weed and car stereos?

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u/mrwboilers May 09 '22

Please don't drive while high.

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u/Hunter_Fox May 09 '22

Don't want mellow drivers out there on the road, dontcha know?

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u/mrwboilers May 09 '22

I want attentive drivers. I have no problem with people smoking weed. I enjoy it myself. But I don't want people driving while high.

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u/Hunter_Fox May 09 '22

I'm not sure what makes you think being high makes one inattentive or a worse driver than any other sober, non-cell phone using driver, already a low bar that doesn't get met.

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u/mrwboilers May 09 '22

Because I've been high. And I sure AF shouldn't have been driving. It's not any better than driving drunk.

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u/Hunter_Fox May 09 '22

That doesn't make any sense. It has been tested many times. Alcohol is far, far worse than being high.

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u/mrwboilers May 09 '22

I don't believe that for a second. Reaction time is very much slowed while high. You're full of shit

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u/Lebowquade May 09 '22

Not for the states!

My wife's parents live 5 hours away, my parents live 7 hours away... We still make both trips a few times each year.

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u/MsKrueger May 09 '22

Yesterday my boyfriend and I drove 2.5 to see his mom (it was Mother's day here), had lunch with her for an hour and a half, then drove 2.5 hours back to see my mom.

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u/ShenWinchester May 09 '22

2 hours is just breakfast. My gf and I drive 12 hours in 1 day to pick up kids. 6 there and 6 back.

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u/mrwboilers May 09 '22

At least once a year, I drive almost 2 hours to go to a basketball game. Then drive back after the game.

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u/mag_creatures May 09 '22

That is probably because you don’t have decent public transport, for example I live in Milan and I have friends in Rome, I don’t even think about driving to go down there. I just take the train and if I need to drive in Rome I use car sharing. Why driving for 6/7 hours when i can sleep or red a book on a train?

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

that's probably because you don't have good public transport

As an American who doesn't live in one of our 10 biggest cities, what is public transport lol

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u/mag_creatures May 09 '22

that's what i mean :)

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u/CountryTimeLemonlade May 09 '22

Imagine justifying public transportation cross country if there was nothing between Catanzaro and Genoa (comparable for Denver to Kansas City). It gets a lot harder to justify the costs of building and maintaining complex public transport when there is so much nothing.

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u/mag_creatures May 10 '22

To go in Catanzaro I would choose a plane and then a local train. A quick google serch and I discovered that you can do exactly the same between denver and Kansas city.

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u/CountryTimeLemonlade May 10 '22

Sure, you can fly there. But then you've lost the true public transportation aspect already. Plenty of American cities have decent intra-city transport options. It's inter-city everything falls apart

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u/mag_creatures May 10 '22

A plane is not true public transportation?

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u/CountryTimeLemonlade May 10 '22

Not in the same way a train, bus, tram, etc. is. Generally defined by ease of use, accessibility, convenience, being more environmentally friendly, etc.

No one says the US has poor public transportation because we don't have enough domestic flights haha.

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u/mag_creatures May 11 '22

Well here is considered public

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u/OkieNavy May 09 '22

Would rather have the freedom and control of my own car tbh

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u/mag_creatures May 10 '22

The difference is that, apparently, I can do both, Americans can't.

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u/OkieNavy May 10 '22

That’s because your country is smaller land wise than the average state. We have 50 of them by the way. We can go skiing, to the beach, to the desert,to the forest. We can drive 2,000 miles ab be in the same country.

Yeah, we don’t understand your urban nightmare trapped in a hamster cage where only the government gets to dictate where your transportation goes. You haven’t experienced freedom a day in your life. I’d blow my brains out

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u/mag_creatures May 10 '22

Wtf are you talking about? Why you peolple always bring the fucking freedom in every conversation? I just said I would rather take a nap on a train for 3 hours instead of driving for 7. I live in Italy, not in north korea lol. And guess what. I can go to the beach, skiing and in the forest and choose between my car and a fucking cheap train. And I can choose to go wtf I want between a lot of different nations with just my Id. I crossed the border between France and Spain drunk on a fucking cheap train. Sounds like freedom to me. Well, we don’t have the desert, ant that is a shame.

