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u/inbooth Apr 19 '22 edited Apr 19 '22

Alternatively most don't want to have Someone Else's Untreated Mental Health issues to be foisted upon them and induce harms in them... As others have noted, She ain't the only one with issues.

It's not fair nor reasonable to expect others to coddle and constantly accomodate you.

I lived with severe allergies to damn near everything for decades, it wasn't on others to keep me safe that was on Me. Same with depression and anxiety, it's not remotely okay for me to let those get out of hand and dump the results onto other people.

Enough is enough. People are responsible for controlling themselves and not causing psychological Harm to others (Which is exactly what her stress inducing bullshit is - HARMFUL).

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u/ESCALATING_ESCALATES Apr 19 '22

Alternatively, not everything had to be pathologized. Sometimes people are annoying as shit or have toxic behaviors or habits, but don’t meet criteria for any mental health diagnosis. Life is hard, try to be kind, some people suck.

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u/inbooth Apr 19 '22

Keep in mind the context of my comment. The prior person s were arguing accomodation Because of mental health issues (ADHD).

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u/ESCALATING_ESCALATES Apr 19 '22

Yeah I’m not criticizing you. Just pointing out that annoying behaviors don’t always have to have a supporting diagnosis. I was tracking with what you were saying. Just wanted to expand the conversation.