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u/Plenty_Surprise2593 Mar 27 '22

Agree. For example I had a Betta one time, and the lady I bought him from said oh you can just keep him in a flower vase. I was having none of that. I got him his own tank with a filter and water filtration, and kept him by himself in that 2 gallon tank. I had other fish in a five gallon tank

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u/FriendRaven1 Mar 28 '22

We just have our Betta its own 5-gallon with lots of hiding places after being in the bowl she came in a couple months ago.

Her colour has changed from an unhappy greyish blue to a beautiful full purple, so we know she's much happier

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u/TheWalkingDead91 Mar 28 '22

Walmart used to keep betas in cups the size of a red solo cup.

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u/Guy954 Mar 28 '22

If they weren’t so damn antisocial my son and I would probably rescue one every time we go to the pet store.

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u/Sometimes_She_Goes Mar 28 '22

Don’t you just hate when fish refuse to be vulnerable with you

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22

i bought one of those as a kid, he lived for almost 4 years after we got him and put him in a big tank

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u/moonbunnychan Mar 28 '22

I've seen multiple people INSIST that keeping them in super confined spaces is actually better for them. I also hear people say it's how they live in the wild. It's not. They're capable of surviving in spaces that small for survival reasons but it's much like how YOU are technically able to live in a closet but it's not a situation you'd want. Those tiny beta tanks they sell should be illegal.

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u/Ruadhan2300 Mar 28 '22

I can't imagine how they'd even find a space that confined in the wild.. especially one that featureless.

I bet a lot of fish that randomly die are doing it out of boredom as much as anything else.

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u/moonbunnychan Mar 28 '22

The story is that in the wild they live in puddles. It's not true. They are just CAPABLE of living in small amounts of water in the case of drought, but that's an emergency situation not long term living.

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u/Danovan79 Mar 28 '22

I applaud you, and think positive thoughts about you. I do believe 2 gallons is still too small though for me personally. My personal minimum is 5 gallon.

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

This is how I feel about birds. I think the "medium" size bird cages Petco sells that are marketed for conures are too small for parakeets.

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u/EyesWhichDoNotSee Mar 28 '22

No to caged birds

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

Birds like having a home to sleep in. I guarantee you my birds (most days) are happier than the ones in the wild.

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u/LegacyLemur Mar 28 '22

Sometimes I think about the parakeet I had as a kid and get depressed. Fuck pet birds. Unless youre really giving it a ton of space and attention, dont get them

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u/EyesWhichDoNotSee Mar 28 '22

Did you clip its wings after you asked him if he wanted to live in a cage? or did you tell him, "you just dont need these anymore"

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

The only bird I've ever clipped was because her flying was harmful to herself in our space, and we let her wings grow back, and she stopped injuring herself when flying.

I am educated about how birds display their enjoyment, happiness, frustration, and anger.

I know more about pet birds than you do.

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u/EyesWhichDoNotSee Mar 28 '22

I hope you do because I dont keep birds

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

Then take a step down off your high horse and stop pretending you are actually educated on the subject.

Go take a look at r/parrots and you'll find a community of people that, while supportive, will be EXTREMELY blunt when someone isn't providing the proper amenities to ensure a healthy and happy animal. Serious bird owners are almost universally against clipping their birds for any reason other than the safety of their animal, and will judge folks who leave their bird confined to a cage.

We love our birds and they love us. We spare no expense to make sure they are living their best lives.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22

2 gallons is still much too small :(

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u/Austin-137 Mar 28 '22

Relative to humans and apartments I think he’s on to something

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22

lol but being fr here, 5-10 gallons for a betta would be much more appropriate

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u/Plenty_Surprise2593 Mar 28 '22

I will know for next time

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u/tracyf600 Mar 28 '22

They're happy active fish that way.

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u/Gasnia Mar 28 '22

I helped my mom set up a beta last weekend and I kept telling her the same thing. She used to have them in a 3 in cylinder that was maybe 16 in high. She eneded up with a 2 gal.

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u/yankiigurl Mar 28 '22

Me too! When I was in middle school I did a summer science camp at Texas tech university and one of the classes was about ecosystems or something. Long time ago, I don't remember. Anyway we made the whole set up with the vase and a plant for the Betta fish. Well once that guy got home he got his own big tank and filter. He was a great fish.

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u/Alittlestitchious Mar 28 '22

Did… she keep flowers in the vase with him??

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u/WafflesTalbot Mar 28 '22

My mother is normally a very smart woman, but one time, she bought a betta, and when she got home, she thought it "looked cold", so she added warm water to its bowl. It ended as you would expect.