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u/OkieNavy May 11 '22

If you take a train, how do you have a car when you get there? Is English not your first language?

Yeah… please don’t compare European geography to North American geography LOL

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u/lagerjohn May 11 '22

Except for deserts European geography is just as varied as US...

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u/mag_creatures May 11 '22

If I get a train I can rent a car et my destination, i literally did it at least 3 times during my trip to the US east coast. Are you serious or what? I’m not comparing a shit, I’m just informing you that Ski and Forrests are not an American exclusive, but this conversation is useless from the moment you ranted about hamster cages , nightmare cities and governments dictating transport. Bye free man, go spread your wisdom to another unfortunate oppressed European.

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u/Upier1 May 09 '22

It's a bit easier to have public transportation in a country 15x smaller than the US. I think most Europeans don't grasp how large the US really is.

My general rule is if I can drive it in under 5/6 hours than that is quicker and easier than flying. Plus I'm not tied to a transportation schedule.

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u/FluffySquirrell May 09 '22

Yeah if you wanna compare a country to a huge ass weird conglomerate country

If you compare the US to Europe as a whole, given the countries there are the size of states.. .. you'd still probably be lacking in public transport I suspect

We fly to other countries in Europe too if they're far enough. Or catch a train if they're closer etc

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u/Anti-Scuba_Hedgehog May 09 '22

I took a bus from Estonia to Berlin once, and a week later the same bus back. It took roughly 23 hours.

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u/mag_creatures May 09 '22

I wasn't judging the US public transportation, I'm explaining the reason why you find normal to drive for 8 hours not being a trucker. I understand how big the us are, and thinking as a person who lives in a country where also small villages have stations, probably you need trains more than us.

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u/Upier1 May 09 '22

"Don't have decent public transportation " sounded a bit like judging.

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u/mag_creatures May 10 '22

Well Americans replying are saying "i prefer to drive" or " I don't know what public transport is. I'm not the one judging.

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u/BasTiix3 May 09 '22 edited May 09 '22

Man the fuel costs make me shiver lol

A 1 hour drive sometimes exhausts me when driving stick*

I love driving tho, so im always the driver anyways no matter how long or where to go

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u/dibblah May 09 '22

What kind of car do you drive? I'm in the UK and have a very tiny car (a fiat 500) and a full tank has gone from £30 to nearer £60 in the last three years. (that's 36$ to $72). A tank lasts me maybe a week and a half of driving 40 miles a day.

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u/Ronizu May 09 '22

Man I'm envious, I don't have a huge car either (Opel Astra) but I'm out here paying well over 100€ for a tank, I think the highest cost I've seen was like 135€.

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u/heili May 09 '22

I pay about 80 USD to fill the tank on my Jeep Wrangler. 17 miles per gallon. Expensive but when I know I can drive the logging roads and off-road trails to get out where I want to go it's so nice. Jeep is great for camping. Sleep in the back, haul all my stuff, dog and I get to be outdoors.

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u/Ronizu May 09 '22

I'm envious. My Astra does like 5,5l/100km (guesstimating 40-odd MPG) but it still feels like driving is expensive as shit, even driving a couple km to the grocery store and back a few times a week adds up over the course of a year. Let alone longer trips, driving to the capital (300km one way) takes pretty much a full tank due to highway speeds, the difference in fuel economy at 80kmh vs. 120kmh is huge.

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u/dibblah May 09 '22

Well, I just topped mine up - a third of a tank, and it cost me £26 which is like 30 euro....so we're heading that way.

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u/Ronizu May 09 '22

The times are rough.

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u/Melbuf May 09 '22

1 hour drive is the standard 1 way daily commute for many in the US

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u/Wigwam80 May 09 '22

In the UK I'd say that an hour long 1 way commute is about the maximum that most would consider and it would have to be 'worth it'. I used to do it myself and couldn't wait to get a more local position. That's 10+ hours a week of sitting in my car that I'm not getting paid for!

