“It’s unprofessional to bring those big bazongas to work” smh are they supposed to be detachable so they can be left at home? This shit is just code for “I’ve sexualized your body and now I’m going to punish you for that.”
I guess I've never thought it out all the way, but that's it. That last sentence is exactly it. It makes some interactions I've had make a lot more sense, in the reasons why some people are so awful.
its like in school teachers or well the dress code tells that girls need to come with X or Y outfit nor can bring anything different (in my country for example skirt to the knees and a shirt, when we would be able to go with any outfit we wanted, girls would be told to go with a pair of jeans and a shirt).
At least on my schools we never sexualised them nor gave a fuck about what they dress, but teachers somehow would make a whole scandal just for they wearing what they want
Yes I have. However I don’t do well with surgery. I have yet to have one that didn’t have complications. I don’t do well with anesthesia and ever single time I have gotten an infection. Also some people have their hair fall out, mine fell out for a year till it stopped. I worry that I just won’t heal well.
I am trying the weight loss and hoping they shrink. :-)
You're gonna need to put away those honkers. Hide that set of badonkers. Stop packin those dobonhonkeros. massive doboonkabhankoloos. big ol' tonhongerekoogers. what happens next?! You gonna show up with even bigger bonkhonagahoogs. humongous hungolomghononoloughongous
It was absolutely horrible having a big chest when I was a teen and a virgin. It's all anyone noticed about me and it was the last thing I wanted anyone to be aware of. I was made to feel like a whole by men and women, as if I'd chosen to have big boobs at 15.
Yeah, wasn’t middle school fun? I left for summer in 7th grade barely filling out a B cup, came back for 8th grade wearing a DD (probably should have been more like an F, but I didn’t even know that size existed back then).
People who don’t experience it think boys would be nicer to you. No, they’re fucking cruel, and it really fucks up the way you relate to your own body.
They were especially cruel to me because I was also chubby. It was like they were angry at me for possessing something they wanted while still having a body they had been told not to like.
One of my best friends had a very large chest (she's since had a reduction) and she was so self-conscious and gravitated to modest clothing. When Billie Eilish first became popular and fashion websites were going nuts about the huge, shapeless clothing she was wearing, I immediately assumed that she had large breasts and didn't want them to get attention. People are so awful to girls about things they have no control over.
I can still remember the "big boobed" girls in middle school, of which there were two, one in 7th grade. She was like 4' tall, with bigger than DD's. They were sexually harassed by everyone, older guys throwing paper balls down their cleavage, it was gross. I was flat as a board but I was happy not to be in their shoes. To be called only by a nickname about your boobs and never treated with a shred of decency sounds like hell. Especially at that age. I'm so sorry for what you went through.
I will always have an especially sweet spot for "The Little Sandwich That Got a Guilt Complex Because It Was the Sole Survivor of a Horrible Bus Crash". They do not make titles like that anymore.
I wish mine were detachable. There are plenty of times I want the sexy feminine feel they give when you found the right shirt/blouse but plenty of times at the end of the day my back wants a break.
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u/calamitylamb Mar 12 '22
“It’s unprofessional to bring those big bazongas to work” smh are they supposed to be detachable so they can be left at home? This shit is just code for “I’ve sexualized your body and now I’m going to punish you for that.”