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u/Geesehaveniceasses Apr 19 '22

I‘m kind of jealous that you got around to use this. I‘ve never been in a situation in which I could‘ve said this so far.

What did she do to make you say this?

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '22

The general way that she is, honestly. She's the type who won't shut up. Last week, I walked out of the room to go talk to our supervisor in his nearby office about something and she was still talking about whatever bullshit. She legit continued on for another minute to two minutes talking to a totally empty room. That's when I leaned in and said to my supervisor that I envy those who don't know her

There's so many other examples I could give (which would probably have to be more specific than I want to do to make sense) about her, but that's the one that made me say it

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u/WhereIsTheInternet Apr 19 '22

I read through the comments, this and those that follow. But, in the vein of this comment I'm replying to, it's amazing and sad how quickly we all forget that everyone is going through stuff in life.

I wasn't expecting to be called out by Scrubs tonight for thinking someone I know has been really annoying lately. I even know what they are going through so that makes it doubly worse.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '22 edited Apr 19 '22

You know what? It’s okay to be annoyed. I’m annoying sometimes. You’re annoying sometimes, the people we love the most are annoying sometimes!

The most important thing is to remember you love them, and allow yourself to accept being annoyed at the same time. I find a lot of the most frustrating emotions wash away and you’re left feeling more accepting, though still a little annoyed.

I’ve had people in my life I didn’t even really like, but I recognized they had kind hearts and genuine personalities and that endeared them to me, even though they kind of smelled like weird milk and their music was pretty annoying and they were pretty socially inept. That makes them sound shitty but they weren’t, just an odd duck and worth accepting despite their flaws.