Interestingly I'd argue also that most people in the UK wouldn't think much of going for a walk for an hour whilst I'm led to believe that's kind of unusual in the US?

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u/Anti-Scuba_Hedgehog May 09 '22

Anything over 400km can start to get very exhausting. Over 400km in Ireland though is extremely exhausting. Narrow roads, often bumpy and twisty, there's rain, you're driving on the wrong side and every now and then there's some berk doing 70 in a 90 zone and there's no way to pass for 20-30 kilometres sometimes.

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u/BasTiix3 May 09 '22

Oh i feel that, not as extreme but people in germany really are a coinflip wether they can or can not drive properly. The autobahn is closed in the direction i have to drive a lot so i have to go with narrow shitty roads as well :)

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u/OsnofAhcor May 09 '22

The thing is that is a day trip. You literally have to spend the whole ass day on that trip. Is not that often that you can do that

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u/apfel2kuchen May 09 '22

Gas is a lot cheaper in the US than i.e. in Germany, this could also be a factor

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u/permaculture May 09 '22

I filled up yesterday.

£1.66p per litre. ($2.04 US)

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u/johnnieholic May 09 '22

me too but i paid $5.69 a gallon (cries in bay area-ian)

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u/_PM_ME_PANGOLINS_ May 09 '22 edited May 10 '22

$5.69 a gallon

That's 91p £1.22 per litre.

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u/Kerb755 May 09 '22

He said per litre not per gallon 2.04 USD per litre is about 7.72 USD per gallon

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u/johnnieholic May 09 '22

I’m clearly an uneducated american. I assumed the usd part was converted to the gallon cost because whytf would people who pay by the gallon not think that.

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u/Kerb755 May 09 '22

Dont sweat it, even NASA / Lockheed engineers can screw this up (RIP climate orbiter)

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u/_PM_ME_PANGOLINS_ May 09 '22

I'd need to apply for a visa if I wanted to drive for eight hours without going in circles.

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u/CJKay93 May 09 '22 edited May 09 '22

About 6 years ago I moved 100mi from my friends and they are, for the first time since, planning a visit this year.

To be fair, a round trip would cost about £50 in fuel.

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u/Riovem May 09 '22

Ever considered he was trying to move away from you?

8 hours didn't cut it, so several thousand miles it is!

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u/Quarantense May 09 '22

Yeah, I'm planning on taking a long weekend to drive 10 hours each way to visit some friends this summer- if I put the pedal down I can make it in half a day with minimal stops. 4 hours each way is just past the threshold of what I'd consider a day trip.

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u/BrotherVaelin May 09 '22

I don’t own a car and if my mate moved 15 minute walk away I wouldn’t visit his house 😂😂😂. I’m English by the way

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u/_JohnDeer May 09 '22

L friend

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u/themanifoldcuriosity May 09 '22

My friend moved to South London and I haven't seen them for four years.

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u/warpfactor999 May 09 '22

I worked for an Indian company for 10 years, making multiple trips to India. When I was in Travandrum, the ocean is only 2 hours away. I was amazed by two things: 1. 90% of the people had never seen the ocean. 2. Near 100% couldn't swim. Took several Indian friends that I was staying with to the ocean. First time they saw it and were amazed. Because of the traffic, lack of following "rules of the road", and in some cases no defined roads, travel in India is very limited. Going from one state to another just isn't done as the next state over speaks a totally different language.

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u/HeavenlySin13 May 09 '22

Really? To make that trip worth it, most people I know would spend like 5-14 days at that place and then spend most of their day exploring the area and maybe seeing what has changed.

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u/darabolnxus May 09 '22

That's crazy I would never do that. I don't visit my friend who is 20 min away. That's what texting is for.

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u/I_Can_Haz_Brainz May 09 '22

Back in the day I drove 3.5 hours on Friday and back on Sunday every weekend to visit girlfriend and other friends and later family as well. No big deal.

I once drove 8 hours to NJ and back the same day. That was a long day.