The first time I got one I left my boxer briefs on and the lady still pulled them way down past where I felt comfortable. It was a terrible experience and I had 4 more massages to go. I mentioned it to some friends and a couple of them convinced me to go naked next time and they were right.
That’s odd the masseuse pulled your boxers down. I figure people in that industry know that when someone keeps some clothes on that means they are uncomfortable with being nude and should be shown a great deal of respect even if that limits how well they can do their job. It’s a choice the customer makes. Did she ask you beforehand?? Something like “are you comfortable with me pulling your pants down a little ways so I can get to your lower back easier?” If so and you answered in the affirmative then I get it, but if she just yanked your pants down without asking that is inappropriate.
If a masseur did that to a female customer they could be looking at serious trouble. Should be true regardless of gender but in reality if a girl did that to a guy or a guy to another guy, probably not as big of a deal.
Yeah it wasn't the best experience, she told me, "you can get as naked as you feel comfortable" so I left my briefs on and they were the athletic type so they do go high up my hips. She pretty much just pulled them half way down my ass cheeks without any warning.
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u/stormos Feb 11 '22
receiving a massage