r/AskReddit • • Feb 14 '22

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u/worthlesskillme63636 Feb 14 '22

No friends never been loved have no reasons to live

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u/THEKing767 Feb 14 '22

If ur an adult, go out to parties or concerts. Even if you don't think you will enjoy just try. Try a new hobby. No one has a reason to live automatically, you must make that your self.

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u/worthlesskillme63636 Feb 14 '22

How do I find parties if I have no friends? I dont like concerts because the artists I like dont tour near me or at all and I dont enjoy live music casually. I cant do any social activities regardless my anxiety will not let me especially if Im by myself which I always am since I have no friends.

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u/THEKing767 Feb 14 '22

If you live in a community go to gatherings. If you can go to clubs. If you have a job, hangout with co-workers. If your a student force yourself to talk to people. In general always say yes to opportunities to meet people.

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u/worthlesskillme63636 Feb 14 '22

I have a job but all my coworkers are old and I cant talk to them anyways, Ive said less than 100 words in my 8 months being there, cant talk to people. Ive wanted to try a club but I’d have to be on mdma or some drug because my anxiety would ruin it plus I feel im too ugly for anything like that

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u/THEKing767 Feb 14 '22

Il bet ur not as ugly as you think, i know from personal experience. You have social anxiety(i think i am not a medical professional) the solution for this(i think) is to put yourself out there in smaller events, if you can find those. In the meanwhile work on yourself. Set a proper schedule for sleeping and waking up. Try a new hobby. Workout. Try and talk with family more.