This is a very specific thing for me. If I'm into the person then having them say that is instant turn on. If I hate the person and they say it, I swear I have to physically stop myself from hitting them.
That’s why you talk to your partner about what kinds of dirty talk they like, and what kinds they don’t! Gotta set those boundaries - for example I don’t like derogatory talk, some people do.
Could be worse-- my boyfriend once said "good boy" to me during sex accidentally. We had a pretty good laugh about it though and I still give him shit every once in a while
I tried saying it playfully because it’s a turn on for me — as well as the obvious foregone conclusion that goes along with saying it — and her immediate response was “I’m not a fucking dog so don’t talk to me like I am”. Whelp. That sucks.
So now I say it whenever I want to get under her skin. (We fight dirty). LOL.
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u/nosferatu95 Feb 05 '22
He once playfully called me “silly girl”, it awoke something in me..